I can t forget my first girlfriend, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-10
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you can't forget, don't force yourself to forget!

    In fact, there is no difference between forgetting and forgetting.

    It's all in the past anyway!

    You forget, so does she.

    If you don't forget, she won't look back!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Eldest brother. Accept the reality! It's been so long, and you're still in love.

    Liking is a matter of two people, you like her, she doesn't like you anymore.

    Isn't that interesting?

    She doesn't love you. You don't feel her love, what do you like about her?

    You have her shadow in your head.

    It's normal! Don't overthink it.

    Once loved, it is impossible to forget.

    But if you have to be sober, you won't be annoyed.

    I hope you get rid of the troubled ...... soon

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Please don't feel that because you still love her, you must be happy with you, don't feel that you miss her so much, and feel how sorry she is for your love. There is no such thing as fairness in love.

    Love always makes us think a lot, in addition to pain, in fact, we should be grateful that we have loved, because it makes us understand a lot of truths and makes us more mature. You'll understand when you really get rid of the influence of this love.

    I think you will definitely be like me, and you will not really get rid of this relationship until the second woman you like appears, because the love is very deep. I hope you won't be afraid of hurting the second woman because you are still thinking about the first woman, and you won't dare to work hard. Remember, time will dilute everything.

    Of course, I still believe that there is a Scorpio who lives a lifetime to keep a love, and the most likely thing for a Scorpio to happen, I am a Scorpio. Hehe.

    Now you, you need to pay attention to don't let yourself be addicted to this love all the time, life is not only love, but also many other aspects, pay more attention to other aspects. If you think about her, just think about it, think more about the good memories, think more about the growth you have gained because of love, if your heart hurts, then it hurts, and it won't hurt the next day.

    Remember, don't let yourself get into the horns, you can think of the same thing as bad or good, but everyone thinks differently. I hope you will get rid of this bad shadow as soon as possible, and of course, if it is really your fate, I will also bless you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Who wants to forget the first love.

    Unless he's frustrated.

    First love is the most memorable!

    Zhao Benshan's joke: First love doesn't understand love at all!

    It's a joke, but it really makes sense.

    Forget it. Believe that time will dilute everything.

    She doesn't deserve your love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on how you choose, if you really love her, then you should fight for it, you have to fight for it to pursue what you want, don't care what others think of you, go your own way and let others say go! Ask him to explain your thoughts, let him know that you love him, and find a way to make him fall in love with you. You have to take your time to understand these things.

    Think for yourself whether you truly love him or. I won't say more, if you don't understand, you can ask me, I wish you can really love each other! Thank you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Helpless, she changed her mind, didn't you see it, she was dating someone else, you caught her, she didn't care, she was directly with that man, you still love her, does she still love you? I can understand that you have paid true feelings and can't forget her But she may just be playing and can't forget unless you have a brain ** Amnesia Memories can fade Do you know that time can dilute memories This kind of woman is not worthy of your love May you get better soon.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You love her, she doesn't love you, what's the use in the end?

    Even if you can get her back.

    2 people living a strange life may be more painful than you are right now.

    Think it out for yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course, you still can't let go of your first love, and you can't find a woman you deserve to love now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Feelings are a matter of two people, not one party can be sure of it, think about it carefully, is she really worthy of you?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Just like you! Talked about it for two years! There's no way to forget! Hey, time can change eight.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Brother, nothing. Since she can spend her birthday with other men, instead of you, you should clearly know whether she is worth your effort, I don't know if it's stupid, for a few years, I worked hard to do everything well, and we were together, but it ended because of the insertion of the third person. Hehe, time can be forgotten, don't let yourself be bored at home alone, dormitory.

    Connect more with your former friends, do more outdoor activities, work hard and study, make your life a little fuller, you have to think about it, if a man keeps falling, no one will sympathize with you, but it will make people look down on you even moreBelieve in yourself, emotional things are not how much you love her, how much you love her, there is a return.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't panic, time and distance will wear off

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I've had the feeling before: you have to control yourself and don't think about it: 'You can still find one: people don't like you: you can't force people to put it: try to find one slowly.'

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Time will dilute everything, the important thing is that you can let go of yourself, others can't help you, and such a girl, losing you is her loss, you should still face everything confidently and proudly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This shows that she doesn't love you enough, don't think about her anymore, leave some dignity for yourself, love is two-sided.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'll send you a word!

    Time will dilute everything!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you love her, and she loves you, no matter how far apart you are, your relationship will not fade, and if you are separated because you are far away, then I think you are right. If you get married in the future, it will be difficult to divorce.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello dear, is answering this question for you, please be patient and wait.

    Hello dear, is answering this question for you, please be patient and wait.

    You can give yourself time to fall out of love, there are too many "lovelorn chicken soup" to teach you how to pick yourself up after falling out of love, in fact, everyone who is out of love has their own unspeakable story, and they all have feelings that others don't understand. If you fall out of love, you should give yourself a little time to calm your wounded heart, but this time can't be too long.

    At the same time, after falling out of love, you should pay more attention to modifying your appearance. A man's appearance is just as important as a woman's, you pose as a decadent lovelorn, no one wants to approach you, others only think you are a poor fool.

    Questions. So how do you do it?

    So how do you do it?

    If you can't forget it, you really love it so deeply. Then go find your ex-girlfriend. At least you once had a good emotional foundation, and if it wasn't for a big conflict, there was still a chance to recover it.

    Questions. He already has a new boyfriend.

    He already has a new boyfriend.

    So do you want to recover or give up forgetting?

    Questions. I want to forget her.

