Selfish Mom Please help me 100

Your mother is usually more stressed, if it is, relax her maybe the situation will be better, but after all, your mother is your own mother, you can't help but face it, maybe as a child, in the place where you can accommodate your mother, or accommodate it, because it seems that mothers rely on their children, and it seems that the older they are, the more like a child, emotions, and human aspects seem to be disregarded, just think about it, my mother is like this, I hate it, like pretending to be smart, your mother is the same as my mother, but at this time, In order to avoid conflicts, I always don't do anything, because I am a child and she is the mother who gave birth to me, so even if the mother has thousands of bad and tens of millions of faults, children, we have to endure it.

From what you wrote, I don't see how selfish your mother is. But it can be seen that you hate your mother very much.

The dog is not ugly, you are a person... Mom gave birth to you, which is already the greatest favor to you, I don't know how to be grateful and lack filial piety, and I am speechless to you.

Don't you have to worry about her to be filial? You are worried about her, and being good to her is filial piety! You don't understand what filial piety is.

Forget it, accidentally got the problem of the beast, disgusting.

I was also afraid to talk to my mother, and Boo knew how to open her mouth and how to express it.

But I still love my mother very much in my heart.

You should all vent.

Maybe your mother is more selfish, and people are selfish

If so, you should be happy. Because your mom will take good care of herself.

As for the house or something, the old people are like this, and the waste is really not environmentally friendly.

Everyone's mom is different.

A hundred people and a hundred ways to get along, we can question how you and your mother are doing.

It's OK if you think it's OK...

Shinobu, what else can you do? How dare you? Anyway, the days still have to go by day by day, and if you get used to telling the truth, you will see it, is there any other way to do this kind of thing?

You should be good to her, it's your fault that you treat her badly, it's her business whether she treats you well or not, you can't talk about her. That's how I was taught to do it......

What's the matter. She's your mother. If you don't feel well, it's best not to live together. As the saying goes, out of sight, out of mind. But you still need to be tolerant. You're 26 years old, aren't you? You should know how to do it.

It can be seen that your mother has not done a good job in your education, resulting in a deep generation gap between you and her, but also a rebellious mentality. But no matter what, it's already very selfless for her to pull you to the age of 26!

Whether she listens or not, explain the reason to her It's not a way to argue every day

I think you should look at things from a different perspective.

I'm sorry this friend, I can't agree with what you said, I think your concept is a bit of an abusive idea, I'm not saying that filial piety to your parents is wrong, but I think your concept is a bit close to aiding and abusive.

Summary. Selfishness is human nature, and it is undeniable that the greatness of some mothers lies in the fact that maternal love suppresses their nature. But in the absence of a violation of the law, selfishness may be nothing.

Don't kidnap women morally, if you become a mother, you must give selflessly. Because she was a human first, then a mother.

Why is mom selfish.

Selfishness is human nature, and it is undeniable that the greatness of some mothers lies in the fact that maternal love suppresses their nature. But in the absence of a violation of the law, selfishness may be nothing. Don't kidnap women morally, if you become a mother, you must give selflessly. Because she was a human first, then a mother.

Because the location is different. Some people's mental order is that I am a mother, then a wife, then a daughter, and finally myself.

There's nothing wrong with either sorting. You can't ask everybody to put their motherhood first. I don't know who said it, mothers must be selfless, and maternal love is great.

A mother is a person who is willing to die for her child. Mother is the one who eats fish and gives you the best meat from her belly to eat the head and tail of the fish herself. They sanctify the word mother.

I'm not saying that there aren't people like that in the world, I'm saying that not all mothers are.

What is selfishness? Isn't it selfish for me to eat fish and eat the best meat myself? I don't go out with my kids on weekends, is it selfish to go to dinner with friends by myself?

Is it selfish not to buy toys for my children and lipstick for myself with the bonus I just paid? My child is preparing for the college entrance examination, I didn't prepare all kinds of supplements, I didn't stay up late to accompany the school, but I watched movies by myself and laughed happily, no, sleeping sweetly, is it selfish? Everyone is being human for the first time.

No one owes anyone. Life is your own. Other people's lives, even if they are relatives, don't interfere too much in comments.

I have seen people who sacrificed their lives for their children, and who went bankrupt. I've also seen those who abandon their children. Even killed.

I asked my husband in the morning, when will my father-in-law have a puncture? It's afternoon. So I told him to go to the hospital after lunch.

Just after lunch at noon, my husband** called, saying that the operation had been canceled, and told me that I don't have to go to the hospital. When asked the reason, he couldn't hear clearly. I didn't feel at ease, so when I cleaned up the kitchen, I said to my mother, I'll go to the hospital and have a look.

Mother had that strange expression of reluctance again, and asked me, "Are you going now?" I hummed, didn't bother to explain, and walked away.

The reason why my father-in-law canceled the operation, as I analyzed at the beginning, was that there were too many underlying diseases and the risk was relatively large. My husband called the eldest and uncle, and the result was to cancel the operation and be conservative. My father-in-law, who had been preparing for the operation since last night, was suddenly stopped when he went to the operating table, and he was a little apprehensive.

I comforted him, I knew it wasn't much use, but what could I do but comfort him?

When I got home, my husband called ** again and asked him to cook some porridge with preserved eggs and lean pork, and he would get it later. I started cooking porridge, and I also told my mother, I really didn't expect that my mother actually said that you will have to suffer in the future. I really didn't feel good when I heard it, but I still wanted to explain it to my mother, so I moved out when my father was seriously ill, and my husband also helped.

