Our family is not the kind of poor family, why do we have to save all this money?

Some families are not poor, but because their parents are more frugal since childhood, a lot of money has to be saved.

It should be that no one wants it so he can take it back, after all, the company's notebook will also affect the business, so after the update, it will be given to your home. Although the family background is good, it is not wrong to save it, you can see if this notebook is still possible to upgrade and optimize, and ask someone who understands.

I think thrift is a fine tradition of the Chinese nation, so I suggest you save a little money.

Thrift is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, if it is your own money, you can change it, no problem, don't tell them to change it, as for why there are so many why?

Your family is not the kind of poor family, your father saves money is not in place, do not save the things that the child uses to study, try to provide good conditions for the child, so that he can have good grades.

This kind of thing, the laptops eliminated by the company are outdated, and the children in the neighborhood are not enjoying some money, he wants to show his own ability, it can bring things out of the company, and he can always do it at any time, whether the price was too cheap before and not to save money.

The older generation is used to hardship, and you young people can't understand it. Just tell your dad that you need a powerful laptop to study, and that you can save money for your family in other ways.

It's not about money, it's about different angles, and parents think it's good to be able to use it. It's really not good, so I told my parents that it's really too stuck and affects learning. If you have something to say,

I think that no matter what your family conditions are, frugality and termination of contracts is a fine tradition in China. It's not because a person's family conditions are good that they can't be savory, but thrift is a good character.

Maybe it's always been a problem with your family's concept of life, and some people actually have that kind of greedy character. Dad may be that kind of person. It's just that I said it according to my own understanding, and I didn't mean to scold your father, don't get me wrong.

If you don't know the price of firewood and rice, you have to be careful in your life, if you don't save a little bit, you will be caught off guard when something happens.

Everyone's money is not easy to earn, you will have this kind of thought, just because you think it is easy to earn money, although your family is not poor, but the money does not belong to you and you have not put in the effort.

Your family is not very poor, you can buy a notebook yourself.

Our home is not an ordinary kind of family, the reason why this cost is less, that is, saving is the most glorious thing.

Our family is not a balanced kind of family, why is it a little urgent to show that he is very, capable and proud, I think that a person like this, he has no money at all, and he is as rich as Ma Yun, he will not choose himself at all.

I think that after all, saving a province is still conducive to cultivating your habits, so it is still necessary.

If you are not happy with the mobile phone or computer you use, you can go through your own, please change or artifact to find a money out.

<> "A family without rules is more terrible than a poor family."

Many parents are accustomed to leaving it as waiting for the flowers to bloom, and pampering and doting as happy education... In exchange for the result, it was the lack of children's sense of rules. Rules are the feng shui of a family:

1. Loving children and establishing rules is never a multiple-choice story: son: "If I mess up my bookshelf, do you still love me?"

Mom: "I love you forever, but you have to put away the bookshelves." Son:

If I stain my sister's clothes, do you still love me? Mother: "I will always love you, but you have to wash my sister up."

A home must have both temperature and rules. If you are too indulgent to your child, your child will lose her bottom line; If you are too strict with your child, it will make your child rebellious, so loving your child and setting rules is never a single choice question, but indispensable.

2. Establishing rules is never about listening to orders: In Greek mythology, Zeus gave Pandora a box and told her that she couldn't open it, "Why can't you open it?" The more Pandora thought about it, the more curious she became, and after holding it for a while, she finally opened the box.

Who knew that the box contained the sins of human beings, and as a result, they all ran away to the world.

Psychology calls this phenomenon the "Pandora effect". Many parents have the illusion that mandatory orders are rules. In fact, the rules are not imposed on the children, but the principles that the whole family must follow.

Every move of parents is how children learn to behave.

3. How to make rules? Story: When you only have one watch, you can know exactly what time it is; When you have two different watches, it creates confusion about the perception of time.

Psychology calls this phenomenon [choice in contradiction] the "watch effect." Therefore, it is recommended that parents keep three points in mind when making rules:

If it is not allowed at home, it is also not allowed outside; Parents can't do what children don't allow. Otherwise, one set at home, one set outside, one set for children, and one set for parents will only make children at a loss.

This situation often occurs in the case of the elderly with children. For example, the mother asks the child to eat only one candy a day, but the grandmother turns around and buys a bunch of spine yards. When making rules, it's important to avoid inconsistencies among family members.