    I want to forget her. If you don't want to put your exuberant energy into work and study, then you can sign up for an interest class. Adults also need to be interested, and interest can help you relieve your worries. You can also meet more new friends, and maybe you can meet the girl you like.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You may just be nostalgic now, as if you have been abroad for 3-4 years and want to see if the people of the past have changed. Well, it's this kind of heart, it's not like it's still in love with this.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is not easy to completely forget, and how many people can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, just use time to slowly forget and learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

    When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then it depends on whether your girlfriend still loves her first love, and if she is still in love, then break up quickly.

    Let's analyze why some people can't forget their first love.

    One is preconceived influence.

    The first impression formed by the first love relationship becomes a preconceived effect, and the first impression is often the most memorable and strong.

    Most of the first love occurs when we are students, and we describe the feeling of first love, which is often young and shy, and we experience the feeling of blushing and heartbeat for the first time when we first open our love, both nervous and excited.

    That sense of sweetness and picture has been left in our minds for a long time, and we can't forget it for a long time, and in the next relationship, it will be inadvertently compared with the first love, and the two people will have more or less similar characteristics, which is still fresh in people's minds.

    The second is a sense of regret.

    It's the same in our lives, when we treat the work that has been done or that we have clearly achieved the goal, and forget about it after a while.

    However, the memory of work or things that were interrupted for other reasons is still fresh, that is, what was not done is more impressive than what was done, and the brain gradually forgets what has been done.

    The original love has become a thing of the past, it is an unfinished thing for everyone, and there are always such and such regrets, which will make you linger and difficult to let go.

    The third is unforgettable memories.

    In my opinion, first love is a very fragile relationship, and the probability of two first lovers finally coming together is very small, which shows that the love feeling brought by first love is beautiful, but not strong.

    We are always happy day by day when we experience first love, as long as there is a conflict, the young and vigorous often do not know how to deal with it, just imitate the lovelorn behavior of adults, two people began to cold war, and gradually snubbed each other.

    Then the relationship broke down, so that a sweet and bitter memory was engraved in the mind, maybe after a few years, it will still be remembered deeply, this is the memory of the first love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's normal to not forget your first love, you can be a little jealous, but after all, your girlfriend has chosen you, indicating that you have something better than her ex, so there is no need to worry too much.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's very simple, if you get married with your first love, you can't get married. Why is there so much bad things in the predecessor and the current one, isn't it fragrant?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I can't forget it, I can't forget it, I can't forget my first love, who can forget it, it's really a master, the heart is not made of meat, I even remember the elementary school teacher, the first love is the first person who loves the first love, how can I forget, but if I am still in love or connected with someone else, I have to consider breaking up.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, I think it's very normal for your girlfriend to not forget her first love, because after all, her first love is her first relationship, which has left a very deep impression in her life, and what you have to do is to grasp her present and create the future with her.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, find out why, if it's because you still love him, I think it's okay to break up, unless you have the confidence to make your girlfriend stop liking him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's normal to not forget your first love, and in this way it proves that he is a person who is in love, and there will be happiness, and don't pursue this problem too much, which will make your love crack, love needs a lot of tolerance and space!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Communicate well with your girlfriend, see what kind of attitude he has towards her first love, and then you will analyze the specific problems.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First love is the best memory in everyone's heart, you should respect your girlfriend, but you should also pay more attention to her at all times, be by his side with her, take care of her, and believe in your girlfriend, after all, your girlfriend has now chosen you, and what kind of confidence do you have not to believe him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think first love is a very important experience, if your girlfriend can't forget your first love. I think you guys might have broken up.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's very simple, since you can't bear your girlfriend, you do what you do, desperately love her, love her, protect her, and accompany her. That's what you should do as a man.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I can't forget it, unless I have amnesia, I can't forget it, and whether I love it or not is a different thing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I don't think it's okay with this kind of thing, as long as you treat her well, use your heart to influence her, and make him feel that your appearance is to replace her first love.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Everyone can't forget it, just keep it in their hearts.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's normal, I'm a man, and I can't forget it, it's fair and reasonable. But persuade those who have never been in love to find a blank piece of paper, otherwise they will suffer.

Related questions
17 answers2024-04-10

Missing is a pain that breathes, it lives in all corners of the body! It hurts to hum a song of love, it hurts to read a message, and even silence hurts! Regret is also the pain of breathing, it is flowing back and forth in the blood! It hurts to regret not being intimate, it hurts to hate if you don't understand, and it hurts to see you if you can't see it! >>>More

7 answers2024-04-10

You may not feel safe about your love, you should be confident and learn to manage love with a good attitude and skills, so that love can go on for a long time. I will tell you a good way to strengthen your determination to love and stabilize your mind, and I suggest that you go to the "Tower of Hearts" to participate in their "Love Test", because in the process of participating in this seemingly game-like "Love Test", it can not only help you witness how deep your love for him is, but also record how far your love path can go, and permanently record your love file for you. It can also help you understand how to manage your love and maintain your relationship. >>>More

14 answers2024-04-10

I'm also a man, I've only been broken up for a month, and she's already married to someone else; To be honest, I can't forget her, after all, we have been together for more than two years, and I am also the first girl I chased, how can I forget it, it is impossible to forget, whether it is happy or sad, it is a memory, although the ending is very heart-wrenching. It's impossible to forget, it's true to let go. Is your boyfriend still in touch with your ex when he is with you? >>>More

25 answers2024-04-10

Fate is nothing, in fact, love is such a thing.

10 answers2024-04-10

is indeed a silly girl, whoever cares more in the relationship is destined to pay more! >>>More