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Judging by your introduction, I should be about the same age as you. In fact, everyone will start to be a little anxious when they are in their twenties, and they feel the need to talk about it, but I personally think that this matter is still casual. I've never heard of anyone who is lonely or wants to fall in love and end up with a happy ending.

Let's wait, there will always be the one that makes you feel very much, and the first love should find someone to love purely vigorously. Fate is sometimes very strange, you always think about it and wait for it, and it won't come; When you're not expecting, suddenly it's coming again. So, take it easy, let it be, I believe that there will be the one who belongs to you, she is also waiting for you, hehe, bless you!

What are you afraid of as a man, and what are you afraid of as a woman? Chase whichever you like, what are big men afraid of, you will find that it is actually very easy to chase, because girls are the same as you, but most of them are embarrassed to chase them directly if they fall in love with a handsome guy!!

I think your contradiction may be a psychological problem.

First, it's too rational to have any emotional impulses suppressed by your reason.

Second, maybe because you don't have a relationship experience, and most people now evaluate girls as realistic, but I don't know that people of your age will think about things more rationally and realistically, and if you want to take love seriously, it's a bit of a goal to get married, after all, no one wants to play with anyone, because they don't want to be played.

Third, there is no confidence in love, in girls, even in oneself...

It is recommended that you see a psychiatrist if necessary, or let go of your worries and simply follow your feelings and not be bound by reason.

Emotionally, you should be rational, you are doing well, at least you must be responsible for yourself and the female friends around you, and you can't fall in love with solving loneliness as the starting point, so it's no different from animals. You have a crush on many of them, and you can't confirm who you like, in fact, because you haven't met the person who really attracts you, "good food is not afraid of being late", and your princess hasn't appeared yet.

Maybe it's the reason why your knowledge is getting higher and higher makes you entangled, the higher your knowledge, the more rational you are, but we begin to accept that new things are emotional, when you accumulate experience, you will think rationally, I think you should be emotional about emotions, start to look for girls who you have a good impression of and have a good impression of you, when you have a common love, you need rational care, academic is important, but emotions are also indispensable.

Any successful happiness comes from the pursuit of love, when you have it, you will say: it turns out that you are my other half, and after that, you will say: I will pursue you in the next life, you don't regret it, right?

Try to socialize like a girl friend, and then find that she is the right fit for you, and show her further (accompany her to go shopping, give her small gifts, etc.).

You're like that.

Keep waiting, wait until you have the feeling of pursuit! Haven't gotten along with each other, how do you know you don't have feelings for her.

You don't just have to look for it.

Recently, I found a problem: more and more male friends around me complain about boring days and want to find a girlfriend to chat with, but when they really want to talk about who and who, they just play haha and don't want to do any action, why is this?

I still enjoy being single in my heart.

Xiao A: I'm still looking forward to finding a girlfriend. But I don't think I'm as lonely as I imagined, or I still enjoy being single. After all, a person is free and can do whatever he wants.

It will only make two people more miserable.

Xiao B: A person may be very lonely, but if you find someone casually, it may be even more painful. I was in love once before, and at that time I just felt that a person was too boring and wanted to get rid of singleness quickly.

But after being together, I suddenly understood a truth: it will only make two people more miserable. When two people who are not very suitable will be together, the pain of the difficult edges and corners when they run in will always remind each other, and when it comes to the end, there is nothing to think about but exhaustion, and they just want to end the relationship early.

Fear of little C: I haven't been in a relationship before, and I'm afraid of the feeling of rejection. And even if they are together, they are very confused about their future life, and they are not ready to face it, afraid that they will wronged each other in the end, and they are afraid that they will hurt each other in the end.

For this problem, there must be a general object first!

Single dogs: For this question, I also have to have a good partner first, I don't know which beauty is willing to be with me?

Finally, all netizens, please take a seat and see which category you are. If you have different ideas, please feel free to add.