I hate my mother so much, what should I do if I hate my mother?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-18
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As the saying goes, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, your mother treats you like this because she cares about you, think about it, there are some children who don't even have parents, in comparison, how much better are you than them? You can go find a few books to see, as they are, maybe feel better. I've seen a quote before:

    In fact, everyone is happy, but why they always think that they are unhappy is because they think that others are happier than themselves.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You first see if you are right, you are criticizing others, if you are perfect, then when you criticize others, you have to see if they are wrong, and they cannot stand on your side. Of course, if your mother's behavior is true, it is not advisable, you have to communicate with it, after all, it is your relatives, you should consider it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No matter how much she is a mother!!

    Just when she's menopausal

    Mom kept nagging when she cared.

    Patience!! Mom, tolerate her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Oh my God, I thought I was the case. Confidant. But you have to remember that no matter what your mother does to you, she is always the one who gave birth to you and raised you. What I'm doing now is she says hers and I do mine. Other things are analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The most direct way is to get married and leave.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It has something to do with the fact that you are not married, but if you get married, you will suffer the sin of your wife.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Believe that mom is good to you.

    You can try to communicate with her slowly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    From the time you gave birth to you and raised you to the time you remembered, to be honest, she paid too much. Because of family matters, it is my mother who worries about it, and sometimes it is normal to have some tempers. Do things well, and when you get married in the future, you will understand a lot of ......

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This first depends on how old you are, if it is puberty, it is very common, this kind of psychology is affected by hormones, you will be rebellious, and parents will be manic, both sides are prone to bump into a vicious circle, as a child to know this phenomenon, understand the parents, why do they care about you? It's all for your own good, understand this truth, reduce resistance, it won't be like that, if there is any problem, communicate directly with your parents, they can understand. If you say that you have passed adolescence and are still like this, then you have to analyze and analyze objectively, why, is it your own problem, or your mother's problem, you can find someone who understands to consult, it is best to find a psychological counseling expert to explain, you will be relieved, mother and child are connected, I believe you will change.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you feel disgusted with your mother, it means that you may have entered a rebellious period, and it is easy to have conflicts with your parents at this stage, and when you have a conflict with their opinions, you should resolve it through rational communication.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you hate your mother, it means that you are still in a rebellious period, otherwise you are very annoyed by the nagging that you are too busy, but you can take a good look at her words, is it of great help to you? Mother's nagging is often also a kind of uneasy entrustment, mainly to get you to pay attention.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Mom is the one who brings you into the world. Except for his vexatious trouble, or some abnormal demands, I don't think I can hate my mother for whatever reason. Don't beg you to love him.

    He's done a lot for you. You still love him, which not only breaks his heart, but also shows that you are a person. Immature in itself.

    Think more about your mother's good, less about your mother's care of you. In fact, management or beating you in the book, the meaning is good for you. They all love you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should think about it differently, after all, she is the one who gave you life, even if you hate her, you have to respect him, and the grace of nurturing cannot be repaid, so even if you hate your own mother very much, you are forcing yourself to accept her.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Go to a psychiatrist to adjust and don't delay. There must be many reasons for a bad relationship with your mother, don't feel guilty, because there are many mothers who can't be mothers, there are many children who don't like their mothers, and there are many people who have parent-child relationship problems. However, you need emotional and psychological counseling, find a channel that suits you, and adjust your emotions in order to get in touch with troubles.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Mom has a bad temper.

    It may be the reason for the mother's sex.

    Or the impact of family circumstances.

    It is recommended that everyone has different qualities.

    The same goes for our parents.

    If you really can't communicate.

    Then there is only the right way to face it.

    Face it with peace of mind.

    Understand as much as you can.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is recommended that you don't give yourself too much psychological burden, the original family has a lot of unsatisfactory, so that you have a lot of regrets in the process of growing up, but the past is gone, and life is still going on. We must learn to say goodbye to the past, focus on the present, focus on the life in front of us, get along well with our girlfriend, conquer him with our charm, and change all the relatives around us with our kindness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The only way to grow up, the awakening of personal personality.

