My girlfriend s father wants to see me, and my girlfriend wants me to meet his parents, what should

Updated on psychology 2024-04-29
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Just rent a house for her dad to live in If the economy can afford it, go directly to the hotel to open a room It is definitely inconvenient to live in your house There is no name and no points.

    What gossip can others say, you're working, 17-year-old, talking about friends, and in this day and age, it's also a good thing to say, men have to be responsible.

    I really don't want her dad to come to you, so you call your girlfriend and say that it's a big deal, and the appointment will be over when you meet.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Whether her dad is here to see your parents or to see you, if you see your parents, they say that they are not at home because of something, or tell your girlfriend that the store is very busy, and her dad may not take good care of him when he comes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What are you worried about, his father will definitely find a way to live when he comes, you talk to your family and help him book a room for three days! Pay for three days, be a good landlord, and don't think about anything else.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Talk to your family and your parents, and listen to your parents.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't think about it and watch fate. Anyway, it's going to happen one day.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Tell him that you have cooked raw rice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1. Men should pay attention to their personal image, choose a hairstyle that is suitable for themselves, and wear decent clothes, which can give a good impression to the woman's parents and is conducive to the development of themselves and their girlfriends; 2. A man wants to prepare a gift, and the first time he sees the woman's parents, he must have his own sincerity, and bringing a courtesy morning can leave a "polite" impression on the woman's parents; 3. Men should pay attention to speech and behavior, be polite when communicating with the woman's family, and be civilized when speaking, so as to leave a good impression on the woman's parents;

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Pay attention to what you say, and what etiquette you do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Be diligent, talk dessert and dessert.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Okay, I'll come, I'm eleven and the first time I've gone to my girlfriend's house, and their family has come to watch, I took it calmly and was well received, so I summed up my experience and experience!

    First of all, you have nothing to say, it's normal, because you're not familiar, but, you're too restrained, so you can't find a topic, in fact, you don't need to be nervous at all, I think the real is the best, for example, I went to my girlfriend's house, I want to eat sweet potatoes, I asked, uncle, do you have sweet potatoes at home, I haven't eaten baked sweet potatoes for a long time, I'm hungry, their family is rural, and after a while, I came to the whole thing, and the topic revolved around how to bake them, and I said a lot, and then I said how I ate sweet potatoes when I was a child, You can also not be too restrained, what you want to say, just say anything, if you go to the attraction tomorrow, then you can introduce the characteristics of this attraction, when is the first time you came, what season is the best, introduce the local specialties, and then tell him that when he leaves, you will buy him some specialties to take home to taste, of course, her father will definitely not talk too much, then you will help take pictures, chat with your girlfriend, and say some interesting things on the Internet recently, such as the cake is as expensive as gold, For example, Little Japan makes you unhappy again, etc., as long as someone speaks, the scene will be very natural, even if you chat with her most of the time, her father also thinks that you are doing well, because you didn't make him feel embarrassed, hehe, so, you plan now, go to ** play, it's winter, and her father coughs too.

    Outdoor attractions are best to choose building complexes, such as the ancient town or something, take him to appreciate the local food, go back to the hotel at night, don't be in a hurry to go back, you accompany him to watch TV, in fact, watching TV is the best, you can discuss around the TV program, don't want to discuss it quietly watch, don't feel embarrassed, your father-in-law is not a fool, you must know that your kid kidnapped away other people's daughters, must be itchy in my heart, I want to know more about you, talk to you well, so, after a day of playing, You are basically more familiar, he will take the initiative to ask you, you don't want to ask a sentence just answer, this will only become more and more embarrassing, for example, my father-in-law asked me what to do, I said that I do machinery, why do I do machinery, just find a job hardship, and then talk about their future plans, in this way, what the father-in-law wants to know is basically comprehensive, he will also ask you how many people in the family, you say how many people, parents are in **, what work, what are the younger brothers and sisters doing, and then by the way introduce their hometown and so on... I believe that you let go of yourself, don't be inhibited, just show your true self, just say what comes to mind, the more you think about it, the more embarrassed you feel, hehe...Okay, with that said, you should have the bottom, right?

    Finally, don't forget, when your father-in-law leaves, send him some specialties to take home, this is your intention, he understands!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you have to ask if you really love your girlfriend, if you really love her, then you have to be firm, you have to work hard to make her happy, with firmness, everything is not a problem. The etiquette of meeting your girlfriend's parents for the first time still has to be done.

