I m upset, is it right for my girlfriend to do this?

Updated on society 2024-04-06
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I can't understand what she was thinking, and if it were me, I would have encouraged it. No matter how difficult it is to find a job and how high the unemployment rate is, there will always be a large number of people who can find a job, and even a part of the population will find a satisfactory job, so have confidence in yourself and believe in your abilities. Don't think about anything else.

    Unemployment is high and job satisfaction is low, but you can choose right. Don't lose faith in yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Remember not to think too highly of yourself first, you just think you are an ordinary worker, so that you can better integrate into society. The best thing to do is to go to your girlfriend's factory and do it together, and then make this a success. Hehe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This kind of person belongs to the type that will only hit and not encourage, you communicate with her more, saying that no one is born to eat, and who is not a rookie who has grown up after graduation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, what she said is also the truth, you can try to find it yourself now, don't care about the treatment, the main thing now is to accumulate experience and master resources.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

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  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

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  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    From a girlfriend's point of view, you should be encouraged to support you, and a unit is hitting a wall and making persistent efforts to find another one, but I can't understand what she said.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This friend, your girlfriend is indeed good for you, but she doesn't know how to put herself in your shoes for your sake. She relies too much on her experience to decide that you are just as difficult to find a job as she is. After all, there may be many differences between the two of you, first of all, your academic qualifications are different, you may have different cognitive abilities and ways of thinking.

    So it's not going to be as hard to find a job as she said. You have to learn to analyze the internal and external causes. You can communicate calmly, first of all, thank her, maybe inexperienced jobs will be relatively difficult to find, but you can often go to some recruitment** to check, many companies are recruiting fresh graduates.

    After all, you have different conditions and abilities, so you want to respect your own choice and give it a try.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I just graduated in July this year, and I am very responsible to tell you that what she said is true. You use CAD or UG or PROE for interior design, I learned this, no work experience is really very serious, she said this, is to make you mentally prepared, so as not to go to the interview and feel uncomfortable. I've already practiced the diamond bones, so I've found one.

    It's good to believe in yourself, and some still need fresh graduates.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is only one-sided, experience is very important, but education is also a threshold, experience can be learned, the threshold is dead, so in the early stage, you may work harder, to do complicated affairs, but as long as you work hard, hard, maybe you have an excellent result in the internship, you will be directly hired by the unit, it is not impossible, this requires your efforts and persistence, work hard, don't be intimidated by yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your girlfriend is telling the truth, but if you try hard and finally get a job, wouldn't it?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    She can't say that she is completely wrong when she says this, it is difficult to find a job after graduation, and I have just graduated and I know it very well, but as long as I am confident, I can solve any problem.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    She has her considerations, but who doesn't start as an intern after graduation???

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When your girlfriend is irritated about you, here are a few things to consider to deal with the situation:

    Communication: Find an appropriate time to sit down with your girlfriend and communicate honestly and listen to her feelings and opinions. Ask her if she has any problems or grievances so that you can understand her thoughts and find a solution.

    Introspection: Review your actions and words to see if there are any things that might cause your girlfriend to be upset and uplifted. Consider whether you need to change some habits or attitudes to better meet your girlfriend's expectations.

    Give space: Sometimes girlfriends may need some alone time to calm down or take care of their own things. Respect her personal space and give her some time and freedom.

    Caring and considerate: Show that you care about your girlfriend and show that you care about her. Ask her if she needs your help or support, and do your best to meet her needs.

    Work together to solve problems: If your girlfriend clearly expresses her grievances or problems, work with her to find solutions. Work together to solve the problem of the stove and enhance the communication and understanding of both parties.

    The most important thing is to keep an open mind and respect the other person's feelings. Building a good foundation of communication, mutual understanding and support, helps solve problems and promotes healthy relationships.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1.Listen and communicate: First, listen to her feelings and opinions. Ask her if she'd be willing to share the reasons why she's upset. Listen carefully, don't interrupt or argue, just listen to her.

    2.Understand her feelings: Try to understand her feelings, show empathy and understanding. Tell her that you care about her feelings and want to solve the problem.

    3.Avoid arguments: Avoid arguments when emotions are high. Emotionally heated arguments usually don't solve the problem and only exacerbate the tension.

    4.Come up with a solution: Discuss possible solutions together to improve the problem. This can be advice on communication, time management, division of household chores, etc. Working together to solve problems strengthens relationships.

    5.Give space: Sometimes, people need some time and space to cool down. If the emotions are intense, you can suggest that both parties calm down for a while and then come back to discuss the issue.

    6.Make changes: If you feel the need and are willing to make adjustments to your behavior or habits to improve the relationship, then take the initiative. Actions speak louder than words.

    7.Seek help: If the problem cannot be resolved, or if the relationship has been strained, consider seeking professional help, such as psychological or emotional counseling.

    Most importantly, maintaining a healthy relationship requires mutual respect, understanding, and communication. Through open and honest conversations, you can better solve problems, deepen your relationship, and grow together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1. Deeply introspect, your girlfriend is annoying you, although there are reasons for your girlfriend herself, Yunming, but you also have certain problems.

    2. Take the initiative to communicate, take the initiative to talk and chat with your girlfriend, increase mutual understanding, and increase your girlfriend's sense of dependence.

    3. Adjust the way you get along, the reason why your girlfriend annoys you may be related to your unchanged way of getting along.

    4. Create some small surprises and romances from time to time to add freshness to the relationship between the two parties.

    Generally, the girls on the side are emotional, and like some fresh, interesting small items or different ideas from the wild burning crowd.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You just try not to disturb him, just let him calm down for a while, or he is too stressed during this time, so he will find it annoying for you to go to him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    As a man, you should still focus on your career, if your career is successful, your girlfriend will look up to you and won't bother you anymore.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When your girlfriend annoys you, you must first determine what is the reason why she annoys you, and then make an adjustment, which is the way to solve the problem.

    Tell me about my friend's experience:

    My friend is a very talkative person, not only good at communication, but also has a lot of friends around him. The important thing is that he is not willing to be lonely, and often finds some friends to gather and chat with, and everyone has a lot of fun.

    Later, he found a girlfriend, who told him that he was a quiet and introverted person. At the beginning, he was very obedient and often chatted with his girlfriend, anyway, they often stuck together. But as time changed, he slowly became uncomfortable, and then chose to be with his friends.

    He also said that he would bring his girlfriend with him, but his girlfriend didn't like this environment, so in the end, the relationship between the two people had problems.

    Later, as long as they chatted or interacted together, their girlfriends showed disgust. This situation is actually very clear to him, because the two of them are not on the same track.

    In order to keep his girlfriend and make his girlfriend happy, in the end he chose to really change himself. Although he worked hard for a long time in this process, his girlfriend saw it in his eyes, and he chose not to trust it.

    Yes, nothing is one-sided, and there is a reason why your girlfriend annoys you and doesn't talk to you. Find out more about your own problems and work hard to make adjustments to improve them.

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It should be figured out, and it is best to ask your subject to give you a reasonable explanation. If she tells you the truth, of course, it's not the bad kind, you have to ask yourself if you can forgive her.