Why are we strangers who were once familiar?

Actually, I've had this experience too... We used to be good friends, but for some reason we are not together... (There was no conflict during the period, but when we met again), they passed by, and there was nothing to say... If you think about it, it's because we all have our own new life circles... When he was your best friend·· But when you leave, you will instinctively push another friend into his original place in your heart... In the same way... He's the same... When we meet again in 2, we no longer need each other... So it's naturally rusty...

Because it is no longer familiar, it becomes a stranger.

I think it's because of your familiarity.

So I care about each other's feelings.

Do you not know what to say? Or do you want the other person to say something?

I feel anxious that you're in this friendship or love.

Just say what you feel in your heart.

It's good to solve the problem · Happy and happy!!

Listen to the strangers you know best

There could be a variety of reasons why a familiar person may become stranger, but here are some of the possible reasons:

The passage of time: As time goes on, people's lives and experiences change, which can lead to changes in common topics and interests between each other, causing familiar people to become strangers.

Distance: If friends live in different cities or regions and don't keep in touch often, they may become strangers and strangers.

Changes in life stages: As people get older, they may enter different stages of life, such as graduation, employment, marriage, childbearing, etc., and these changes may cause former friends to become strangers.

Psychological distance: Sometimes, even though people still see each other often, they may feel muffled and unfamiliar due to emotional or cautious psychological distance. For example, relatives may have kinship with each other, but because there is no real communication, they will become strangers.

These reasons are not unique, everyone has their own experiences and situations that can cause familiar people to become strangers.

The relationship between the two needs to be connected for a long time, and sometimes the living environment of the two envy chain people and the person who picks up the brother and grandson have changed, which will make the two people become stranger and stranger, which is also normal. After all, human debates are constantly changing!

The main reason why acquaintances turn into strangers boils down to one: a lack of contact. The so-called acquaintances are nothing more than the following relatives, relatives, friends, classmates and colleagues.

A common feature of these relationships is that both parties spend a long and short time together and then separate. There are many reasons for separation: either due to the breakdown of the relationship, or to a change in the place of work and study.

In the first case, it goes without saying that there will be no contact at a later stage due to the breakdown of the relationship. After a long time, it naturally turns into a stranger.

It should be noted that in the second case. Separation was originally a spatial separation caused by objective causes. During separation, there is usually contact, which remains very tight, and over time, this contact gradually becomes loose.

Slowly, there will be almost no contact. For a long time, both sides barely remembered each other, so they became strangers. In fact, this is also a normal mental process.

When they first parted, the two sides were still in a loop, and the human relationships in the new environment had not yet been established. Due to the needs of working, studying and living in the new environment, they gradually establish a new circle, and although they occasionally come into contact with old circles and old friends, they will have less and less common topics until they finally have nothing to say. Finally became a stranger.

First, after getting married, there are too many people who can't help themselves, and because they are already married, they will put more feelings and energy on their families. Before we got married, we were relatively free in terms of time, and when we had nothing to do, some friends could just call out and get together. But once you get married and have a family, there is a kind of bondage, especially after having children, there are more ties, you can't go out if you can't say it, and two friends, if you have time, she may not have time, when she needs you, you may not have time, in short, the intersection is getting less and less, and because of this reason, the contact between the two people is also less, very natural, and slowly become unfamiliar.

Second, now that communication technology is developed, two people don't need to go out, and they can do face-to-face, but this kind of face-to-face is still not as real as meeting each other, just like saying that couples in a long-distance relationship, even if they call, send messages, and even chat, they are not as good as couples who can meet every day, and come more realistically. Therefore, this kind of communication method also shortens the distance between the two people, making the two people unconsciously become strangers.

Third, there is a very important reason, in fact, it is the same as falling in love, the communication between friends is also about the right person, like-minded, when they are not married, the two people can be said to be equal in strength, but once they are married, I think there may be a gradual gap in the economy, especially after a few years of marriage, after more than ten years, the gap has gradually opened. Because there is a certain gap in the economic level of the two colors, it also leads to a psychological gap between the two people, or even if two people sit together, they may not have a common language, which leads to the two friends are becoming more and more estranged.