I m out of love, I m so confused, I m so sad, I m out of love, I m confused, what should I do

Some people are not destined to be yours, don't be too involved, re-pursue your love, women are just like that, simple love is useless, don't care, lose the world because you will get better, at the same time there are several lovers, there is always a best in his (her) heart, even if he (she) has a lot, will not want the best for her, unfortunately, you are probably not her favorite.

It feels like she still likes him, so let's stop it as soon as possible.

The best way to deal with a broken relationship is to find your next target.

One way: divert attention.

Diverting attention is the best way to relieve pain. The heart doesn't want to, and the person is not annoyed. If you can turn your attention to other areas that interest you, then you have successfully escaped the pain of falling out of love.

To divert your attention, you must force yourself. Otherwise, you won't be able to transfer! A lot of times it's not a good thing for you to take a detour.

Method 2: Deliberately transform love into hate.

In a relationship, only if you hate will you not have hope anymore. If you don't have hope, you won't feel pain. But don't think about how to retaliate just because you hate. That's the stupidest thing to do!

Sometimes it's not easy to hate! Especially people who have loved dearly. Only by letting yourself stop having illusions can you transform into the realm of hate.

Method 3: Let the new love replace the old love.

This is a more effective way, but it should never be replaced by a random person. That's so sorry for not saying it, and it's not fair to the new love! You can try to socialize, and if it really touches that sensitive nerve in your heart, then you have successfully transferred.

Remember, don't use a spare tire instead. Not only will you not be able to transfer, but you will face more pain and trouble in the future. Because if the spare tire knows your true purpose, then you will lose more than you gain!

Method 4: Allow yourself to take a trip that says go.

Travel can make the best precipitation for yourself, and only when you are calm will you rationally analyze your successes and failures. Only those who can really settle down will know: if they can lose, it means that this person does not belong to themselves.

Travelling allows you to adjust your mindset in an independent environment. Let yourself choose to let go in a state of peace. The calm and tranquility of nature will soothe one's irritability and calm one's state of mind.

Then you've both matured a little bit. I was dumped by my girlfriend too, haha, she's pretty much what you think. If you think you're doing something wrong, then you should correct your worldview, your values, this view, that view, anyway, and establish a good idea.

Give you more time, if he is a man who loves you deeply, he may be able to contact you again in the future. You're going to put you into life. Distract yourself.

If he doesn't reach out to you, then you're going to give up. Sometimes, life is a train that can't be turned back, and after passing the station, getting off the train, you can't come back. You've been to him, too, and you've given you a chance.

It's up to him to think that much about you. My ex-girlfriend is more thorough than you haha After I was dumped, I still contacted her, and sometimes I took the initiative to contact her, and she didn't pay much attention to me, and I didn't say a word, and my heart was very cold, and I knew that she was doing it absolutely. And I found that I had grown up, and it was time to make up for my shortcomings, and I had to thank her for what she had taught me.

I remember reading a 4-panel comic before, one person went to hug a pot of cactus, and then left with a full body of thorns, and then when the second person came to hug it again, it had no thorns on the outside. Faye Wong sang well in that song, I gave you the style, the days to him, I gave you a smile, I gave him tolerance, I gave you my thoughts, and time gave him. Once you have it, take it as a good memory, there are some things that you really can't ask for.

A friend of mine once told me that love is a bit similar to learning scriptures from the West, everyone has to go through a certain number of tribulations before they can achieve the final positive result. If you don't get true love, it only means that your cultivation is not enough, and if you practice enough, true love will naturally arrive.

Let it be.

Some things are missed for a lifetime, who hasn't encountered this kind of thing, I have also encountered this problem before, my girlfriend was very good to me, because of my reasons, I broke up with her, I also regret it, I also hope that she will come back, and I have also mentioned it to her. But people will become mature when they are hurt, she has always been weak and resolutely left me, the broken mirror can not be circled, three years have made me understand, in fact, only letting go is the best choice, what you can't get is the most beautiful, my girlfriend has been in my heart now,

Don't think so, if your mother doesn't agree, do you want to elope? Can't put! You should think that your relationship will end because your mother doesn't agree.

Don't think about him all day long, although it's hard to forget the person you loved, do something you like every day, you turn your attention to other things and simply find another one, this time it's easy to date with the experience of love.

If it doesn't work, I'm giving you the answer.

Please adopt! ~~

Now the key question is whether you love him or not, if you really love him, be brave, if he loves you too, he will turn back, if you don't love him, just because of guilt, please let go, be good to everyone.

Whatever you say, you have broken up, you should look forward and maybe meet something better in the future.

