It s the breakup he wants, and it s useless for me to keep it, and now he is saying such things, wha

At that time, he was very angry, so he proposed to break up, and now he regrets it a little, he still hopes that you can return to him, he doesn't take the initiative, such a person he is not the one who really loves you, if he really loves you, he will take the initiative to come to you, love yourself well, if he loves you, he will come to you.

It's hard to take back the water that has been spilled and the words that have been spoken, do you hope that a good horse will eat the grass?!

There are many kinds of people, either who don't care about you, it doesn't matter if they break up, or who have too much self-esteem and don't want to talk, find a place to cry, or respect the shape of compassion you choose. You give us too little information.

He wrote like this, not necessarily for you to see, maybe a text copied from someone else, just to post a circle of friends, because you have too many ideas. After reading your description, it's not what he wants, but how you want to go, and if you want to get back together, then it's better to talk to him directly.

Forget it, you can block it, I don't like you at all, I said I broke up, I thought you would go to him, but he didn't, and he felt uncomfortable. That's why I sent it to Moments on purpose to show you.

Judging from your description, this boy has a strong self-esteem, and he belongs to the upside, it's right for you to break up with him, don't care what he says in the circle of friends, people who understand you don't need to say it, and it's useless for people who don't understand you to say it.

This only shows that you haven't let go yet

If you break up, you don't have to dwell on it.

I'm a boy.,What he means should be that there are too many cracks in the problem between you and find that each other's personalities are not suitable.,Use external factors to answer.,It's a kind of escape.,Of course, he doesn't mean to solve the problem.,Love can solve each other's problems.,It's about thinking and not wanting.。

There are two possibilities, one: he doesn't love you anymore, and two: he has a second woman, so I advise you to break up with him, otherwise you will hurt your back. Better a finger off than always aching.

I think you should decisively choose to break up with this kind of boy, because this kind of boy is really irresponsible, and when you are with him, you will only feel more and more tired.

Maybe it's a tactful refusal, or he's deliberately hanging you. In either case, you shouldn't keep the other person. Dispel the idea of keeping the other person and live your life well.

I think I can break up with the other party directly, because the other party is rejecting you with such words, and he doesn't want to get back together with you at all, he just wants to hang you.

You should choose to break up, and the other party passes this to prove that there is no possibility between two people, so you don't want to contact each other again.

I think you should choose to give up, because there is no need, and a man's behavior like this means that he is already rejecting you.

It shows that the two people broke up incompletely. The other party feels that there is still a possibility of reunion, so they insist on keeping the other party.

It shows that he is reluctant to let you go and doesn't want to break up with you. Maybe it's just a moment of irritation, saying something that shouldn't be said, and doing something that shouldn't be done. Personally, if he does something very serious to you, then don't accept it, and if it's just a quarrel caused by some small conflicts, you can give him another chance.

This shows that after the breakup, after in-depth thinking, I feel that you are still good to him (her), although the surface is formally broken, but in fact the feelings are still very deep. So, I still insist on keeping you. It is better for you to consider it carefully.

Naturally will not give up, the relationship between men and women needs to run in and cultivate each other, and the breakup also needs a reason, a little contradiction may break up, in fact, each of them may take a step back and the matter may be solved, the same is true of the relationship, it is obvious that he does not want to lose you, so insist on retaining, hoping that they will have the opportunity to get along again. So you need to think about it. Naturally will not give up, the relationship between men and women needs to run in and cultivate each other, and the breakup also needs a reason, a little contradiction may break up, in fact, each of them may take a step back and the matter may be solved, the same is true of the relationship, it is obvious that he does not want to lose you, so insist on retaining, hoping that they will have the opportunity to get along again.

So you need to think about it.

Since you broke up, you insist on keeping you, maybe because of the frustration in your heart, and you suddenly realize your mistake, or you originally wanted to scare you in this way, who knows if you really broke up? As a result, I regretted it and wanted to keep you again.

Because I don't want to lose this relationship, I naturally won't give up, the relationship between men and women needs to run in and cultivate each other, and breaking up also needs a reason, a little contradiction may break up, in fact, each of them may take a step back and the matter may be solved, and the same is true for the relationship, it is obvious that he doesn't want to lose you, so he insists on keeping it, hoping that they will have the opportunity to get along again. So you need to think about it.

Since he broke up and wants to keep it, it proves that he still cares about this relationship very much, and he loves you very much, but it is just that there may be a disagreement and contradiction because of something, so it leads to a breakup, if there is no big problem, I think this kind of thing can be recovered, there is no need to break up because of small things, resulting in missing this beautiful marriage in the future.

A person who gets his ex back after a breakup may be because he still has an attachment to intimacy in his heart, maybe it is because he can't bear the erosion of loneliness when he is alone again, or maybe it is because breaking the once incomparably close connection will make him feel a wave of fear ......in his heartThere could be many, many reasons, could it be love? It's possible.

What is the psychology of people who will be redeemed after a breakup?

But if we wishfully think that it is love, and we are trying to determine whether it is love or not, perhaps we should ask ourselves, "What love do I want?" Why do I wish it was love so much?

Is it because my heart is also empty, longing for connection, or painful about being abandoned before, and desperately hoping to re-establish my value of being loved? ”

What is the psychology of people who will be redeemed after a breakup?

If only there were two simple facts of love or non-love between men and women. It's a pity that too many emotions and emotions appear in front of us in the cloak of love, which makes us even more unclear about what love is.

