How to make people you like change their opinion of you!! 30

First of all; There is no right or wrong thing. What is right is wrong; What is wrong is also right. From the perspective of a person's life, there is really no right or wrong thing.

I'll give you an example; Are you wrong when you say a murderer? Not necessarily! It was precisely because he killed someone that he knew his personality and temper.

After 20 years in prison, after coming out, he had a very gentle personality and did many great things. If he hadn't done anything wrong, he might never have been able to recognize his character flaws, and he might have failed in his marriage or job because of personality problems.

In the midst of mistakes, we will grow rapidly. Deeply understand the problems that exist in yourself. So, if you do something wrong, it's not necessarily a mistake, it's probably a good thing.

And doing things well will breed people's pride, so that they will stop and no longer be modest. This can easily lead to mistakes. In the process of constantly doing wrong things, people themselves will grow up and progress rapidly, and always do things well, and take it for granted that they are omnipotent, which will inevitably lead to failure.

Yes, everyone likes to stick to their ideas, right or wrong. Because people look at problems from different angles. Like what; Smoking is not good, but so many people just smoke, why?

It's a habit, it's an addiction, it's hard to quit. There are still people who break the law, but they still break the law again and again, why? Because the police who committed the crime did not catch him, he had a fluke mentality, so he broke the law again.

If he breaks the law again, the police haven't caught him yet, and he wants to break the law even more.

You can't change someone's mind about changing someone's mind. Only when he realizes his own problems will he change, so professional counselors take reasonable measures to make clients realize their own problems, rather than let them change. When an individual realizes his or her own problems, he or she will naturally change.

For example, if a student who does not like to study, when he realizes the importance of learning through psychological counseling, you do not let him study, and he must find time to study quickly.

Therefore, our task is to allow the visitor to perceive our world, to perceive ourselves, to perceive the changes in the world, to perceive human nature, not to make them change in a hurry.

Everyone's thinking pattern is learned through the environment and habits, imagine that if a person does not have their own habits and thinking patterns, or what others say is what it is, isn't it the same as a robot? When a person determines a theory or an idea, he will stick to his idea until there is a conflict or it is denied by himself.

The environment is one of the most important factors that change a person. For example, the learning environment, the humanistic environment, the academic environment, and so on. You have to try to change the other person, first understand the other person's environment, and then introduce your own ideas to him, and guide the other person into your thinking mode.

It's a long process and can't be done overnight.

Let's take the difference between countries now. Their beliefs and values are different. Because of the differences in regions and living habits, for example, in the Middle East, where there are many years of war, there are many boys and girls, and polygamy is a reasonable system.

And in China, if you openly say that you have multiple cohabitants or have a few girls you like living together under one roof, who would do that now, if it might be legal. You will not only be punished by the law, but also morally condemned by society.

Most people who insist on their own ideas think that they are right, and we are the same, different people have different views on the same problem, and you think it is wrong on the same question, but some people think he is right, there are always two sides to things, right and wrong are not so easy to distinguish, of course, some problems are good to distinguish between right and wrong, many problems we do not consider from the position of others, the position is different, the answer is different, but other people's ideas can also be selectively changed, provided that you have enough reasons and conditions for him to believe, not only believe in you, but also believe in the thing itself, and he can also have the conditions or be able to create the possibility of such conditions, look at things can not be too extreme, think comprehensively, empathize, maybe there are problems you can figure out.

There's really not a right or wrong side of everything.

Everyone looks at the problem from a different angle, except for some issues of principle - such as the express provisions of the law, in fact, everyone's view is a certain side of the matter, not right or wrong.

And the denial of one's own ideas is equivalent to the denial of oneself, and if you think about it, you know that it touches on the problem of self-esteem.

And why do you want to change other people's minds, other people's ideas are not necessarily wrong, you think about how you would think if someone was stubborn to change your mind.

How is right and wrong judged?

Right and wrong can be converted from different perspectives, and there is no real sense of right or wrong.

The reason why they insist on their ideas is only because it is profitable, because the views they insist on can bring him benefits, which is the original sin of man, and there is nothing he can do.

People will insist on their own opinions is a kind of self-protection procedure, as for right and wrong, in fact, everything is not only right and wrong, you will ask this to show that you are still too young in society, and the real thing is far more than right and wrong, as simple as color is not just black and white.

