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The child is the treasure of the parents, and it is also the closest person, but the relatives also need to avoid it, especially unconsciously, after the child grows up, as the opposite sex, it is necessary to pay attention to private things, and it is best to avoid the child, so as not to cause a certain psychological shadow to the ignorant child.
Parents and children also have a distinction between men and women, in fact, this kind of thing, not only such as the children of the family have encountered, many parents after the children grow up, have ignored the gender distinction, did not avoid the privacy of the child, so that there are a lot of ridiculous things.
Netizen 1: My son is more than 3 years old this year, and he has begun to speak all kinds of things, once, I went to the toilet in the bathroom, and my son came over and suddenly asked me, why are you squatting in the toilet? I was very speechless and told my children that we were different in gender.
Later, when my son was playing with the neighbor's little sister, he actually told the little sister that you are a girl, and you need to squat to go to the toilet, and the mother's face on the side changed a little. At that time, I was quite embarrassed, I guess her family has not carried out this kind of gender education<>
Netizen 2: Once when I went to the toilet, my aunt came, and my son stood aside. My son was stunned at the time, but he didn't say anything, and when my husband came back in the evening, he said to my husband:
Mom is sick and has a lot of blood, don't make Mom angry again in the future! My husband laughed and laughed at my son, but I was comforted to know it later. But I didn't know how to explain it to my son, so I told him that I was all right after a few days.
Netizen 3: My family is a daughter, and I told my husband early that after my daughter is 2 years old, he must carry the child on his back when he changes clothes, and he can't help his daughter take a bath or anything. I think this kind of thing should be paid attention to, the child's curiosity is strong, and it may be better to learn about this aspect later.
After being sensible, it is okay to tell her that there is a difference between men and women.
Parents must learn to "avoid" their childrenIn fact, parents must avoid their children and pay attention to their own privacy when they do private things after their children are two years old, especially the opposite sex. Such as changing clothes, going to the toilet, bathing, and so on. Although the child is still young, the difference between the physiological organs and body structure of women and men will still be discovered, and they will keep asking questions because of curiosity.
Therefore, in order to avoid embarrassment, parents should also grasp the distance between them and their children. But in life, even if parents deliberately avoid it, they may not be able to avoid it absolutely. If you really encounter it unintentionally, you must find a way to explain it to your child in a timely manner, so as not to let your child hold it in his heart and have a psychological impact.
And the parents' explanation of the child should also be generous, peaceful, secretive, or take this as a shameful thing, which will only have a bad impact on the child.
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Education is best when the child is 5 years old, when the child needs to have some understanding of his or her gender. Only in this way can you find that after education, children can grow faster.
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Children can be taught gender education in kindergarten, teaching children to sleep separately for men and women, and for men and women to change their clothes separately.
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I think it is important to educate children about sex when they are in kindergarten, because they need to be aware of it.
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1.It is very important to educate children about the correct gender roles, which will have a great impact on the child's normal social interactions, love, marriage, and family life in the future.
2.Gender role awareness can help children grow, although today's society pursues equality between men and women, but the premise of this equality is respect for different genders, it is the equality of shaping personality, not that everyone should be exactly the same.
3.Whether it is a boy or a girl, after playing their gender roles, pay attention to learning from the opposite sex, make their character stronger, and promote the all-round development of body and mind and the perfection of personality. For example, boys should learn from girls to be attentive and caring for others, and girls should learn from boys to be strong and brave.
4.The "gender-neutral" advocated now is to combine the strengths of men and women and be eclectic, not to confuse the gender of children.
5.Children are able to clearly recognize their gender roles at an early age, allowing them to develop their own personality style.
6.The Internet age has a profound impact on children, but the information in it is uneven, and it can even interfere with the healthy growth of children.
Sex education for children as early as possible is of great significance for the formation of future outlook on life and values.
2 When did sex education begin?
Establish sex education from the age of 3 Under normal circumstances, children around the age of 3 have begun to establish the concept of gender between men and women, and then he begins to know that there is a distinction between men and women.
Children aged 3-6 need sex education Scientific surveys have shown that the role of sex education in early childhood is more significant than that in adolescence.
In China, gender education is not yet perfect, and it is not uncommon for children in kindergartens to share the same toilet regardless of gender, regardless of the significant impact of toilet separation on children's gender identification.
Therefore, both parents and kindergarteners should be aware that sex education is very important for children between the ages of three and six. Some basic knowledge should be taught so that children can understand themselves correctly and can protect themselves.
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It should be educated when the child is sensible, because it is better to educate from an early age, do not wait for him to grow up and then educate, so that his understanding will be very slow, and it is necessary to communicate patiently, not to have a strong tone.
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Start with kindergarten. Because children at this stage have already been in contact with the opposite sex, it is necessary to educate children about sex.
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It should start when the child is three or five years old, because the child already has a basic sense of self at this time.
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