Rub, live yourself, forget yesterday, you are different in different periods Where is there no grass at the end of the world Why do you prefer this grass People have already said that it is impossible, why do you still love him.

When I fall out of love, I go to the ten-second moving network to listen to the song, and my mood will slowly improve.

As your plan, his departure is not an irreparable loss, because first of all, life planning is not a company's plan, it must be done step by step, and if you are wrong, you will lose a lot, your plan is not perfect, and it does not take into account the factor that he gave up on you, as you now, what can you do? The consequences of your mistake he will ignore you, you must bear the "punishment" alone, that is, to make amends, when you are disappointed, confused, painful, life is still going on, of course you can't do a chic wave of the hand and say goodbye to all the past, why not face the future life rationally, if you have made a lot of efforts for this plan in the past, then the part that has been invalid must be abandoned, to reduce pressure on yourself, at this time you might as well take advantage of the upcoming holiday to take a walk around the neighborhood to have a look, Take a good look at your mood and thoughts, replan for your future, remember not to add too many uncertainties, and always leave yourself a way back. Isn't it time to divert attention?

Why not use family and friendship to soothe your mood? Frustration is not a pity, sadness does not mean that you should give up hope, give up life, there must be gains, your relationship must not be so beautiful and smooth sailing, losing him lost this plan at the same time, but also gave you the most valuable lesson, especially in the case of long-distance relationships, I believe you will become a stronger girl, the future is uncertain, but the result is inevitable, girls should be like cats, even if they are sad, no matter how confused, how can the chic figure be gone? Heal well, relax well, and think well, this is your compulsory course, and it is also the last darkness before your future happiness, come on.

Don't be confused, I'll tell you about the benefits of falling out of love: as long as what happens in the world, there is no pure good or pure bad. When we reach out to pluck roses, we will inevitably be hurt by the thorns on the rose branches.

Falling out of love makes us cry with grief, but it's actually the liquid that washes away the mirror in front of us that looks at us. We will find our own shortcomings, are they very willful, are they not tolerant enough? Correcting the shortcomings is like giving enough nutrients to the rose, so that the next flower of love will bloom more delicate and beautiful.

Falling out of love is for us to learn to cherish, perhaps because we understand the pain of loss, but also let us learn how to cherish the love we have in the future.

Falling out of love is about giving us a broader sense of family affection and friendship. Without love, I can truly appreciate the care and care of my parents, and only they are my last fortress. Without love, they will integrate into the atmosphere of friendship with their hearts, and in the boundless night, it is they who accompany themselves to tears.

In fact, the benefits of falling out of love are mainly to enrich our experience, aside from the pride of saying "love includes broken love, having lovelorn love is complete love", experience is the most important thing in our lives.

When you lose love, don't lose yourself. What is love? No one knows, there is no point in being sad and painful, tomorrow is still a new day, and it is good to be alone.

Then re-plan, life, cry when you should cry, there is always a tragedy in life, it's good to pass, believe in the future! Senpai.

Don't take who you are betting all your life on, love is beautiful, and fate is also very realistic.

In fact. Everyone's life will not be wasted because of the lack of anyone, think about it from another angle, he wants to chase his dream, why should he part with you, it's just an excuse! Live well, at least remember that the next time you meet him, you must let him know that without him, you will live a wonderful life, be very happy, and be very happy, it is enough.

You should look ahead, you still have a long way to go, if you keep going like this, it won't work, you have to think about yourself, think about your future.

Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it.

1. Falling out of love does not lose ambition. After falling out of love, you will never languish and lose your ambition and confidence in the pursuit of your career.

2. Falling out of love is not moral. Don't do stupid things that are too radical because of the pain and anger of a broken love. It is a manifestation of ignorance, and not only is it not a good medicine for suffering, but it will also lead to a violation of moral humanity and the criminal law.

After falling out of love, the love with the other person may pass away and never return, but the friendship cannot be abandoned yet.

3. After falling out of love, we should cultivate an optimistic and open-minded healthy psychology. Lift your spirits and look to the future, instead of staring at the love setbacks in front of you. Of course, calmly analyzing the reasons for the loss of love in the past and learning some lessons will help to brighten the mood.

4. After falling out of love, you should be good at eliminating your own pain, and you will use travel, walking, listening, reading, writing, exercising, talking to others, working harder and other methods to distract yourself and free yourself.

5. Don't give up the pursuit of love after falling out of love, it is unrealistic to want to be single for a lifetime after falling out of love. Life without love is imperfect, and we should continue to knock on the door of love.

Adjust your mentality, this world can't live without anyone else, the earth still turns, life continues, just forget it slowly.

If you hand over another one that is better than him, you will slowly forget.