My girlfriend lives with my brother, and I feel very awkward, but I can t say it

There's already a problem Say that you're stingy people are really stingy people, love is selfish, don't believe you hug individual women and say because of the cold, you see how she reacts, and when your brother looks for other girlfriends in the future, you also hug his girlfriend and say cold, you see your brother's reaction.

The brothers and sisters upstairs, unless his younger brother is young, how can he bear this kind of cuckolding thing? If you really endure it, if you find something more out of the ordinary in the future, it's strange if LZ doesn't use the knife. Raise a tiger for trouble!

Hehe,The question is whether his brother is an adult?,If so, it's a little bit abnormal.。。。 I don't know about your girlfriend's family situation, but I remind you that in some families, sons are favored, and maybe your girlfriend also has this kind of thinking, so she loves her boys, younger brothers, very much... And oh, maybe she and her younger brother have been dependent on each other since childhood, the eldest sister is like a mother, maybe she has played the role of a mother since she was a child.

Hehe, get to know your girlfriend, if she doesn't have any of the situations I said, she may have a problem, it's time to talk to her.

Just tell your girlfriend, but you just need to know who your girlfriend is

Depend on! You can bear with this!! Shenma Leng is all excuses!!

…Is it my own brother? How old are both? If my brother is young, it's nothing, and if both of them are adults, it's really weird...But it's really hard for you to talk about this kind of thing, so it's better to bear with it.

What should be said should be said, and the issue of sovereignty must be said.

I guess how old is your brother, right?

I don't feel like I can be a family, one is to communicate with my brother and show my attitude, and the other is to stay away from that girlfriend.

It can be: "Brother, your girlfriend is beautiful and cute, but there is a fly in the ointment; Disrespectful and rude to our parents"。Or for example:

Brother, if a person, regardless of male or female, will not respect his elders, will he be able to respect each other and live a good life in the future? ”

I suggest that you have a good talk with your daughter-in-law, and that you yourself should respect your parents and be a good example." "If you can't communicate with your daughter-in-law, tell your mother-in-law, let your mother-in-law do your daughter-in-law's work, and urge her to change her attitude towards her elders."

If you are more courageous, you can directly tell your brother's girlfriend: "In our family, their brothers are very filial to their parents and elders, and whoever enters this family must treat their in-laws as their own parents and honor them." "I think that since you live in our house and want to be the daughter-in-law of our family, you must honor your elders."

If it doesn't work, I will directly say to my brother: "Brother, to put it bluntly, your daughter-in-law is still like this, and I don't agree with her entering our house." Parents won't be happy either." If the younger brother still insists on marrying, then it can only be separated from the family.

In the end, my brother's girlfriend was not polite at all when she lived in the house, which means that she obviously does not regard herself as an outsider and does not respect her elders. But your parents are also your brother's parents, in this case, if your brother doesn't stop it, don't communicate, and don't criticize it harshly; To put it mildly, it is to ignore everything with color and lightness. To put it more seriously, it is the lack of the most basic concept of right and wrong and ethics, which is an important thing that will affect your big family in the future!

Then of course you have to stand up, as your brother's girlfriend, you should respect your brother's family, she is so unkind that she doesn't give your brother face, you can talk to your brother, or directly tell your brother's girlfriend and beat her up.

Tell your brother that you may move out for a while. There are three kinds of things in this world: other people's affairs, your own affairs, God's affairs, the younger brother's girlfriend is the younger brother's business, carefully sort out your own area and the things in your share, what to do, don't deliberately accommodate them, after all, you don't owe them either.

You can talk to your brother, maybe they think you're redundant. If you have the conditions, you might as well fulfill the younger brother, you move out, and create opportunities and space for them. Of course, you can also advise your brother to move out.

Your brother's girlfriend is also your relative, so you should first show a generous attitude and try to get along with her as much as possible. If it is true that this girl has a personality problem and the rest of the family thinks she is rude, you can also remind your brother.

I think you should tell your brother directly, let him know the true face of his girlfriend, and also tell him that this kind of unqualified girlfriend wants him not to bring it to the house in the future.

Find a chance to talk to your brother and his girlfriend, and use your momentum as an elder to extinguish her prestige. Point out what he's not doing right in front of your brother. It is best for her to correct her mistakes, and if she still does not repent, then she will relax and ignore them in the future.

should communicate with his brother first, let him tell his girlfriend, if there is any conflict, say it and solve it in time, if this is just her personal attitude problem, then it is better to let his brother move out with her, this will only destroy the family relationship between the two.

I think you have to make it clear to your brother about this kind of thing, so that he can either go out and find a house to live in, or let his girlfriend be sensible, and you better not talk to his girlfriend directly.