Why are parents so fierce? 0

Not all parents are so fierce, only parents who can't teach, parents who don't know how to communicate will be powerful to their children, thinking that this can solve the problem, in fact, on the contrary, this will only cause more disgust to the child.

They all hope that their children will have a good future life. Now parents are fierce that is their love for you, and when you become a parent, you will understand the truth!

Because they're finally the boss.

Pity the parents of the world, for your good

A daughter-in-law has become a mother-in-law for many years!

Because they care about you and love you.

1. Traditional upbringing.

It is undeniable that the traditional concept of parenting still has a subtle influence on us, such as "if you don't fight, you can't make a weapon", "filial piety comes out under the stick" and so on. Because in the traditional concept, the relationship between parents and children is top-to-bottom, and there is no concept of respecting children and getting along with children on an equal footing. The respect of traditional culture is mostly focused on getting along with peers, but it is very lacking in the parent-child relationship.

2. Poor self-emotional management.

If the parents' minds are not mature enough, then it is a very heavy pressure and burden for the children. When encountering difficulties or setbacks in life, some parents are prone to vent their grievances on their children. When parents cannot meet their expectations of life or work, they want their children to follow his instructions completely, and if the child's performance is not satisfactory to the parents, then the parents will most likely beat and scold them.

3. Familiar growth experience.

Because they did not accept new knowledge in time, or they lacked experience, some parents directly applied the original parents' discipline model, and as long as they did not follow their parents' wishes, they would be beaten and punished in this way. Therefore, when he is unable to get his children to do things or live his way, he likes to discipline them in the way he is most familiar with.

4. Seek a quick and convenient way.

Some parents are too lazy to think of other ways to discipline their children, believing that beating and scolding education is the most convenient and effective way. Therefore, whenever a child makes a mistake, the first thing that comes to mind is to punish the child.

Not all parents are inexplicably so fierce, and the reasons are roughly as follows:

1. Children always make mistakes, and they make things that should not be made, and they have been persuaded countless times but it is still ineffective, parents are helpless, there is really no way, patience is limited, and it will break out to a certain extent.

2. Some parents have a relationship with their own personalities, plus they don't know how to educate their children, they get angry at every turn, and they beat at every turn, which is difficult to change.