Communicator is a master of communication, and he is concerned about getting along with others

Remember, find a topic that they are interested in, such as what they are talking about, or when they take out their phone, you will be surprised to ask them what model of phone it is. How much? You think it's a good phone, and you ask him where he bought it.

Talk to them slowly, and over time, they will accept you as one of them.

Then you will definitely have the opportunity to eat together, and then you will be more enthusiastic, pay for the initiative, the first two times you have to take the initiative to pay for them to dinner, this will make them feel that you are very generous, very sincere, will have a better impression of you, of course, slowly get acquainted with you can't pay for it every time.

If they have any help, they should also take the initiative to help.

When you talk to them, you have to talk about interesting topics, you have to have a sense of humor, you have to be able to melt into the middle of them, you have to talk about laughter, you can't always be very old-fashioned, boys, sometimes it's okay to make some jokes.

Brothers are social animals, you, don't care too much, want to integrate into them is very simple, less talk and do more is a way, this method will make them take the initiative to communicate with you, but you only do your part, not everything to do, then they will be used to it for a long time, feel that it is what you should do, you just need to do your part, sometimes help them do something, or play a role in guidance, if you can do what I say, then it is not that you have to integrate into them, It's that they want to join your team, and the younger brother has just experienced it, and the effect is very good.

I'm the same, people are very realistic. The first thing you have to do is to make more friends with your class and the people out of your class. It is best to enter the student union or set up a project.

You have a wide circle of friends, and they will come to you on their own initiative. I don't dare to exclude you. Another thing is to buy snacks for them, but don't be too deliberate.

The best thing to do is to eat together and go shopping together. Smile more and make others think you are easy to get along with.

The main thing is to go in and find more topics to talk about, you can try to find some topics to talk about, see which topic they dare to be interested in, scold you when they dare to be interested, and say more about that topic, sometimes you can properly brag and exaggerate, make them laugh, so that they can soon be together.

I'm worried too. There were 6 people in the dorm I moved into. 4 of them I don't recognize.

One is one I know. You try to be as lively as possible, and behave like everyone. Be enthusiastic.

But luckily I changed dorms with another person. Now the dormitories are all acquaintances. But next year I'm going to move out.

Moved out to live with friends. It's more convenient that way. Because I have seen through many people and many things.

The heart is also tired. Don't want to make new friends anymore. It is enough to have a true friend.

It's best to live with your classmates, your classes are different, and then you can't talk about a lot of things happening in their class. There are also conflicts in after-school time that can't be played together.

Either you will be in the same class as them, or you will be in the same dormitory as yours.

The following remarks are a summary of my experience in making friends:

Make a friend of dog meat to take advantage of it and treat it leniently.

Make ordinary friends and vote for virtue and treat them peacefully.

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy.

Finally, I would like to send you a sentence, "being able to detach and be able to merge is a great virtue." (Make friends, life, and do things according to their intentions, taste it carefully!) ）

Make close friends and treat them with sincerity and courtesy. Remember this sentence! I think that's the kind of friend you're going to make.

By: Naturalization.

Don't be too deliberate, communicate slowly, talk about topics that everyone is interested in, and respect each other.

Attitude is everything.

I wish you a great time with everyone!

Everyone in life is a performer.

Naturally, you don't have to do it deliberately, it takes time to mingle with people, and it's okay to behave normally, and I believe that I can mingle with them...

Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Harmony is important for harmony to continue to develop.

Be principled in doing things As the saying goes, there are no rules.

Practice slowly and find the style that suits you.

This situation is normal, as long as you are sincere, chat more about nothing, and help your roommates more, they will definitely accept you, I wish you a happy college life, brother!

First of all, you should tell you that you have to make friends with your heart. If he is important to you, first of all, respect him and be warm to him.

When friends come, learn to be warm and generous, and not too inhibitive, after all, this is in your own home. Hand him a glass of water or some washed fruit before sitting down to talk or play with him. There are more details, but the most important thing is to be generous and enthusiastic.

Hospitality is a very important etiquette, no matter who comes to be warm, which requires you to practice more when you usually visit your home. If you're in the house with your best friends, you don't have to pay too much attention to the details, but you can't lose your enthusiasm.

It is necessary etiquette to politely hold guests when they leave, no matter who they are.

If you feel that you don't take care of him well enough, feel sorry for him, and apologize to him afterwards, he will forgive you, depending on whether you can convince yourself to apologize.

If you really cherish this friend, you have to compare your heart to heart. Talk to him more about his heart, he must lend a hand in time when he needs help, share the blessings, and there is no need to share the difficulties, but also ask him for help appropriately, so that he will feel that he is very important to you, and slowly he will treat you as his best friend.

These are my own experiences in interpersonal communication, and I hope they can be helpful to you.

Good luck with your friends!

You are more introverted and more restrained in front of outsiders, try to communicate with outsiders, let go of yourself, and don't be afraid.

Treat friends as real friends, friends who don't need to be restrained, people who can speak to their hearts, and talk about them, which can not only prevent him from misunderstanding, but also increase the relationship between friends.

How can you have low self-esteem, you probably don't have a lot of sunshine in your heart. Don't play with the computer, take the initiative to ask a friend to go for a walk, and be depressed after being alone for a long time. Only 16 years old, if you have anything to say, you must talk to a friend, don't hold it in your stomach, there is nothing inferior, low self-esteem is because you feel that you are not good, maybe other people have never thought like this, but you think too much.

