My boyfriend wants to marry me, but his parents don t agree, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Work hard to make them like you, influence them, and work hard with your boyfriend!

    You're married to your boyfriend, not his parents. Step up your game!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    As long as you are sincere, you can also step through the big cut in front of you and insist on your true love. You also have to work hard, do what you should do, work hard, no matter what his parents give you a look or something, don't be emotional, usually send more text messages to care about them during the holidays, so that they think you are a good daughter-in-law. Your boyfriend will also talk about it, and it is very likely that he will accept you after a long time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Six years, he won't let you change it! For example, work, at least work together! I don't think his parents would object!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you don't agree, you'll fight with your mother.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The key to getting married is to see your boyfriend, you have been together for six years, and he knows you a lot more than his parents. If you choose to give up just because of his parents, it's that you're not doing it right, after all, it's been 6 years of relationship. So you have to look at his performance, and if he doesn't have faith in your marriage either, then you have to divide it.

    If he really wants to live with you for the rest of his life, all he has to do is to let his parents understand your strengths, accept you, and tell them that he will be unhappy without you for the rest of his life. Listen to your parents for other things, if you also listen to this matter, it means that he already has you in his heart and is the same without you. So think about it and wish you happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hehe! Now I feel strongly how important it is to be a good person! It can be said in ancient times, although it is not explained in modern times, but it is vividly expressed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How do you feel about your touch in the past six years, have you or he ever felt quite aggrieved? If there is, don't knot.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Shilingyanyy is quite right.

    There is no mother-in-law who does not like a hard-working, capable daughter-in-law.

    The two of you have to have one heart, and you have to work harder.

    I wish you all happiness. \(o^)/

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    was already ready to get married, but his father suddenly disagreed. There must be a reason for this, so you first have to figure out why his dad doesn't agree. Then go with your boyfriend and talk about what you can do to convince his father.

    It's really not okay to let your mother-in-law mediate, after all, your mother-in-law and his son are his closest people, and with them, there is nothing that can't be solved by the book.

    Only with the consent of his old man can you get married. Otherwise, if you get married in this case, there will definitely be a knot in the heart of the old man that cannot be opened, and it is not good for anyone to be good in this state.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is also the case, and now there are ways you can get your boyfriend's father to agree to your relationship.

    First of all, you have to figure out why your boyfriend's father is hungry and blind and why God suddenly doesn't agree to your marriage, there must be a reason, and secondly, you have to reflect on it to see if there is something wrong with you, and let your boyfriend's father find out or know that rotten Qi does not agree with your marriage.

    Finally, you need to communicate with your boyfriend, ask your boyfriend why his father did not agree to your marriage, and then take steps to protect your marriage after figuring out the reason.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't be afraid of things when you encounter things, as long as you laugh at your Lu Tsai to face and solve the problem, anything will be solved, his father disagrees, there must be a reason, then you must first understand what the reason is, and then solve it in a targeted manner, knowing the situation is easy to do, you can find a relationship if you are not convenient to solve, if it is not a principled problem can find a way to solve the problem of touching Jane, knowing the reason is to take 10,000 steps back, if you can't solve it, then your heart is also stable, the outside world is very big, There are also many good men, and there are many good families.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can ask your boyfriend to communicate with his father to see where the problem is, whether it can be solved perfectly through various methods, so that you can get married smoothly, if it can't be solved, then it depends on your boyfriend's opinion, if he also agrees with his father, then he has to break up. If your boyfriend still loves you very much and likes you, the problem is not a big matter of principle, and he still insists on marrying you, then continue to do the work of the elderly, they must be father and son, and there is a father and mother who do not love their children, and his father and his father study the relevant provisions of the marriage law Adults are free in marriage and love, and no one has the right to interfere in the marriage of others, including parents, just let his father figure it out slowly, and the two of you will get married. I wish you all happiness and happiness!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm going to marry my boyfriend, but my father suddenly disagrees, first of all, you communicate clearly with your boyfriend, what is the reason why your father is different, if you and your boyfriend are in place, in fact, the father's problem is easy to solve, after all, parents feel sorry for their children.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There must be a reason why his father doesn't agree with you to get married, and you can only find a solution if you know the reason. If you don't know the cause, you can't solve the problem. If you know that the reason can't be solved, then you can only give up the relationship and force marriage, and the family relationship will be very difficult to get along with in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The two were about to get married, but the man's father suddenly disagreed. It depends on what the reason is, and at the same time depends on how much this boy loves you, if Shifeng loves you very much, he can do work with his father. One day, two days, not a month, two months will sooner or later do your father's work, don't worry, as long as he is sincere, it is true.

    Love your words. It will definitely work. If he suddenly has the same way as his father's desire to return to spring, it means that your position in his heart is not too important, and he will break up early.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You and your boyfriend are about to get married, and at this time his father suddenly disagrees, you have to find out why his father disagrees, why he doesn't agree? Duo Li let communicate with his father and discuss your affairs well, at this time, it depends on the meaning of your boyfriend, what is his attitude towards your marriage? If he wants to be on the side of the husband and wife, you have to think more about whether you should get married?

