Don t keep it because you don t love it, and don t save it if you don t love it?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You've asked me many times, why didn't you keep you when you said you were breaking up? I just wanted to tell you because we were all young at that time. I had only one thought at the time:

    If a man really loves a woman, if you say break up, I will never keep it. Now that you've proposed to break up, what can I do? I will only feel that I have not done a good job, so you don't love me anymore, since this is the case, I will bless you, but I will not keep it.

    I feel like giving yourself a little space and respecting your choices.

    Ten years, ten years is not long for a person's life, not short, too many things have happened in these ten years, good, bad, happy, painful, too much. It's not an exaggeration to write a **.

    I have learned to be patient and calm in the ups and downs of the past ten years, and my friends say that I am now very free, and I joke that my brother is mature. I like motorcycle tours, because I like the feeling of passing by the wind. Riding alone in the desert and crossing the endless plateau, looking at the holy snow-capped mountains, looking at the blue lake and the blue sky, you will think of many people and things, and you will forget a lot of troubles.

    Including you, but only to think about it, because I know that we are in different worlds.

    I really didn't expect that many years later we would meet and still be on the Internet. Ten years, ten years can change all the world and vicissitudes, you are old, my eyebrows are white. Maybe for so many years we have fantasized about what it will be like when we see each other again, but when the fantasy really happens at this moment, it is strange that we can still chat calmly like long-lost friends, like we have never loved deeply, but have a very natural closeness, maybe these ten years have made all the love and hate into stories, maybe this ten years have made the love that once made us tear our hearts into a kind of family affection.

    You talk about your family, your husband, your children, I say my life, my wife, my children.

    Do I hate you, you ask? I said I don't hate, how can I hate you? You said you hated yourself, you said all these years about you, and to be honest, the story between me and you is too complicated!

    What about love and hate? To hate you is to miss you, and to love you is to miss you. Why should I deliberately hate you?

    I don't hate you at all. Even though I think your words are a bit selfish! But I still don't hate you.

    I just want to be bland with you.

    I haven't written anything for a long time, and I don't have a clue, just a record of what is happening now.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you don't love and don't want to keep it, why sigh.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't love, of course, you don't need to keep it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no need to hold on to it. Because the person who really doesn't love you anymore can't love you anymore no matter how much he keeps him, he will only trample on your feelings indifferently and ruthlessly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is no need. Such a person will also hurt you more deeply, so it is best for you to let go decisively.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is no need to keep it, and in the face of a person who doesn't love him, if he continues to keep it, it will cause more harm to himself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no need to retain. Because feelings are based on equality, there is no need to be excessively humble. Humble love simply doesn't last.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think it's necessary, you can't keep people if you can't keep your heart, and people who don't love you can't keep them, and they're just torturing each other, so there's no need to keep them, that's too stupid.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is no need to keep it, even if you succeed in keeping it, the relationship between the two of you is not good, it will be a kind of torture for you, it is better to let go and find a better person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no need to keep it, knowing that the other party doesn't love you, you shouldn't keep the other party, it has no value and no meaning.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, there is no need, because these people really don't have love, and they don't really mean you, so there's no need to keep them.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no need. Because the relationship is mutual, if he doesn't like you, it doesn't make much sense for you to force it. Instead, you will put yourself in harm's way.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no need to keep it, let it go generously, this is good for both of you, and maybe you can become friends in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no need to keep it, because it doesn't make any sense, and it will only make you more tired.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is no need to keep people who really don't love you anymore, they don't love you anymore, and it's a waste of time to keep me, it's better to do something else.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't think it's necessary, people who don't love you anymore, no matter how hard you try, it's useless, life is not long, you have to cherish the days to come, cherish the people in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since you don't love it, then you don't want to save your sleepiness, you should give up completely, even if you are reluctant to be together, it will not be happy, and Bu Rennian is a harm to both parties.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't love each other, of course, you don't need to redeem it, there is no need and condition for redemption at all, and the two need an emotional foundation when they are together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Since they have decided that they don't love each other, it's normal for the other party to leave you, and there is no need for Ligao to redeem the other party, so don't be too involved after letting go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Since they have decided not to love each other, it is normal for the other party to leave you, and there is no need to save the other party, so after letting go, you will not be too implicated!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since they are all in love, why do they want to redeem it, even if they are still together. There is no feeling of heartbeat, and in the end they will still be separated. Such as so there is no need.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hello! If two people don't like to love each other, there is no need to redeem it, and there is no need for two people to redeem the sad one.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course, hail.

    If you don't love it, there is no point in you to redeem it, this is how to be a blind person, hold on to what belongs to you, let go if it doesn't belong to you, and know that the premise of love must be your love to be happy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are two explanations in my personal opinion, the first is that you broke his heart, so he will not keep you, and the second is that you did not leave him a reason to keep you, so he will not keep you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I am mobile customer service. One day, an uncle called ** and came in and scolded the move. After scolding for a few minutes, he dropped the harsh words:

    No more mobile cards, switch to Unicom! I calmly asked my uncle, "Is there anything else I can help with?"

    The uncle was silent for a few seconds, and said aggrievedly, "Why don't you keep me?" ”

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Is the departure of the leaves the pursuit of the wind balance ridge key or the tree's not retained!

    Many times we ask the same question again, but in fact, the first person who chooses to leave is not unloved.

    When a woman says that, the man's first reaction is usually to think that she has found someone better than herself, who loves her more than herself.

    Since she chose to leave in the wild, why not let her go to find her own happiness? It's not that I love her not to imprison her, but to hope that she can be happy.

    From another point of view, maybe the man's letting go is also hoping that the woman can turn back and be able to say that she doesn't want to leave.

    Sometimes you miss the best opportunity to express yourself, and you really don't have anything.

    Women may blame themselves for being too willful after leaving. Men usually blame themselves for being too indecisive.

    I don't know if it's right or not, but I always see other people's problems very clearly, probably because outsiders see it so thoroughly.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you love cigarettes, you are destined to be hurt ......

    Don't talk about love easily, the promise you make is a debt...... you oweThe mouse says I love you to the cat, the cat says you go away, and the mouse walks away with tears.

    No one saw the mouse, and after the cat left, he shed a tear ......In fact, there is a kind of love called giving up Sakurachang.

    If you were a tear in my eye, I would never cry ......Because I'm afraid of losing you.

    A kite will only risk a spine for a thread for a lifetime, women are fickle with their faces, and men are fickle with ...... hearts

    In the world of love, no one is sorry for anyone, only who does not know how to cherish whose ......The leaves are gone, is it because the wind is chasing or the trees are not kept???

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