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It's not just you who have troubles, everyone has them. Just to name a few
Students have the trouble of homework exams: good students have the worry of being afraid of being caught up, and bad students have the worry of being scolded every day.
Office workers have work troubles: when leaders encounter subordinates who do not listen to orders, employees have troubles that are not valued by leaders;
Entrepreneurs are afraid of bad management and going out of business, farmers have the trouble of not having a harvest in the event of a natural disaster, rich people have the trouble of being afraid of thieves, and rich people have the ......trouble of not being able to eat
It's just too many to mention, you say, how can there be no worries?
But we have to have a correct attitude to deal with our troubles, if we don't have a positive outlook on life, if we don't have the right attitude, that's the trouble that makes everyone trouble!
Why are there so many people who have troubles, some seem to be relaxed and happy, and some jump off the building to commit suicide and swallow medicine to harm themselves? That's the mentality.
I think you might as well use these two steps to see if you can relieve your troubles
1. Look for it. That is, find out your troubles, write them down on paper, and line them up to see which one is number one.
2. Look at it by comparison. Compare so many troubles one by one in order, and what do you compare them to? Compare yourself to those who don't live as well as you.
Maybe you are troubled that you have no money, then look at those poor children in the west; Maybe you are worried that you don't have good food, then look at those hungry children in Africa; Maybe you're worried that you don't have a nice pair of shoes, then look at those who have lost their feet.
The first thing you do when you wake up in the morning is to touch your arm. Touching your legs? If you are all here, then you are the happiest and happiest person in the world, how can there be any troubles?
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Oh, everyone has troubles that can never be finished, but the way to deal with them is not the same, some people like to remember everything, and some people look very open, so some people are happy every day, and some people are always worried, so you have to be happy, don't remember everything in your heart, so that there will be no worries!
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In fact, everyone has their own troubles, but why should we care too much! Life should be chic and happy! What's more, troubles will only make people upset and make people age quickly, so why bother with yourself.
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Except for the dead and fools, there are no troubles, normal people are like this. Don't worry about it, just try to be yourself.
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Everyone will have troubles, but it depends on how you deal with it, you can think of yourself to live only for today, don't think about the past and the future, which are either past or unpredictable. Take it easy.
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In the Buddhist language I just learned, come to you:
1. The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.
Second, it is not so much that others make you miserable, but that your own cultivation is not enough.
3. If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you. Because of your own heart, you can't let go.
And the most important sentence:
Life in the world is like being in the midst of thorns, the heart does not move, people do not move, and if they do not move, they will not be hurt;
If the heart moves, people move recklessly, hurt their bodies, hurt their bones, and then experience all kinds of pain in the world! Thank you!
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