Because he was afraid that his mother would embarrass him when his husband came, he had a hard time analyzing this matter with his mother. I said, if I'm like my husband and cousin, mother-in-law, mother-in-law and mother can't move when they're old, and they send it to a nursing home, and they steal their money, then I'm still called someone? I didn't say what kind of situation you were in if I were that kind of person.

But I know that my mother won't think so much, she will only think selfishly, my daughter was born to me, and it is natural to raise me, and to pay to others is to make me suffer.

Even though I knew my mother's thoughts, although I disagreed, she believed in the vain age, and I could no longer defend with her, so I had to let her go.

Your mom is a little selfish, but she keeps herself behind! She can't rely on your father, yes, it's your daughter, she is old and rich, I'm not afraid that your daughter won't take care of her! Again, your relationship has always been average, and now your husband and wife can carry it yourself!

I feel that Dad is pitiful and has time to play ** Dad greetings! Mom is also in constant contact because she is insecure?

It's good to forgive your mother, to forgive others is to let yourself go, forgive your mother, be filial to your mother, and we will be happier.

It is too lenient to respect the minimum power of the person.

At the very least, treat your parents as normal people, not objects attached to anyone.

There should be nothing wrong with your mother not sponsoring you. By doing so, she will force you to learn to be self-reliant as soon as possible.

As for your mother's grievances with your father, she is quite pitiful. One is that she is not as rich as you think, and the other is that she is helpless to sell herself for glory, not love.

After reading your story, I feel that your mother is not very selfish, at least she provides for your school tuition. When you got married, I didn't take all the gift money, and I gave you some jewelry. It's nothing if I don't help you with the children, and it's not the responsibility of the older generation to take care of the children.

As for whether or not to take your salary, it depends on how much money there is. If it is far more than the expenses she gave you from childhood to adulthood (the depreciation of the yuan should also be taken into account), it is considered selfish.

Hehe, there are such people, and there are no people's most basic.

Your mother is a more material woman, and you are a more emotional girl.

Your mother is greedy for pleasure, but that's not wrong, everyone has the right and freedom to have fun.

Your mother may not love you very much, but she loves you.

I don't love you very much, but from childhood to adulthood, I let you do things by yourself, and I don't care about you a lot;

For your sake, it is manifested that you are afraid that your marriage will suffer, so you want a bride price and do not pay to support you. Marriage is an investment and a gamble in your mother's eyes.

Loving you manifests itself as she will step up to help you when you are cornered. Either way, you are her daughter after all, and she has the will to help you.

I don't know how highly educated your mother is, you should be a cultured girl, and cultured people are more cultured after all. In short, there are certain differences in your social values and views on love.

Your mother doesn't love you, but she loves you, but the way of love is a bit blunt, and this kind of love is more like a responsibility, which makes people sometimes unbearable.

My mother is a person who looks at fame and fortune, just wants to be an official, all eyes are on her, she comes to my house and steals, ten years younger than my father, begging for food to Hefei, I didn't expect to have a high vision, scheming, my father died at the age of fifty-four, she is now living to be twenty years old, scheming, old and dead.

Man is inherently selfish. Be especially selfish to your own mother, because you know she won't blame you, and you have enough reason to plunder her.

For your loved ones, especially your parents, they have done a lot for you, but if you don't obey you in what you think is important, you have to hate her.

Sometimes I wonder what the obligations of parents are, whether it is to be healthy, healthy, physically and mentally healthy, and able to support themselves, or to develop an excellent parent who cares about everything and loves them all the time. When we were children, our parents compared our children to each other, and when we grew up, we children compared our parents again. We blame our parents for not caring about us and being considerate of us, but not caring if they are happy and happy.

My mother always said that she cared about me, but when I was in confinement, this was my most important moment, and she didn't come to see me, should I blame her? My mom has her own business, and she also said her own reasons.

Everyone is selfish and busy with the things they think are important. Everyone has their own things, everyone has their own reasons for doing something, everyone tries to be self-justified and self-consistent, every sentence seems to be right, every sentence seems to be wrong, every sentence may be right in a specific position and a specific situation at a specific time, and there is no right or wrong for adults, and some are interests. Each sentence is appropriate at a specific time, in a specific position, in a specific situation.

I also have a son, and when my son gets married, I will go, but will I help him take care of the baby, I will not necessarily. When I have a daughter and my daughter is in confinement, will I take care of her, not necessarily. I can't do it myself, so why should I ask my mother to do this?

By my own standards, my parents raised me to be healthy, I had no problem with my heart, and I was self-sufficient, and that was enough!

It is a very touching act for a mother to sacrifice herself to protect her child, and it shows the selflessness and greatness of maternal love. This usually happens when the mother is in danger or needs to take certain measures to protect the child.

From a moral and ethical point of view, a mother's protection of her child is an act that should be respected and appreciated. The mother's sacrifice shows that she is willing to risk her children's safety and well-being, and this sacrifice deserves our respect and appreciation. At the same time, we should also be grateful to those who protect us in our daily lives, such as family members, friends, doctors, etc.

However, we should also take into account the possible impact of this protective act on the mother herself. Sacrificing oneself can have a negative impact on a mother's physical and mental health, and it can also have an impact on her self-esteem and sense of self-worth. Therefore, while protecting our children, we should try our best to ensure that mothers can live a happy, peaceful and dignified life for the rest of their lives.

In conclusion, it is a great act for a mother to protect her child, but we should also pay attention to the feelings and needs of the mother herself, and how to maintain the health and happiness of the mother while protecting the child.

Tell your mother clearly, how much money you only give them every month, if you exceed the range, you don't have a point, you have to be ruthless when you should be ruthless, and you will only make yourself uncomfortable if you are obedient all the time.

In such a situation, I think you should tell your mother that it is not easy to make money, and you should also refuse your mother appropriately in the future.