If you have a consistent attitude, you must follow the rules. No, Li Nai should relax the bottom line of the rules again and again, and let the children realize that things that do not conform to the rules will not be satisfied; Even if there are exceptions, penalties should be made accordingly.

What are the rules? Parenting: learn to empathize and consider from the perspective of others; Respect:

respect the old and love the young; Don't mess with other people's things; Integrity: Don't lie casually, don't deceive others casually; Norms: Abide by rules and disciplines, and do not cause public losses due to personal reasons; Self-reliance:

Do your own things yourself, and if you make a mistake, you have the courage to take it; All in all, please remember that the purpose of rules is not to imprison, but to grow.

Looking at your description, it is true that the family is not too rich, but in this society there are not many such family conditions, and the difference in poverty is not too big in various places.

Yes.

It's not a wealthy family. It is also a relatively frugal family. It's not easy, the era when the quilt is torn and has to be mended and reused.

Needless to say, it must be poor.

Is this true? Nowadays, such cases are relatively rare.

Yes, people are deeply hidden, and he is very willing to eat and wear. But some, people don't want to spend money on this, they are still very economical.

Judging from your description, their family is still relatively poor, and it is better not to show your thoughts.

It should be very poor, and there should not be many such family conditions in the current society.

Judging from your description, the living situation of their family is indeed not very good, but since it is a kinship, don't laugh at them, if your family conditions are good, you can help!

After listening to your description, such a family is quite poor, but as long as you work hard, the family will live a good life.

You observe very carefully, such a family should not be rich, normal family clothes should be replaced with new ones, broken like this, it is not broken, then it should be a lack of money.

Judging from the situation you said, this family should be poor to the end, and even the pants are torn, which means that this family really has no money.

It's hard to say, I think I can't see what his family is like here.

If you describe it like this, it can actually show that he is not rich, but I think that people are poor and have to be ambitious, in this way, in fact, his next generation can actually create a better life.

In this way, the family is now relatively poor, because most of them are now well-off families.

As you said, this situation should be Chinese, if you earn money can help her, but they all say that the old machine can be something, but I think we should find a way, their way to make money.

If a family has no rules, it is more terrible than poverty, and if the family wants to prosper, it cannot do without the rules. Similarly, if a child wants to have a good future, it is inseparable from the rules. I remember that the writer Liu Yong once said a very profound sentence, he said that if you are reluctant to set rules for your children, someone will definitely teach him a lesson in the future.

Usually we can see the attitude of children towards their parents, and we can see the parents' home education and children's upbringing. Because only parents with strict parenting can raise well-bred children.

For example, when it comes to Guo Degang, the first thing that comes to everyone's mind is his cross talk. But in fact, Guo Degang's tutoring is also very strict. Every time he was in front of his father, he always straightened his waist and didn't dare to stilt his legs, and he always respectfully accepted the teachings of his parents and his parents.

Shen demolished his son Guo Qilin, a typical rich second generation, flamboyant and domineering, but every time his father spoke, he was very respectful. Listen very carefully, this is the child who abides by the rules, and this is the influence of family style and tutoring.

This reminds me of the famous American pastor Billy Graham, who adopted a child who was allowed to disrespect his parents, and would not really know how to respect others. And those children who obey the rules and understand etiquette in front of their parents, no matter where they go, are liked and respected. Hearing this, some people may say, teacher, how do I feel that those children who know the rules always suffer, and those who have no rules, do not stick to the form, and don't care about the feelings of others, but always take advantage.

I hope you can remember the following sentence, freedom without rules is called presumptuousness. We must look at the problem for a longer period of time and not be blinded by short-term interests. You have to believe that the dragon swims in the shallows and is played with shrimp, but the dragon is still a dragon after all, and if it is a dragon, sooner or later it will go to the sky and enter the sea.

So that's what we have to believe in.

First, when the elders give something, they must take it with both hands very respectfully.

Second, when you see your elders, you must take the initiative to say hello.

Third, don't interject easily when the elders are talking.

Fourth, you should not call your elders by their first names, but use honorific titles.

Fifth, fifth, when eating, wait for the elders to move the chopsticks first.

Sixth, don't be picky when eating, don't waste, and don't beat the dishes and chopsticks.

Seventh, you should not make a loud noise in front of others and influence others.

That's all I've put together. Finally, I would like to say that a family with rules, no matter how poor it is, there will always be a time to make a fortune. Because there is a sense of awe, and a family without rules can be ruined no matter how rich it is.

Because the family style is not right, it is said that having rules and rules is the best feng shui for a family.