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Don't get angry when you are insulted, one is a coward. It's a person of its own. Because it's not less.
Do something. Go to the counterpoint. Because in many cases, we will guide a problem, that is, there are some people who are hot-headed when dealing with things, and they may not have the patience and ability to deal with many things, but some people are more endurance to things.
Who says someone else insults? Just because you're not angry doesn't mean that others are cowards, so it's better to be tolerant. Some people only need to know two words to deal with people, but they don't want to do much, not much, these three words are the most important thing for them, so no matter what you say about them?
They're not going to be in this mood for you, you know? That is to say, only people of the same level as you will care about what they are saying, and other people's high-level people, he will not praise them at all. I don't care about you at all, I don't even care about you.
Why do you want to go to the real tiger, what do you say? It's impossible, so don't think about it, it's completely impossible, I think you better put everything on this to improve yourself, don't think about whether to get angry or not? Kind of thing, because when you think about tomorrow.
It's a waste of water.
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It is not a coward to be insulted and not angry, it is because this person is more generous, self-contained, and qualified. Able to do not see the villain in general. I admire such a person very much, such a person has a big pattern, and he will definitely make a difference in the future, which is extraordinary.
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No. It's true that people only have their own cheapness, and anyone else wants to be cheap to you, it's impossible, there's no such thing. When others insult you, slander you, or frame you, you can be indifferent, and your level is elevated.
He didn't really belittle you, he helped you to elevate your realm, helped you eliminate karma, helped you develop wisdom, good things, not bad things; If you can't stand it and you get angry, then you're degrading yourself, and you're going to fall. Buddhism talks about real practice kung fu, the lowest kung fu, what is the minimum kung fu called? The eight winds can't blow.
When you blow this wind gently, it will move immediately, so what is that? This makes oneself a lowly, and oneself falls. Irrelevant to people?
The decision is irrelevant. Why the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, the people who are truly cultivators, are able to rise in adversity and good times, and do not fall down, we must understand this truth.
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It is the cowards who dare not be angry.
It is the wise who do not get angry.
What is the most powerful skill in the world, which is to control your temper;
Be negatively emotional.
The person who leads the way by the nose is actually hurting himself.
We can't control things as they are, but we can control our emotions;
If you can't control your emotions, even if you give you the whole world, it will be ruined.
A man's temper affects his career, and a woman's temper affects her marriage;
The one you love has cured your temper, and the one who loves you has suffered your temper.
If you like it, you will be close to it, and if you don't like it, you will be far away, and love and hate will never be hypocritical;
Don't hold grudges, don't intrigue, and don't calculate in your heart who just wants to live a simple life.
Don't use your cleverness to take advantage of other people's kindness, kindness is not synonymous with cowardice, good temper has to have a degree;
A good temper is grinded out, bad problems are habitual, those who dare not get angry are cowards, and those who don't get angry are wise.
It's instinct not to be angry because of the sunshine, so it's not melancholy, because it's excellent, it's not jealous, and it's not angry because it's generous;
There are too many unsatisfactory things in life that are destined to experience setbacks, and with a quiet heart, give life a shallow relief and a sense of indifference.
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Being insulted by others can not be angry, this does not mean that others must be cowardly, or it may be that he is very angry and does not like to worry about others, and the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly, which is what he is talking about.
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In my opinion, being insulted and not getting angry is indeed a coward, being insulted and not being angry is not forbearance, this is the manifestation of a coward.
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Isn't it a coward to be insulted and not angry? This depends on the situation, some people are generous by nature, and they can't be considered cowards if they laugh it off. There are also some people who are lying on their salaries and waiting for the plane to fight back. Of course, there are some timid and scared cowards.
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I think I'm a coward, and I'm too weak, timid, and don't have any dignity as a human being.
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Not necessarily, it may be that this person is more generous, and there is also the fact that he doesn't care about small things at all, and he has to look at the attitude in front of big things to see it.
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If it's a general bullying, it doesn't matter, but if it's insulted by someone else, then you can't have no reaction. Do it when it's time to do it, and never tolerate those who insult you.
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Sometimes getting angry is really fooled.
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A gentleman does not compete with villains.
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This depends on what kind of situation is insulting, depending on the situation.
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It is the cowards who dare not be angry.
Those who dare not be angry are cowards, and those who do not get angry are wise men.
How far away, how high is it, you only know when you try it.
Sometimes what you think is just a transition.
In the future, good luck and bright silver are all the efforts accumulated over time.
Everything is based on the result of success or failure, and hard work and key marks are not recorded in the total score.
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Psychoanalysis: First of all, hug you (
The reason why you are afraid, I guess it may have something to do with your family of origin, does your father often get angry and make you feel uneasy? Or some other not-so-good experience has left a mark on you.
But don't worry, you can get rid of this, and I'll give you three suggestions that I hope will help you:
1. Thoughts change emotions, and changing thoughts can change emotions. In the ABC theory of emotions, A is the event, B is the idea, and C is the result! A is fixed, if you want to change the result, you have to inject more positive thoughts into yourself, and the result will improve.
2. Empathy! If you look at the problem from your husband's point of view, do you disturb your husband's rest, or don't take care of your husband's exhaustion from a busy day, what will you do?
3. Calm down slowly, think about your husband's daily temper, and communicate more with your husband, let him know that you are sensitive and vulnerable, and the husband and wife should support each other and grow together, otherwise your sensitivity will also be brought to the next family, which will produce the same ruined result!
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