Why are men so realistic, why are men so realistic?

The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

Even if you go on like this.

Not to mention that there will be no good results.

Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

At the very least, you have to get the approval, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it.

It just takes a while to forget.

To let go. If you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well?

Yes, every truth is difficult to do.

Maybe it's easier said than done.

But all I can say is.

If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

Maybe I was like you in the past.

Time really can change everything.

Learn to be strong.

Because they have to provide for their families. Haha....

I don't feel like it's a man's reality, it's not a woman's reality, it's just that the current society is too realistic

You can't do anything without money

Everyone has to face reality, not just men

Because that's what they think.

Nonsense that women are realistic!

That's if you haven't met a good man!

Some are, some don't, depending on how you meet the right person.

The man's motives upstairs aren't pure, huh?

Therefore, there can be no pure friendship between a man and a woman.

No, my friend is really.

Family conditions have a great influence on relationships, both in the past and in the present.

Because people know that life is inseparable from the economy first, in the past, people fell in love and asked for a building at home, and now they require the man to have a commercial house, when it comes to marriage, if there is no commercial house at home, there is not even a door-to-door marriage, and the anxious parents are borrowing money to buy commercial buildings, so that many families fall into helplessness.

I once remembered that when my younger brother got married, my younger brother was very handsome, and there were many girls who were willing to marry him, but as soon as I returned to my mother's house to see, I was reluctant to make a false calendar, because the house was a clay house at that time, and later my younger brother did not become a son-in-law until he was 29 years old. While more and more older boys in rural areas are being rejected from marriage because they don't have commercial buildings, girls are now more realistic, and they value their material base higher.

There are many boys with poor family conditions who sometimes have to be aggrieved, marry a second-married woman, or a woman who is not very good-looking, due to family restrictions, it is good for boys to get a wife, and some boys have to be sons-in-law in the same way, due to poor family conditions, it seems that people are lowered, there is really no way to search, and they have to face the reality.

Now marriage has become a luxury, in the face of family poverty, many boys are at a loss, out of college, just into the society, to get married, and have a car, a house and a deposit, how many young people have this strength, so can only enter the late marriage, parents such as the slow disadvantage has no savings, the pressure on young people is undoubtedly too heavy, the impact on marriage is greater, coupled with the imbalance in the ratio of men and women, the family economy is not good, it does have a great impact on the boy's marriage.

It is said that today's women, one more realistic than the other, marriage requires a house, a car and a deposit, and even more because of these requirements and their partners to break up, men say that women are more realistic, in fact, not necessarily, sometimes men are more realistic than women, everyone has their own little thoughts, in the process of getting along with two people, they will look at each other, only if they find that they have something in common, they will continue to approach and maintain a relationship, so many times, men are more realistic than women.

Yulin is a girl, due to the influence of family relationships, she is a delicate and lively girl, as long as he likes others, he has always poured out his heart and lungs. When I was in college, Yulin talked about a boyfriend, as long as my boyfriend had a class, Yulin would always send her breakfast every day, every time he would send his boyfriend back to the dormitory, Yulin's friends around him were, boys sent girls back to the dormitory, but Yulin never cared, he would help his boyfriend grab his favorite cumin mushrooms, would queue for half an hour, help his boyfriend buy his favorite milk tea, in the days of love with his boyfriend, always pay wholeheartedly, Yulin has always believed that as long as he pays wholeheartedly, Qi talks about shooting, and there will definitely be a return.

After Yulin and her boyfriend graduated, her boyfriend took Yulin back to his home, Yulin is a girl from the Northeast, for her boyfriend, she resolutely chose to marry in the south, I thought the two would get married and have children and live a happy life, but the two broke up after the most respectful. The boyfriend's family disagreed, feeling that the two were not suitable, and the boyfriend himself did not say anything and did not resist anything.

Yulin talked about a boyfriend again, but still as before, she tried her best to be good to someone, her boyfriend likes to play tennis, she put down everything she had, and accompanied her to play tennis, even if he couldn't play, but was smashed by tennis and bruised all over his body. My boyfriend likes to watch football games, and he will line up in advance to buy tickets, even if he doesn't know the basic rules of football. If the boyfriend works overtime, he will wait until the early hours of the morning, wait until the boyfriend gets off work, cook for the boyfriend in advance, and wait for the boyfriend to come down and eat after work.

For his new boyfriend, he has paid too much, even he was moved, Yulin's boyfriend also knows very well in his heart that such a good girl should marry home, but the reality is that Yulin's boyfriend fell in love with other girls, and finally broke up with Yu Lin, Yulin asked him, "Why did Gao Xian break up?" I can change it if I don't do well, just ask you not to leave me", Yulin's boyfriend didn't say anything, just said softly, "I don't want to see you too tired".

Yulin is like every little girl who is struggling in love now, she always thinks that as long as she pays, she will definitely get her sincerity back, but the reality is that Yulin's boyfriend dislikes Yulin in addition to being able to cook and watch ball games with him, he doesn't know how to improve himself, he won't make himself excellent, and his rainy boyfriend will feel uncomfortable when he looks so tired. The best love is that two people improve each other, Yulin and his boyfriend have been together for two years, and his boyfriend has been promoted twice in a row, but Yulin is still standing still, and Yulin needs to tiptoe to barely reach his boyfriend, which.

Of course, men are very realistic, everyone is actually very realistic in their hearts, it's just who can grasp their own rationality, so men are very realistic.

Most adults are very realistic, not only men, but also women, when a person has experienced a lot of hardships and frustrations, and has met a lot of various people, they will gradually become mature, and most people will become very realistic in order to live or enjoy.

Men are forced to be realistic. There are no conditions to shoulder the responsibility and obligation to stick to yourself, otherwise "you are also a man".

If you say that, it will become a general overturning of a boatload of people. There are good and bad people in every kind of person or every place, there are good and bad people in every place, there are all kinds of people, and there are also very realistic and there should be a lot of women in them, isn't it?

Men are the most realistic, just these 3 things, do you dare to deny men?