    Try to communicate more, and if it doesn't work, try to stay away and it'll be fine after a while. There is no need to force both sides, and there is no need to feel guilty, everyone is independent and should be treated with respect and kindness. Of course, the obligation of maintenance still has to be fulfilled.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It depends on how far you hate him, whether he is not good enough, or what, if it is his problem, then you can communicate with him, if it is your problem, you better still need to tolerate the other party.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should talk to your mother about your thoughts, see how your mother thinks about it, and hope that your mother will do it, and just say it to make a difference.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You're just a rebellious mentality, and when you're disciplined by others, you hate this person, but how can you say that it's the parents who gave birth to you and raised you? You can only have ideas, what can't you do? You can only bear it, because after all, it is for your good.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As the old saying goes: a dog is not a poor family, and a son is not ugly!

    In addition to the requirements for others, think about your own problems!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You must not have this thought, you hate your mother, because your mother is the person you gave birth to and raised you, and is the best person for you, so your mother may not do very well in some places, shouldn't you blame your mother?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What to do if you ask a nasty mom? I think it's very wrong that you hate your mother, your mother gave birth to you and raised you, why should you hate your mother? Your mom may discipline you, discipline you, discipline you and discipline you for your good.

    Just for your good, pity the hearts of parents all over the world. You have to respect your parents and love your mother.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is the greatness of motherly love that you don't understand, maybe you won't understand it until you're a father or a mother! Remember, cherish your mother's love and all the love of your family!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I hate my mom, what should I do? I personally don't know how old you are now, if you have a family, you have this idea is particularly wrong, we have to learn to repay the favor, as the saying goes, the mother is not ugly, the dog is not poor, you have to communicate more with your mother.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Actually, I felt this way before, but then the two of them were cold for a few days, and they both thought about it, and each took a step back, and when there was a contradiction, it was nothing.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There is nothing you can do about hating your mother, you should know how to understand and love your mother, don't always hate your mother in your heart, it is unfilial to do so

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You have to try to accept your mother, your mother is the best person in the world for you, and she will not have the slightest bad heart for you, so don't hate your mother, and cherish the time when you have a mother.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I hate my mom, what should I do? I think no matter how much you hate mom? Still still. It's good to my mother, because after all, my mother gave us life and raised ourselves. We can't forget the kindness of our parents. and caring.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Summary. Children hate their mothers the most, mostly because some mothers may hear their children say"I hate my mom the most"Although some children did not say it, their behavior can see that the child is dissatisfied with their mother, these reasons are actually very simple, and the mother will find out. 1. Always nagging.

    Although I don't want to admit it, in life, my mother will keep nagging, and she will keep nagging when she sees her child doing badly. Although we want our children to develop good habits, this way only makes the child feel the bad mood of the mother, which will make the child feel bored. 2. Excessive interference with freedom.

    Some mothers think that their children have to be educated, listen to the advice of adults, and ask their children to do this and that, without giving their children the space and room to choose by themselves, which will make their children feel that their mothers want"Control"Myself, such a feeling makes the child hate the mother. 3. Can't speak well. Mothers love their children, but under the pressure of life, mothers have no patience and don't know how to communicate with their children well, resulting in problems in communication methods, and children only feel the mother's strength and unreasonableness.

    Dear, can you tell me why I hate my mother? Mom is the person who loves you the most in the world.

    Children hate their mothers the most, mostly because some mothers may hear their children say"I hate my mom the most"Although some children did not say it, their behavior can see that the child is dissatisfied with their mother, these reasons are actually very simple, and the mother will find out. 1. Always nagging. Although I don't want to admit it, in life, my mother will keep nagging, and Chong Minzao will keep talking when she sees that the child is not doing well.

    Although we want our children to develop good habits, this way only makes the child feel the bad mood of the mother, which will make the child feel bored. 2. Excessive interference with freedom. Some scattered mothers think that their children have to be educated, listen to the advice of adults, and ask their children to do this and that, which does not give their children the space and room to choose by themselves, which will make their children feel that their mothers want"Control"Myself, this feeling of leakage makes the child hate his mother.

    3. Can't speak well. Mothers love their children, but under the pressure of life, mothers have no patience and don't know how to communicate with their children well, resulting in problems in communication methods, and children only feel the mother's strength and unreasonableness.

    Does mom have any of these practices?

    If Chunzhu has it, you can have a good chat with her, Auntie doesn't know how old you are? Can you protect yourself, but no matter what, you have to express your thoughts.

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