How to save this relationship, how to save this relationship

He belongs to silent love, and he exchanges the breakup for everyone's happiness. You respond wrong to his concern at first, he cares about you, worries about you, wants to hold you in the palm of his hand, stays by your side all the time, but you think he is harassing you and trapping you. Divide it, he's not for you.

Because you don't feel this love anymore, and he's dead set on you. Thirdly, short-term and long-distance love is already like this now, not to mention long-term love.

When two people are together, don't keep quarreling, it will hurt feelings, give more to each other, and increase trust in each other, wouldn't it be good? Have a good talk with him and give him one last chance. If you really love each other, cherish it.

You're right, it's just a matter of what you focus on.

Hehe, in your article, judging from the information I got, you said that the purpose of the breakup was to keep him, but unfortunately, he didn't say it. But in the end, he also said that he broke up in a daze, why at that time? Maybe he's tired, don't you say he doesn't coax you, right?

Can you be sure of how he felt? Can you be sure he didn't think about breaking up because you said it?!Are you sure he doesn't want to keep it?

Men also have a lot of things to be busy with, you look at the current society, no house, no car, no building, how dare you talk about marriage?

Sometimes I think from a different perspective.

Sometimes it feels very small, as it is so uncomfortable, it is better not to love!! Knowing that it is difficult for you to have good results in the future, you will be decisive and break it off... Reluctantly, there is no happiness.

Since neither of them is happy, let it go! There will be another sky waiting for you to fill in the colors.

Using the wrong method to redeem it will only be counterproductive.

His hesitation can be understood, love is a matter of two people, but marriage will involve a lot, such as family affection, money, family status, etc., what you need is communication. Weigh the weight, there will always be a lot of helplessness in life, and there must be some trade-offs! Give him some time, and give yourself some time to think about it!

No matter how much you love someone, keep your heart for yourself.

Believe in your first feeling, and it's definitely right.

The relationship will fade after a long time, and the thoughts in the heart will be the same. You think so now. Just because you're right right right now.

The authorities are obsessed. I'm a good example. Sometimes it's much better to listen to what others have to say.

Don't just know love, after all, it's hard to maintain feelings just by faith. What you think will not be known to others, and you will not know what he thinks. Sometimes you think he's like that, but maybe not.

In a word, listen to the opinions of others, and listen to the voice of your own heart. And the voice in your heart is determined by time, don't lose yourself for fear of losing this relationship.

I'm basically in a similar situation to you, I'm also working hard, when he's silent, I'm also the most uncertain, when he's a little negative, I'm so worried, but, you can't let go, since there is no way back, just love bravely, he just needs time to prove whether you love him firmly, the person who gave true love, I'm afraid of losing, I believe he loves you, I firmly believe that the water drops through the stone, when his heart is cold, you must be hot, warm him, let him see your determination, come on, hope to achieve positive results.

Actually, you can't force love this thing, you say you love your boyfriend very much. I'm convinced, but are you sure he loves you?

If he loves you, he won't ask you to do things you don't like because of an inappropriate sentence, and if he really loves you to the core, he won't accept another girl because of the problem of time.

You said that he still has an ambiguous relationship with you, eldest sister, you don't want to think that people have feelings, how can he forget you so quickly, besides, you are so infatuated with him, he is reluctant to be reasonable, and men want to be infatuated with all the girls. If he really wants to be nice to you, he'll settle that part of his family himself.

I'm like me and my boyfriend, he's local and I'm out of town, when we talked, his parents didn't know how much he objected, but he had always been firm in his position, he refused the blind date arranged for him by his family, and he had to be with me, I was very sad at the time, because I also loved him, I was reluctant to let go, but what was the way, I wanted to escape, but he kept insisting, saying that it would be good to have more contact with my parents, and when I arrived at her house, the people in his family always gave me a face, I wanted to go, But he will say that his family, every time his parents say that I am not doing well, it will be my man who will do it himself in the future, for a long time! The people in my family are used to it, and they don't make things so difficult for me, and now I am very happy.

But your words, your boyfriend is already shaking, you are still two places apart, do you think he will insist? When he gets married, when you are invited to drink the wedding wine, you still think he is innocent.