Since you are still insisting on keeping you after breaking up, it means that the other party still has you in their hearts, and the other party has long been accustomed to each other's existence. If you still have each other in your heart, even if you break up, you can reunite and get back together, if you don't have each other in your heart, for the sake of each other's future life, then resolutely refuse.

Since you have broken up, the other party still insists on keeping you, which means that he still has you in his heart and is reluctant to let you go, after all, he still has feelings for you, just because he doesn't want to lose you, so he will do his best to keep you, because he still wants to be with you.

If you break up and insist on keeping you, you may regret it. Or maybe it's getting used to being around each other. But in either case, if you feel it, you can continue to get along with each other, otherwise you should choose to refuse.

It must be because you can't let it go. Explain that the breakup is not due to lack of feelings, but to other reasons. So he regretted it and was unwilling.

Since you broke up, you still insist on keeping you, on the one hand, this is to show your generosity, on the other hand, because you proposed to break up because of your own impulse, after the real breakup, there are some regrets, so I want to do the last retention.

From love to breakup, everyone will carry strong pain and strong hatred, even if people are so painful and hate each other so much, they still have to do everything possible to seek reunion and redemption.

Many people think that they can't let go of this emotion, and feel that they have paid too much for this emotion; or to reach marriageable age; or the other party's conditions in all aspects make them feel satisfied; I even feel like I can't find a more suitable one, etc.

More or less, it cannot be completely ruled out that these factors are at play. But I'm telling you, these are superficial plausible explanations. The real reason behind this is that I am no longer important to the other party, and my important position in the TA has been emptied.

How can this be? I used to be so valued and so important there! Now that you've broken up with me, you've made me feel ashamed and ashamed, my importance is gone, and my important position is gone!

So the losing side will keep testing the other side, trying to redeem and reunite, because in this way you can regain your own importance and get that important position, which means winning your dignity and getting back that lost face.

Now that we've broken up, he's still keeping you. Explain that your breakup may have been a spur of the moment, not a matter of principle. After the impulse, she regretted it, so she kept you.

Summary. Good morning, dear, he asked if you had to leave him? He has expressed his strong desire not to break up. He wants you to stay, and he wants you to get back together. He also wants to know how resolute your attitude is.

Broke up, did he just say he had to leave him? Is this retention?

Good morning, dear, he asked if you had to leave him? He has expressed his strong desire not to break up. He wants you to stay, and he wants you to get back together. He also wants to know how resolute your attitude is.

Well, you can see that you still have feelings for him. As long as he truly loves you. If you really want to get back, you should still be reconciled with him.

Did the two of you encounter any conflicts? Why break up?

Because of him, I almost died, ectopic pregnancy hemorrhage, after he was released from the hospital, he had to go back to his hometown, I didn't want to go. He went back anyway, and no one took care of me.

You have given a lot for him.

Because he is in his hometown, his wife is inconvenient, right?

So you feel that he doesn't value you and doesn't love you.

Honey, you have done a lot for him, but he doesn't seem to care about you that much, which makes you feel very sad.

Anthracene. He doesn't have a wife, his house, I've been there, with him, do you feel love?

You have given a lot for him. But giving emotionally doesn't necessarily pay off.

Did he tell you why he didn't have to go home?

Said it, it has been said a long time ago.

But you can't accept his reasoning, right?

In this relationship, it seems that the two people are not on the same page.

I think since he said that, then it's completely impossible for you. I think you'd better give up and find another one. I think it's going to come sooner, because the damage done before can't be gone all at once.

You didn't do such a thing until half a year after the breakup. Isn't it a little late? Make people think you're insincere.

I think it takes half a year for a woman to figure it out. It's too late for the relationship to make the girl think you're insincere.

Now that you've broken up, don't get too entangled, because you can only prove that you have no fate, and now that you're separated, people reject your refusal so directly, then give up, or slowly find your true fate.

If two people have always loved each other, but somehow broke up, there is usually only one reason, and that is that there is an irreconcilable fundamental contradiction between the two of you. It is because of this contradiction that there has always been a rift between the two of you, which makes your feelings start to grow bigger and bigger. But when the rift is too big to heal, there will be a natural outcome for the two of you, and that is a breakup.

Since you broke up, it means that the two of you are not suitable. No matter what the reason, no matter how much you love, you can't reconcile the contradictions. This is the most fundamental reason why you can't go on.

It can be seen that you love this girl very much, because it has been half a year since we broke up, but you can't let go of this girl in your heart and regret it. But once the relationship is over, it's hard to get back together. She is very emotional, but at the same time, he is also very rational.

He has realized this fundamental problem between the two of you. He knows it's impossible for the two of you, so he won't agree to your request to get back together. Go for another love that belongs to you!

Does he still love you, but is there some other reason why he said it is inappropriate? He didn't want to say that he didn't love you anymore, and he said that it wasn't suitable, so he should be too helpless.

The girl chooses to contact you and tell you whether the breakup is true or not, and there is no need to be too entangled.

Now from your point of view, you can only choose to cut off contact because of real problems, this is a unilateral choice you make, and your boyfriend will really worry the other party if he doesn't show up for a long time for no reason.

If you still have feelings for her, you should at least explain to her why you are doing it, give her an explanation, and respect her decision regardless of which choice she makes. If not, there is no need to keep people.

If you still love her, I suggest you tell her directly. Then discuss how to solve the real problem together. If you don't love, then separate, don't break the thread.

Girls may have been building up some disappointment to muster up the courage to say these things, because girls are generally sensitive and prone to insecurity. So it still depends on your attitude. Good luck.