Does a woman have to be emotionally hurt to mature?

Let's analyze it from another angle! When two people are in a relationship, there is bound to be something that attracts each other! There has to be a reason for him to take a fancy to you!

If this reason doesn't feel anything, wait, it's all a lie! If it's for you to look good, maybe it's not love! It can only be said that he does not fully understand you as a person!

A relationship is formed! You're no different from when you first met him! It's just that the role and username have been changed!

Now you're called a girlfriend! Friends before! He has the power to find a mature girl!

It's his business! You may also insist that you are just a simple and lovely girl! Don't change for anyone!

You are who you are! Your character is like that! Why change for the sake of one person?

If you change once, you will have a second time! Everything else may be compromised! Character: It's your own principles and personality!

A girl who comes to have no principles and no personality! Is it for one person to live? Ha ha!

So maturity and naivety are not something that one person can say! It's not the definition he gave you, so it means that you are immature! It's just that the angle of standing is different from the realm of thought!

If he feels like you're not the kind of girl he wants, ask him for a change! There's nothing this thing can do about it! You don't look at you well at first!

Now he finds out that you're not good, that's not good! This is an irresponsible approach! Does he have to be mature?

He may be mature in your eyes, but he is not necessarily a mature man in my eyes! I feel like he's a little conceited! The more he asks for me, it only shows that he is not mature enough!

This hurts someone's heart too much! I can single out 100 reasons why he is immature, can you believe it? So I hope you can put your mind at ease!

You're right! You're looking for a boyfriend who is considerate of you! This is a normal idea for girls!

Instead of finding a mentor to do how you behave, how to deal with problems! He's looking for a girlfriend instead of someone who spends all day finding fault with him! Do you feel his maturity?

Well, maybe it's a bit too radical! You can think about it! A girl's heart should be something that needs to be touched by a man, not something that needs to be changed!

It's not a day or two to mature! There can be no growth without experience! Whether it's good or bad, you need to experience!

See more to know more! All right! Good luck

Women are like fruits, if they are ripe, then they are not far from rotting.

First love is unforgettable. I don't think it's an option to drag on like this. Let's find someone better than him from the beginning. As long as there is a new beginning. will forget about him.

Hehe, maturity can only be achieved through continuous experience of the world, not in an instant. Some people have fallen out of love countless times, and they don't necessarily mature. This kind of thing can't come in a hurry, just feel life well.

Isn't that a question? A person's maturity is related to the environment in which he lives and his personal experience! Is it not hurt at all?

He thinks that when you are immature, in that aspect, which Ni will change? People are changing all the time, since you love him very much; Then you will gradually become more and more mature according to your own shortcomings! In this way, your feelings will normalize!

If a mature person were more with someone he didn't think was mature, I don't think he would put you first in his mind!!

Yes, it's true that it's a broken love that matures, hehe

I'm a girl, too

But let me tell you, if he says that to you, it means that he is the real immature person, and you spoil him

Trick! Ignore him! Try it if you don't believe me, no, I'll give you points

Yes, men are the same, eat a trench and be wise.

Since ancient times, traditional ideas have been inherent in people's mindsWomen always seem to be the underdogs in love and marriage. It has to do with the woman's character.

The biggest personality difference between women and men is that women pay more attention to feelings and marriage and family, so they invest more.

There is a saying, although it is a bit exaggerated, but it also represents a large part of people: love is a part of a man's life, but it is the whole of a woman's life.

When faced with a failed relationship, it is more difficult for women to come out, the world is dark, and men, a turn will bloom brightly.

Vulnerable women also lack self-confidence and independence.

But too many women in life may not recognize their self-worth at all, or even lack self-worth, and rely on each other for everything they have, the man is his mountain, and the family is her dependence, but they can never live their own appearance, even if they have the ability and status, they always take the evaluation of others and society as the standard, and ignore their true ability and value.

A woman's personality determines that most girls are emotional, and if they are too emotional, they are easily hurt.

There is an old saying, "If you don't live long, you will hurt if you are wise." "Once you invest too much in your relationship, you will only hurt yourself in the end.

But life comes and goes, human feelings are warm and cold, and human nature is complicated. No one really can't live without anyone, and it's hard to have any relationship that will last until death. Overestimating your relationship with others will only give the other person the right to hurt again and again.

Finally, one day, when the indifference and selfishness of human nature are exposed, you will only be bruised again and again.

In fact, if you want to live a truly happy life, you must first understand yourself correctly.

Knowing that although you are a woman, there is still a lot you can do, when your self-strength is strong, the people around you can't hurt you, and you meet people who really recognize you and care about you.

What really affects your life and hurts you is actually your own lack of character and ability.

I think that women are more invested in relationships than men, once a woman recognizes this relationship, she will take it seriously without hesitation, and sometimes once a woman is hit in marriage, it is also very hurtful, because she has given up her whole heart.

For a relationship, a woman will invest a lot after she identifies it, and in the relationship, the woman is more sensitive and fragile, because she attaches too much importance to this relationship, so if the boy has a little overstepping behavior in the relationship, the girl will feel very hurt.

Because if a girl likes a boy, he will give it wholeheartedly and without reservation, and he feels very aggrieved when he breaks up.

Because in the relationship, a woman will give sincerely, if she falls in love, she will be desperate to fall into the relationship, give everything for the relationship, do not leave a way out for herself, once the man changes his mind, he will be hurt a lot.

I think this is a wrong proposition, both men and women are easily hurt in relationships, but women often use crying to express sadness, while men often hide everything in their hearts.

