Love becomes flat, will love really be flat?

I've never been in a relationship

I've never eaten a pig, at least I've seen a pig run

First of all, I think you should find a quiet place on a day where you can completely relax, do it, and slowly "reflect".

What to reflect on?

The first type: the earth knows that love is about understanding each other, sometimes you think that you are very good to him, care about him, and think about him everywhere, but this requires a "degree".

Maybe everyone is immersed in love at the beginning and doesn't notice anything, but time is often an important test of love

As the saying goes, if you care too much, you will be chaotic

Boys often need encouragement

What he needs to see in your eyes is "trust".

Don't let your concern make him feel "verbose".

He's got his space, basketball can bring out the male side Give him a little more room to be independent, a little more confidence in him Second: If you think you've got that degree under control, that's your boyfriend's problem

Truly falling in love with someone is not based on how many advantages they have that attract you, but how many shortcomings they have that you can tolerate

What kind of old oath is just a kind of "hiccup" that can't be released

The "love" that is often on the lips is not secure

Love isn't "true love" if it can be put on the lips A boy's vows are synonymous with lies, and I despise this kind of thing, even though I'm a boy too So you should think about it now and think about whether he's worth your love and what kind of ratio you end up getting and what you're losing Feelings are really hard to say

Personally, I think "I'm lucky; If you miss it, you will die".

So I think you should let go

It's easy to get old if you have too many troubles, hehe.........

Break the point

Good luck

Anyone's relationship has a period of time is flat, this is normal, you don't have to worry, it's just that your relationship has not yet reached maturity, it may be that he has something on his mind during this time, try to understand him more, the relationship is not in a hurry, the desire is not reached, the relationship is the same, take your time, when your relationship returns to the past. I'm sure you'll be fine.

Completely broken, forget everything about yesterday, start anew, and start a journey for tomorrow.

You will find better ones.

I've been through this too, so let's ask him why. My boyfriend said that I was very tired because of unreasonable trouble, so he was getting weaker and weaker, I think you should give him some time to calm down, don't pester him, that will be more boring, will leave you earlier. Also, don't believe what men say, it will become very fast, and you won't have time to think about it, no matter how true it is, it will change one day. It's true.

Go with the flow and wait and see if it gets better.

After being together for a long time, it will not be as inseparable as at the beginning, you say that he is not as good to you as before now, because he may have been too good to you at the beginning, and now you are a little bad for you and you feel that he doesn't love you, this is understandable, but you should also talk about it, a little more tolerance, a little less complaining, sometimes you personally think that you want him to be able to spend more time with you, so this is the love you want, but he doesn't think so, everyone has their own living space, It's impossible to accompany you every day and don't even have the freedom to play with your friends, you can talk to him more, talk about each other's thoughts, if you don't have a common language, then break up, feelings can not be forced.

My parents are both in their old age, my father is 73, my mother is 75, and their bodies are quite strong. But there are some minor faults. They have been together for decades, and in my impression, in addition to working hard for us, they have usually quarreled and even fought.

Mom and Dad are educated, when I was young, my father often went on business trips, and most of the things at home were borne by my mother, and their generation felt that it was what they should do, and they couldn't hear Dad's praise or mother's complaints. The days passed as plain as water.

When we were young, we had to buy clothes for cloth tickets, and since my dad often traveled on business, we always had new clothes to wear during the Chinese New Year. Every year, whatever clothes are fashionable in the city, my father will buy them for my mother.

After we worked and started a family, we didn't want to live the life that our mother lived. But I slowly discovered that the love of my parents is a lifetime.

Mom and Dad have some problems, Mom has high blood pressure and diabetes, and every time Dad takes Mom to see a doctor. In the process of seeing a doctor, my mother didn't have to do anything except tell the doctor about her condition. The medicine I bought back was taken by my father every time I divided it.

Mom knows that Dad's stomach is not good, 365 days a year, three meals a day, cooking new meals at meals, and cooking Dad's delicious dishes. Every time I go home, I hear my father say that your mother has to lead me to read all those years in vain. I don't know how to take the medicine prescribed by the doctor.

I can't boil the decoction, I have to take care of it. It sounds like a complaint, but it is a joy every day. Mom's medicine before meals, medicine after meals, when he was going to finish it, and when he was going to go for a follow-up, he remembered it clearly and made all preparations in advance.

Mom was doing some of her usual chores. The red light that took care of my father was all over my face.

The love of the fathers has no sweet words, no vigorous words. But in every detail that you don't notice.

Everybody's going to want it.

Do you yearn for the love that accompanies you to old age What does the love that accompanies you grow old look like? Many people think that the end of love is family affection, but in fact, there is not only family affection No matter how passionate love is, there is a dull day, which is a reality that many people can't accept in the process of marriage and love repair counseling When love goes from hot love to dull, it does not mean that love is over, but it represents that a relationship should enter a deeper mental state It's just that many people will have some psychological changes because of their own and each other's emotional changes at this time, and they begin to question love. I don't know if this love has entered a cold period or the other party is not in love It is easy to tell whether love has entered a cold period or not in love, and it can be easily seen from the other party's mentality and behavior 1Whether there is a sense of dependence When a relationship enters a flat period, it does not mean that the relationship has disappeared.

Since love exists, it means that the other party's dependence on you has not changed On the contrary, because two people will establish a deeper communication after entering the dull period, and this dependence will deepen But if you don't love, this dependence will disappear, and the other party will begin to become independent, no matter what happens, when you can solve it by yourself, it means that the relationship may have moved towards the moment when love disappears 2Whether there is a sense of responsibility The sense of responsibility will not disappear with the end of the chemical reaction, if the other party still has feelings for you, this sense of responsibility will not change He still wants to be responsible for your present and future, which is a very normal mentality between couples If the other party treats you very casually, then it also means that there has been some kind of transformation between you The difference between the cold period and not love is still very big, and many people will carry out some self-deception in the relationship, For example, they know that the other party no longer loves them, but they will still deceive themselves and just enter a period of emotional lull. This kind of situation will only make a relationship worse and worse, and in the end, it will hurt two people.