Because everyone wants others to change, everyone has their own "position" and is self-centered.

Everyone has their own beliefs and values, and it's normal to have different opinions on different things

Right or wrong, just your own judgment. You can't use your own to ask for each other.

In fact, I think there is too much insistence on giving up for people, for people, for things.

Of course, sometimes your own thoughts and practices may be wrong, but you just don't admit it.

Others have right and wrong, and if you don't have right or wrong, there is no right or wrong, young.

Change your mind and look at it from a different perspective.

How do you know you're right?

You're a bit obsessive-compulsive. Come to an end.

Don't be in a hurry to ask him what to do with you? You can take a look at why he doesn't like you? Maybe he has a favorite goal, or maybe he hasn't done enough to make him tempted!

As long as you firmly believe that you really like him! Can't do without him! Then you have to try to make him feel that you are the best woman in the world who cares about him the most, and knows him best!

And don't stick to him! Be nice to him, but tell him you're doing what you're willing to do! Don't ask for anything in return!

As long as he understands that you care about him! After he affirms you, you tell him that you are going to find someone to marry! See how he reacts!

It should be very jealous! That way you'll know if he likes you or not! There is a better chance that he will be together!

Rely on her. You can quite say that... Say so much. I won't say anything, and I confess that it's actually a girl to a boy. I don't want to type today - for the sake of buddy you. Just hit it.

I summed it up: girls vs. boys. First impressions matter. It's the first time I see you, it's important to have a good impression of you, and the first time it's mainly about your appearance.

Temperament.. Dress up.. Behavior...

This impression is difficult to change in the future. (It seems.) You still have a future) though.

It can also be changed. But ...

Depend on.. I don't want to type anymore... Vindicate.

I said two or three sentences and then I was speechless, all the women said that I listened, and I was depressed when I listened! You teach me how to say 5 hours of **!

She shouldn't like you, right? It is recommended to leave her, since she refuses to see you, she must have no feelings for you, don't be stupid, what's the point of accepting it again?

Tomorrow you have 7 roses. Affectionately told her: Our relationship has never begun, but now I want to tell you that I broke up with Liang Bi.

Maybe our fate has not yet arrived, maybe I am not the prince in your heart, but the princess in my heart has always been you. Allow me to say one last thing: I love you, goodbye.

Love is love, big brother, you have to cherish freedom! You have Valentine's Day, buddy, this year's Singles' Day has one less person to play mahjong at the table.

Ask her to go to the café.

Holding a bouquet of roses in his hand, he gently said to her, "Dear, if the trapped town is the end of the world today, then I will still accompany you!"

I've tried, and it's very successful!!

If you like it, you must express it bravely, and if you have a crush, you must hide your feelings in your heart and face it with an indifferent heart.

Then look at whether you have been anywhere, if you have been there, then be a stranger, and if you don't, you can be friends.

Indifferent attitude and calm mind.

Treat him like a best friend.

Usually my friends treated me like that, and I spent it raining.

With a sincere attitude, a calm tone, and a heart that loves him.

Go with the flow......What you change isn't necessarily what you need the most.

Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

It's better to continue to be an ordinary friend If you confess and she can't accept it, then even if you are friends in the future, you won't be able to return to your previous friendship. It's going to be embarrassing.

==, because of his psychological imbalance. It's jealousy, it's three.

8. It is a long tongue, it is naïve, and it is concerned.

The main feature is that two people start talking about other people when they have nothing to do together.

Just choose to ignore it. You fight back, and they come in. Note that they have a strong driving force.

I used to love to evaluate others, since I read an article I don't evaluate this and that, why an article can change a person's habits for many years, it is because he moved his heart, shocking, because following that article will make you happier and happier, how bad, it used to be because this piece of knowledge was blank, of course, hazy and confused, with pointers and methods is like driving a car, how can you still drive the car in the mud and grass, it has long been on the road.

=。= Everyone belongs to the rebellious period, calm down, look at the opening point.

But there are other reasons for yourself.

They are all lonely babies! Ignore it....

Such people belong to people with low emotional intelligence, and they do not have the awareness to understand the feelings of others, and they will suffer because of it, and even if they suffer, they may not know it, let alone why. For such people, it is good to ignore them directly, and doing your own thing is the best counterattack.