It's a psychological problem, it's more indifferent! Not interested in the people around you. Don't want to talk! Don't want to be bothered by the mild manifestations of depression either!

To solve the problem, you have to self-regulate and watch more beautiful things. Participate in more outdoor activities and do something that interests you. Raise an individual's zest for life!

It's not a big problem.,It's a matter of course to talk to people who have a relationship with you.,Other people look at their own mentality.,Don't pay attention to it if you don't want to.,People have to do as they like.,Live for your own comfort.,Why care about other people's faces.,Of course,Don't do it too much.。 Gradually experiencing a person's feelings is a sign of maturity, and slowly you can gain peace of mind, which is something that many people cannot get in a lifetime.

I don't think so, you can try to participate in more group activities to make yourself cheerful! I believe that interpersonal relationship problems can also be solved!

Hello Xenogene, thank you for trusting me.

In fact, after reading your message, I seem to see such a picture: a lonely girl carrying a big schoolbag, walking home with her head bowed when the sun sets, and her heart is infinitely emotional and lonely.

It's really hard to be alone, happy or unhappy, no one shares your happiness, girl, you're wronged. Were you like that before? Did you have any good friends before?

When are the happiest days? Suddenly it turned out like this or did something happen? In fact, I don't recommend that you label yourself, different personalities have different benefits, for example, introverts have more room for their own thinking, so that they will have a lot of creativity, and there is no absoluteness in everything.

I believe that you are a relatively smart girl, I don't think it's much of a problem, I just think that you lack the method of interpersonal communication, maybe because of your introverted personality, you have not known how to get along, and in some cases you have not done well, you don't like your own approach even more.

What you said is actually that you care too much about the feelings of your classmates, afraid that you will not be accepted and liked if you are not good enough, in fact, you are really a very kind girl, and your parents did not give enough likes and care, resulting in you not liking yourself now. The problem lies in two aspects: one is to improve one's self-confidence, and the other is to improve interpersonal communication skills.

It is recommended that you communicate directly with me in these two aspects, so that we can better prescribe the right medicine.

Bless you. Miria.

I was like you before I went to college, and I changed it.

Although it is difficult, after changing it, you will find that there is no need to be introverted at all, and school is an open world, and it is an object that needs to be animated with songs and laughter. Especially when you go to society, looking back, the introverted is not worth it. In fact, everyone has their own strengths, so show off your strengths to others.

You will feel happy.

It's impossible to change all at once, take your time. Be generous with others first, and then be a little more flamboyant. The most important thing is to target the group of classmates who will be helpful to you, and ask each of them what topics they like, such as sports, travel, etc.

Even if you don't like to listen, you have to be fascinated, and after a long time, others will love to contact you.

Go for it and change yourself from now on. Seek unity with commonality, and seek development with individuality.

I'm not a psychology teacher, but I think I can feel your feelings, 15 years old is more complicated, I think you want to make friends with them, but you don't dare, is the most important problem, you lack self-confidence, you should feel full confidence in yourself, believe that you are a special girl, they can't know what you think in your heart, it means that you have connotation, you can try to be brave, talk to mom and dad about your thoughts, boldly say anything, and live a day with a smile, Then be brave enough to talk to your classmates, and remember to be confident.

The problem in the heart of the mu family. You think, they're all human beings, and they don't have any more meat than you.

And you're not called neither humble nor arrogant. It's just that under the same circumstances, it doesn't count as inferiority.

What is needed to be neither humble nor arrogant is self-confidence, a kind of persistence, a strong scheming that all people are one.

Do you know what it means to be one?

It's that no matter what kind of identity you are, you treat it as a quick cheater on the same footing as you. Of course, there should also be a little bit of reverence for the elders. Elders are not the same as superiors.

In fact, to be truly neither humble nor arrogant, you need to have strong self-confidence and strength. Without strong self-confidence, low self-esteem will occur in front of people who are higher than your position. Without strength, only strong self-confidence, that is arrogance.

The last one you'll understand later.

One more word for you. It is not necessary for everyone to be deeply acquainted. Communication skills: In fact, you can run the business. Let's look at your company.

1 6 Consciously try to bring out your best appearance and appearance, and dress neatly and appropriately.

2 6 Remember the name of someone else and call out his name as soon as we meet, and he will feel valued.

3 6 Learn about the life of the person you are talking to, know what interests him and what he hates, talk about what the other person is interested in.

4 6 Keep smiling at all times, the charm of a smile is endless.

5 6 Learn to praise others so that your conversation will be pleasant.

6 6 Don't shoehorn your opinions into others, no one likes to be forced to accept them.

Wear clean and neat clothing.

Dress formally, and then speak appropriately.

Just play it normally.

You can first search for some information about the school and the principal. Then make a list of the questions you need to ask first, so you don't know where to start.

Don't be too nervous, the more nervous you are, the more likely you are to have problems.

If you're invited, don't be too scared, he might just want to have a simple conversation with you.

It is inevitable that more introverted people are a little nervous, you are prepared in advance, you want to talk to a strange school principal about learning, then before you go, summarize the things you want to say, the language is a little smoother, it is best to practice what you want to say first, so that you will not have nothing to say in conversation, and you will also be prepared for the questions that the principal may ask you, and then dress appropriately.

In what capacity did you go? If you are a student, you should be quiet, and look like a student. If you're a teacher, just be humble.

Play normally, listen to him more, don't grab words, respect him, and there will be no problem in general.