    Tobacco and alcohol: Wine to send, you are also in front of the year, even if her parents do not have the habit of drinking, but at the end of the year, her family to relatives or something always use, is a practical gift. Although the same is true for cigarettes, after all, smoking is harmful to health, so it is not recommended to send it.

    Tea: Sending tea can not only be used by your girlfriend's parents, who can't drink it, but also to entertain guests during the Chinese New Year.

    Dim sum gift box: You can go to Daoxiang Village or or buy a box of better dim sum from you, not in the many, but in good packaging. It's better that they know.

    Think about who your girlfriend's parents are besides his parents, you can sell them as a main gift, or buy something fresh or something to eat if it's like a child. The elderly like children, and her parents should think that you are a very attentive hot.

    You can also buy some of the more famous specialties in your area, if you are not from the same area.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello! My girlfriend's parents want to see me? ", the meaning of the first hole of the Hope is:

    Your girlfriend's parents only hear their daughter say "I have a boyfriend", they don't know what the boyfriend is like (very concerned about their daughter's marriage), so they want to see you, and then learn more about your situation, if they are satisfied with you, your marriage is basically decided.

    Dear, the fact that her parents met you for the first time is very important for your marriage, you have to behave well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Your girlfriend's parents want to see you, which means that your girlfriend's parents want to see what your son-in-law looks like and learn about your financial situation. For the sake of humiliating their daughters. You have to do a good job.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When two people are in love, they must meet both parents before they can settle down, which is normal, only when they see you and understand you, can they rest assured that they will hand over their daughter to you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the woman's parents want to see you, they will help their daughter check the next level and finally determine your relationship. This is very normal, just behave well.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That is, rushing to bury the servants can scatter the ants and talk quietly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I should want to see your character...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    First of all, you yourself need to understand the purpose of this trip: to win the favor of the other person and facilitate your subsequent relationship.

    No matter how serious he is, he will never be angry on this occasion. That would seem like he wasn't very generous.

    It is enough to pay attention to the following points when meeting and talking:

    1.Take the gift: Discuss with your girlfriend what gift to take, and don't ignore your girlfriend's mother when giving gifts; Many people are not to blame.

    2.Greetings are indispensable, and it is better to call him uncle when we meet for the first time. Look at the center of his eyebrows as he speaks; Try not to be nervous;

    3.When she sat down to talk, her father would speak in code, and she would listen to what she was saying. Knowing the intention of what he was saying, he followed his strength. Don't interrupt him.

    4.If he really gets angry and yells, he must be calm. Let's agree with him first. If he shows that he does not approve of your relationship, he will show your relationship and your love history. : Maybe you're right, but our feelings are ...

    When he denies you, don't be in a hurry to argue. Try to talk as much as you can about your ambitions and pursuits.

    The first meeting is very important, and his preferences must be judged accurately. It was like that when I first met.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    To be a good young man who corrects Miao Hong, this kind of father pays great attention to his majesty and face, he is the representative of authority in the family, and he does not like to be objected to. Likes insightful but modest and polite young people. Many things don't involve issues of principle, it's better to follow him, he shouldn't get angry in front of you......Because it's shameless.

    Generally, this kind of person is more traditional, and it is more prudent to be conservative when saying your opinions or making some behaviors, and show a calm side. Good luck

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The more senior management is, the more etiquette and respect are required. You have to put him in a high position, but not too obviously, and you have to really respect him. Your appearance should be casual and dignified, that is, the youthful atmosphere and mature temperament should be reflected a little (this is more difficult to get), and there is appropriate respect for your girlfriend, not too intimate and not too distant, appropriate intimate actions can give you extra points.

    And the mother-in-law is also very critical, so I would like to remind you here.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hehe. Always to see. Talking less is fine. Your girlfriend will help you. Bring some good cigarettes and good wine.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Calm down, what are you afraid of, it's not just a gentleman, everyone is a gentleman, maybe his father still likes you very much.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Do you love your girlfriend? If you love, use the power of love to repel tension...His dad won't eat you again...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't be nervous, in a serious person as long as you are sincere with his daughter. You have to have confidence, the more serious the old man is, the more he likes the kind of child who has confidence, has lofty ideals, and dares to say and do.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Calm. Think before you speak. Be polite to people. And then his dad won't yell at you even if he's very good at yelling. It's normal to be serious with you, and it's normal for your father to be serious, you just need to be calm. Just be clear-minded. Think before you speak. It's okay.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Usually think about it, and plan for the worst to blow it with his daughter.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Be respectful, but don't lose the pride of young people!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    What's so scary about that, as long as you're sincere to your girlfriend, it's okay for his dad to be serious.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Calm down, buddy, good luck.

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