You're going to pick yourself up and get up in** fall in**! Don't care about your people posing on your head.

You have to think for yourself. No matter how good this man is now, he doesn't care about you anymore, so you have to put it down, and the good ones are behind.

As the so-called bystander Qing, listening to what you said above, it seems that the people in your family don't agree very much, and in this case, your boyfriend didn't give you a clear answer, although you cherish this relationship very much, I still mind if you break up. Not for anything else, because your youth can't wait, because you still have the love of your family, if you don't get along with your family because of this, you will definitely regret it later.

The emotional problems of older children are really tangled. However, I think that since they really love each other, they must talk about it. Got the word clear.

Tell him that no one can make you happier than him. In the end, if you really can't, then give up and don't contact. Feelings are things that can be taken and can't be let go.

If you really can't get it, then force yourself to let it go.

Well, I'm the same age as you, and I'm also going through a relationship that I want to let go, and you've only been together for a year, and it's been six years since I gave up this relationship. In fact, men choose to let go for their own reasons, to believe that if he really loves you enough, he will not let go easily no matter what. What family blocks, what personality discord, what ideology is different, all are pretexts.

If we humbly beg him, we will only make them feel that we are stalking and make them impatient. Think about it in other words, if he really turned back, would you still love him as much as before? Can you guarantee that there are no pimples in your heart?

In the rest of your life, especially when there is a conflict, can you promise not to mention it or think about it? Therefore, the best way is to give love a way to live, give each other a chance, and let your true destiny have a chance to give you happiness.

If you look at your problem purely from the perspective of love, it is much simpler, love is mutual, and now you still love him very much, the key is whether he still loves you or not. If he loves you, nothing is a problem. If he doesn't love you, is it necessary for you to waste time with a man who is in love with another woman?

What I'm trying to say is that love can't be forced! If you choose to give up, I mean if, then I suggest you live in a different environment, because you are more likely to forget in front of new things, so that you can be less hurt, after all, you still love him very much....

It feels like he doesn't love you anymore, follow his heart!

Hey, the opposition at home is just a pretext! If your family has a lot of money or you have a good job now, he just doesn't want to raise a housegirl! What about saying that I love you, woman, you must be self-reliant.

True love can withstand setbacks and tests.

There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it.

It's very tangled If it were me, the story has developed so far, I wouldn't insist on this love anymore.

Actually, you really want to get a lot of support and want to continue to love.

Love and marriage are two different things. You need to see it through for yourself.

You're tired, and you're doing a lot. I've always believed that love is about being brave. But your affairs have developed to such an extent that I feel that his love for you is no longer so great, and your later begging for him has made a change in his heart--- even if he later has a girlfriend to "revenge" you, because he is angry.

But then the behavior exceeds the bottom line that should be maintained, then again, you have admitted your mistakes, and he still does not forgive you, should you say that you are very angry, or not generous enough.

In addition to their own careers, those who are not filial to their parents (not to say that they have to obey their parents) and the rest of the people who can't pay for their girlfriends, this love is worth scrutinizing.

Maybe it's a fan of the authorities, maybe it's because I don't understand your love, it's all guessing, you can try to find him, make it clear at once, love is love, and be able to continue, it's good. No, then bury love in the bottom of your heart, and it is also beautiful to have this unforgettable love as a memory in your life.

No matter what, as long as the love is true enough, it is worth continuing, on the contrary, why not look back at the other grasses As the movie "Gone with the Wind" said, Hao Scarlett has always insisted on loving Ashley very much, forgetting the captain who has always loved her behind her back and supported her, in fact, she has long liked the captain.

Whoever has the most initiative in the world of love is easily hurt

From the back and forth that you described, you can see that you are now turning from passive to active, but it makes him even less concerned, and everything is in moderation.

Love and life are sometimes not the same thing!

Marriage is not as simple as love. Let's talk to him and get to know each other's hearts. If you really can't turn back, let it go, it's good for each other.

From your description, you can see that you don't know what feelings are, and all you have is the punishment of turning feelings into impulses. The thoughts between you are all because the relationship is not firm, and you are unwilling to each other, and you ignore what you really need. If you really love her, talk to him about it, and really have real emotions.

I wish you all eternal unity and a hundred years of good togetherness.