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He's such a temper, it depends on how deep the relationship between you is. Basically, if he proposes to break up, he will definitely not try to make it back once, twice, or three times, even if he loves you very much, his heart hurts very much, and he will definitely give up and will not beg you for this. If you really love him, you have to accept it.
I have a similar personality to your boyfriend, I am also a Scorpio, the family conditions are not good, and I seriously lack a sense of security in the love of my father and mother, like junior high school, I have no money, and I would rather walk back for three hours than borrow money. My boyfriend will also say that I am very absolute, as long as he mentions breaking up, I will definitely not keep my head and leave without looking back. But after two years with my boyfriend, I've changed a lot, and if he proposes to break up, I won't walk away and wait for him to come to me, but I still can't try my best to make amends.
Character is like this, if you want to love him, you can only accept it, you can only take the initiative.
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How so? It depends on how much you love him, if you don't love him deeply, just admire me and advise you to give up! Judging from your description, he is a not very tactful person, and he is more stubborn, and has a strong sense of self-esteem, which is not bad, but if you are too strong, I guess you will have more problems when you get married in the future!
I'm also a very easy-going person, so I suggest you find someone who is similar to yourself! Cheerful and informal! Life will be much easier after that!
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Personally, I think if you really love him, you have to stick to it! If you don't have deep feelings, give up! Because he doesn't know how to coax you, even if he gets married, he won't be happy! I wish you happiness!
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People with such a strong personality have coaxed you, just admit your mistake, you don't have to be unforgiving, just take advantage of the situation and get better.
He has no choice but to fight with you, you have to take the initiative, ask him to play together, have a meal and watch a movie or something, and naturally reconcile.
But if you think clearly, he's the same temper, if you can accept it. You can be together. But you have to listen to him more about everything, I believe he will take good care of you, you say that you have an easy-going personality, you shouldn't mind too much.
If you can't stand his dictatorship, it's better to change your temper and be with you and the people you get.
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Don't redeem it, it's such a big contradiction before you get married, what should I do if I get married?
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That's how my husband is.
My mom and dad didn't like him before, but then they did.
So I'm his wife now.
In fact, he has too much self-esteem.
My husband and I actually broke up for 2 months, but then he still found me and kept me. He also cheekily came to my house to ask my parents for sin.
So my parents also accepted him, in fact, his character is not bad, because men must have self-esteem, if even self-esteem is gone, is it still a man?
My husband also doesn't know how to do things a lot of times, but he can't help it. There is no perfection in man, and women have to support him silently behind his back. So now a lot of times we support each other, ask him when I don't know how to do it, and I help him figure it out when he doesn't know what to do.
Men need to exercise, not everyone is born with everything.
I used to compare him to others, but that was wrong. You can't always blame him for his mistakes, and sometimes help him correct them slowly.
Whether your parents accept him or not depends on what you do.
You think carefully about whether he is worthy of your help to fight for him, and whether he has made you like him and worthy of marrying him for the rest of his life.
If anything, you have to talk about his good qualities in front of your parents, and then you tell your parents that you affirm him. No one else marries.
In the future, parents will slowly appreciate the goodness of their boyfriend.
Don't always let a man with self-esteem"First"You do it occasionally"First".Whoever looks for it first can't miss something.
In love? Everything has to be paid for by a man, and occasionally you do something. Make him feel inseparable from you.
Give him some encouragement, and you can't lose anything, can you?
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Emotional matters let it be.
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It's too long to see it. Two points are talking.
Obviously, his feelings for you are not as deep as the questions you give him, at this time you should not be too demanding, it may be that he has other difficulties, these things are really difficult for others to give advice, because you don't know the details between you, you can only rely on your delicate mind to judge whether he is worthy of your love, according to his personality and the performance and attitude towards you on weekdays to judge, to maintain a rational perspective, don't let people deceive and don't let the people you love hurt your loved ones.