    After Bi Yujiao got married, everyone is a family, and now there is a conflict, so will the contradiction be even greater after marriage? Therefore, you should always settle everything before you get married, talk about marriage, and wish you a happy marriage.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm ready to get married, but my parents suddenly don't agree, what should I do? That is to look at the relationship between the two of you, if the two of you are real lovers, really good, understand each other, give each other relatives and lovers, then you can get married, adults do not agree is their business, and the two of them as long as you have a good life, and adults have nothing to do with it, do not agree, it is really a warrior for a long time, it is good, mainly depends on the relationship between the two of you, right? If you really love each other, it is something that no one can separate, if you don't really love each other?

    Then find all kinds of reasons to separate, you can fold it yourself and see if you are true or false, or really in love? Do it yourself, watch it out!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your boyfriend is about to get married, if his father suddenly disagrees, there must be a reason Parents are people who have actually lived through marriage, and they will understand what it means for two people to get married.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    At this time, it depends on whether the two of you are determined. First of all, it is necessary to understand the reason why the boyfriend is sleepy and his father does not agree, generally parents will not have trouble at this time, if it appears, it must be a poor ruler and there will be a reason. After understanding, if you are still married, you need the two of you to work together, so that your boyfriend can go to his father to communicate and do work.

    If you really can't do it, as long as you two are willing, you can complete the marriage by yourself. Later, he slowly eased his father's relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Since his father disagrees, then you can carefully roll over the book and reconsider, a marriage that is not blessed by your parents will definitely be unhappy in the future, even if you get married, his father you still won't like you. Therefore, you can only be wronged when you marry in the past, and you will not be happy, because you are not married with him alone, but the overall situation follows a family, and you want to integrate into a family.

    If your boyfriend, he's not the kind of guy who listens to his father for everything, he has his own opinions, then you can be with him, you can marry him, but if he listens to his father in everything, and his father is particularly strong, then you have to think about your relationship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    He and his boyfriend are ready to get married, but his father suddenly disagrees, why should he respect his father? If you can't say that you can't take it for granted to rent silver socks, of course, you continue to prepare for marriage, just Qin Bozhao wants you to be good, marriage is your business, your father is just a reference, you are good to him, and he will slowly understand.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If the sentence has reached the point of getting married, and his father suddenly disagrees, there must be something hidden, you let your boyfriend go over to find out, see how big it is, make his father so angry, and then go to solve the letter rent together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If your boyfriend agrees with your father, you should agree to break up, and if your boyfriend doesn't want to break up, you should ask your boyfriend to convince him to convince his father. This is the best way to solve it, and you can't make things stiff.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In fact, although the number of marriages is a matter of two people, it is indeed quietly guessed that it will also be affected by the transportation of potatoes to both families, but it is necessary to communicate well and understand why the other party's father is opposed.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you are going to get married to your boyfriend, but his father suddenly disagrees, you should communicate with your boyfriend, if your boyfriend agrees with your father's opinion, you should agree to break up, and if your boyfriend doesn't want to break up, you should let your boyfriend convince his father.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Sit down and discuss it calmly, and see that the bottom problem is out of the liquid sail in **, if his father has not agreed, the marriage without the blessing of both parents is not perfect, so it is better to make a fuss and hail to discuss as much as possible, if it really doesn't work, it can only be a friend of the state. Of course, marital autonomy also depends on the fate and emotional solidity of the two of you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First of all, you need to know the reason for your parents' opposition. Why do they retort because they think you are talking about marrying too early or are they dissatisfied with you?

    If it's the latter, then what is the reason for dissatisfaction? These should be thought through in a realistic manner. Secondly, after finding out the reason, you have to come up with a solution, you can communicate more with your parents, and it is best to spread out each other's ideas on the table to talk, everything can be explained well, and the problem can be easily solved.

    In fact, parents want their children to be happy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The boyfriend's father suddenly disagreed, there must be a reason, you have to ask what the reason is, point to Sakura and then point to the family to face the overall situation together, and solve it well. I believe that parents are for the good of their children, so if there is a misunderstanding or a problem? It's best to be proactive about it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    First, you have to figure out why his father didn't give God's consent.

    If it's because of your own problems, you can change it.

    If it weren't for your problems, just communicate with your boyfriend and point out that marriage is a personal matter for the two of you. The persistence of two people will always have results.

    Of course, with the blessing of both parents, the marriage will be happier.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you don't agree, you can ask what the reason for the lack of family is. Generally, marriage is mainly a personal affair of the two Suiqing. As long as two people love each other, then they can be together. Out of respect for your parents, be sure to ask the reason for the incident.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In this case, as a woman, don't put too much pressure on the guy. Since it was his father who suddenly sent a quarrel to disagree, it was up to the man to settle it himself. Of course, if the man respects you, he will consult with you.

    You can also express your own opinions. Try to be as amiable as possible and solve this matter.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The man's father disagrees, and the first thing to look at is the boyfriend's attitude. If your boyfriend has a very strong attitude in order to be with you, and has made a lot of efforts in front of the man's parents, it means that he really loves you, and the two people in the chain insist on persuading the parents It is just around the corner. If you have a very negative attitude and do not have much weakness to improve the relationship between your parents and you, then it is recommended to break up.

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