When a relationship ends, both men and women can actually be hurt. Men are just not good at expressing this emotion, and all the bitter fruits are swallowed by themselves.

Because in relationships, women tend to pay more attention than men, and women will pay a lot for their feelings. Especially after getting married, for the sake of the family, women often choose to give up their favorite jobs and devote themselves wholeheartedly to their feelings.

This is all different from person to person, scumbags will have it, and scumbags will have it. Personally, I think boys are more free, there is nothing to lose by loving them or not, they are all girls, if they get married and have children for boys, then men are not responsible. Then this aspect is indeed the most hurt for girls.

Because most girls will fantasize that they have a man who loves them very much, and when the illusion is broken, they will not be able to accept it.

I also feel that boys are more vulnerable in relationships.

Because you're a woman, you can't feel a man's sadness. In fact, men and women are equal, each has its own feelings, don't you think?

It's all the fault of "Gao Pan". It has nothing to do with gender, but the harm of women is magnified. The wounds suffered by men are required to be hidden, and it is shameful to let them out; Women are encouraged to be noticed for their injuries, so people have this delusion and prejudice.

Because in the world of girls, feelings should be something that they think is more important. After having a doll, the doll and her husband are all she has, so women are particularly vulnerable in their relationships, just because they take their feelings too seriously.

In fact, it should not be said that the emotional person in the relationship is the most vulnerable! And most of the women are sensual, so it seems that the girl's hand is the most vulnerable in the relationship!

Women's minds are more delicate, and women's ability to bear is relatively poor.

The degree of harm caused by the same thing to both parties is actually about the same, but the woman is relatively weaker, and the natural damage will be greater.

I advise those girls to think about it when they encounter something, and there is no need to make themselves very tired.

People will have their weaknesses that are harmless, but what they fear most is that their weaknesses are being exploited by someone intended. Why do they often say that men are not bad and women are not loved? It's not that women like bad men, it's that these men are very familiar with women's weaknesses and are good at grasping women's weaknesses.

Sometimes men say they really give, but what they get is constant rejection from women. It's not that you're not good enough, it's that you're not giving what she wants. Only when a man knows how to spot a woman's weaknesses and understand her needs can he truly enter her heart.

Your expectations of your partner are so high that such a man would only exist in a fairytale world. Once a man can't meet your needs, you will feel very disappointed and angry. But no one in this world is perfect, everyone has their own little shortcomings, and women who expect too much from men always expect something that they simply can't achieve, which not only makes men feel stressed, but also a blow to themselves.

A woman's feelings are too vulnerable. Sometimes I feel that women are not too selfless in life and do not give too much. Be selfish so that you can live more naturally and without limits.

In love and family, women give more and more. Even if you pay, they have only one purpose, and that is, they are busy having children at home and fighting with three children outside. If women give too much, they will become unguarded!

So women, don't be stupid, be selfish, and love yourself more, especially married women.

Someone once said I wanted to be a bad woman. Why? Take love, for example.

If you love a man too much, you will always show the kindest side of you. Because of his words, you will fall in love with him thousands of miles away, or you will not know how to cook, but you can still cook for him easily. Even if the man likes you very much at first, eventually, he will become interested in you and think that you are not challenging.

Bad women know how to retreat for the sake of progress, they know how to raise men's desires, therefore, men don't itch, they are more interested and want to conquer it. Well, of course, love will be preserved for a longer time. So good women are more likely to get hurt.

In a relationship, it is not scientific to say that it is always the woman who is hurt, people are emotional animals, they have experienced emotional setbacks, and it is the feelings of both men and women who are hurt, and men also have feelings, and they will also be hurt. However, because there are differences between men and women in the expression of feelings, men are more introverted and often show that the appearance of being hurt is not obvious, while women are also different, and they often show very strong emotions after being frustrated, such as crying and fussing, or very depressed, and even making many very incomprehensible actions, etc., so it gives people the feeling that women have been hurt more in this relationship setback.

Cherish your feelings, communicate more in case of trouble, and don't break up easily. Be strong and be the master and strong in life.

Personality is determined, physical fitness is determined, social status is determined, and many directions determine how vulnerable women are in their love life.

Because women are more emotional, men are the strong party in most relationships, and women are mostly protected roles, so women are more dependent on each other than men, and it is easier to devote themselves to the relationship.

The difference between the sexes makes the return relatively independent, while women are accustomed to relying on the care of others, and in this way, they are in love and marriage.

In marriage, it is generally the male who occupies the dominant position, and the female is relatively in a subordinate position, so once the relationship between the two has problems, the man seems to be able to come out quickly, while the woman feels like the sky is falling.

After the girl is confessed, it doesn't matter if it's because she really likes it.

Huan, or because I'm embarrassed to refuse, as long as it's in love, I'll gradually like this man, maybe at first they still enjoy the happiness and pride of being pursued, but slowly, they unconsciously love each other more and more. He even gave his heart completely.

2. Maybe at the beginning, women will show all kinds of reserve, dare not eat too much when eating, only dare to smile and laugh in front of their boyfriends, afraid of losing the image of a lady, and have to dress themselves up beautifully before going out, otherwise they dare not go out... You say, what does this have to do with the injury?

3. In fact, the relationship is very big, girls deliberately suppress their feelings, to cater to each other, to make each other feel good, in fact, there are few girls who are so-called good children, so that they can smile without showing their teeth and so on, the so-called boyfriend hopes for the girlfriend, just blindly catering.

4. When breaking up, girls will feel that they have changed their personality for the sake of their boyfriends, and they still break up. That's it.