It s hell to live with an old man, live with an old man

There is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure.

I have seen the most big hands holding small hands, and the least I have seen is small hands holding old hands.

The elderly, like children, need to be coaxed.

My grandmother didn't like me, but I would buy her something nice to eat when I got paid.

She went to the hospital every month to dispense medicine, and I accompanied her. My aunt and uncle's family had cars, and no one wanted to take her there.

In the summer, she touched a lot of laundry detergent in her hands, and it was rotten and she couldn't touch the water, and I didn't have a job at that time, but I was always waiting for the shower, and I washed her underwear. Of her daughters and granddaughters, in the evening, when everything was taken care of, they came to visit her.

I have exhausted this filial piety, whether you want to see me or not, that is the meaning of the old man.

I just want peace of mind.

Be patient with the elderly as if they were children.

Some elderly people are stubborn and have to listen to him, otherwise they won't work here or that, and if they can't do it, they will take 36 plans as the best plan.

One word, forbearance, are you still in high school, hurry up and take the college entrance exam, I won't see you for a year, see how those old guys care about you, it's better if you don't study, find a job, no one can care.

Your parents brought you up since childhood, and how hard and tired you are, this can only be understood after you get married and have children.

I believe that when your parents saw your words, they really regretted that you had thrown you to death before you were born.

I think he listens to the radio very noisy, it's a good way to buy him a headset, as for you to take a shower he has to go to the toilet, I think grandpa shouldn't mean it, maybe you went to take a shower and he just wanted to go to the toilet, maybe he is not in good health, can't hold it, in fact, you don't need to give him a toilet or anything, you just need to ask grandpa if you want to go to the toilet before each shower, otherwise it will be very troublesome for him to go to the toilet when you go in. I think this not only solves the problem, but also shows that you are careful, the old man does not go out all day long, and there is no strenuous exercise, so he will not sweat, the general old man's hair is also short, he may feel that he has not washed for so long and is not dirty, he said you, you patiently explain that he listened, you said that you are young ** metabolic function is stronger and easy to sweat, 3 days without washing your hair and hair will be oily, so going out to play with your companions will be mistaken for unhygienic, hehe,,, don't feel wronged,, old man, How many years can you live? By the time he leaves you, you'll regret that you don't have patience for him, so cherish it, I don't even know what my grandfather was like?

But I was very good to my grandfather and grandmother, saying that you are wasting water, this old man's words are a little more, it is quite a bit disliked, he is not right, ignore him, as long as you remember a little, you should honor him when you are a junior, you don't go to your heart, continue to be yourself, such as what to eat, or give him food first, what to buy or think of giving him a copy, what to see a beautiful picture, or to give him an appreciation,,,It's enough,, We can't stop bathing just because he said we waste water, but one thing, you have to stand on a fair position to see if you are what your grandfather said, you are too wasteful, and that's enough.

First of all, buy a headphone strap for your grandfather, and then, the door of the bath is locked, and then prepare a toilet, your grandfather has an urgency to urinate or something, solve it in the toilet first.

You can also play tricks! ~~

Bear with it, long live understanding, he is your father, what can he do.

Build a relationship with the elderly.

Be nice to them.

That way, there won't be any quarrels or whatever.

Get along well. Nothing.

I believe that you are good to the elderly. The old man won't make trouble for you!

Tolerate each other. Take a step back and open the sky! After all, we are juniors. If you can endure it, you can endure it.!!

Of course, it's good to be considerate and care for each other. On the contrary, it is better not to be together.

Why are you crowding it, everyone is not good-looking.

The current daughter-in-law is different from the past, her thinking has changed, and she doesn't follow the old man anymore, so she simply doesn't live together. Everyone is doing well.

1 I don't understand one thing about all, you are a daughter, you grew up in that house and ate your mother's cooking, why do you feel inconvenient now? I think it's because you've lived in a building for a long time and are used to living a quiet little life, and you're not used to living with your mother anymore, right?! If you say that you need to run in, it is normal for your husband to bring it up, but it is rare for your daughter and her mother to live and need to run in!

Whether it is a child or a daughter, it is the responsibility to take care of their parents, and the mother is single, and as she gets older, she will need to live with you one day and need you to take care of her! In addition to taking care of their physical bodies, we also need to take care of their psychological feelings. The older you get, the more afraid you are of loneliness!

The old man becomes similar to the child when he gets older, sometimes he will be willful, sometimes he will be unreasonable, but as a child in addition to accommodating, there should be more understanding, everyone has an old time, and when we were young, we were also very willful and did not know how to be reasonable, but our parents gave us infinite tolerance, and now that they are old, we should also treat us like they did when they treated us.

Children and the elderly grab the TV, let the children and the old people to solve, the old people will not really care about the children, you parents behind the teaching children to be humble to the elderly, after all, respect for the old is also a virtue, from an early age to the child to establish a good idea, you will also benefit from this in the future!

Personally, I suggest that if you really can't live together, then you should go back and visit the elderly. For example, go back every night to have dinner (if the elderly want, you can buy something or get some living expenses), and then go back to your own house to rest. Or the old man comes to your house for dinner.

In short, if you have time, you will pay more for the elderly. The lonely old man is really pathetic!

It's better to have your own space for each other, but when the elderly reach the age where they need to be taken care of, it's better to live together from safety reasons, and everyone will be happy if they are tolerant of each other and think about each other.

I think it's still good, we can take care of each other, and it can reflect the happiness of a big family, and the elderly will not feel lonely.

It depends on the specific situation, if the old man treats his son and daughter equally, he will not use money to judge good or bad. I think it's good to live together, take care of each other, and make it easier to fulfill filial piety. During the New Year's holidays, the family is happy, and if you can understand each other, you can live together really happy.

However, there is no patience, there is no patience to live together, there will be a run-in period, and most of the emotional programs on TV are now played in disputes between children and the elderly, especially because of the different abilities of children, and there are really too many disputes caused by parents' bias to injustice. You need a good mother-in-law, you need a good daughter-in-law, and to be happy, both are important!

Are you married and living with an elderly person? That's not good.

If two families are together every day, they will feel that each other is annoying, and if they live in their own homes and come back often, it will be different.

Not good, because the level of life is different.

Distance produces beauty, and this sentence is also appropriate for you. Since the two houses are not far away, they live separately, basically go to the elderly every night to sit and chat, and eat together at home on weekends, and have a moderate amount of space and freedom for each other. The child grabs the TV, the taste of eating is different, and your mother doesn't really want to live with you, and she is also hindered from speaking.

Communicate with your mother and tell her what you think. The elderly also need space.

If the house is wide, it's okay, it's better not to eat together, do your own thing, or do more.

Actually, I don't feel like we eat together, it's good to live in a courtyard, and I have a care.

Sometimes it is difficult to have both things in the world, you can only find a way to compromise, slowly run in, and there will be a way of life that belongs to you.

Go back to your house and find her a wife. Talking together, she will be in a good mood and healthy.

The old man eats more particularly, you can cook a dish for her alone, don't be idle... You also have that time.

That's up to you.

The elderly and children are actually the same, although bumps and bumps are unavoidable, but the function of lubricants is not to be resigned.

Through activities or things that can connect them, children and the elderly can deepen their bond with each other, and I think they will be a lot more humble to each other.

In terms of living habits, we should ask for them separately as much as possible, and try to let children learn to be considerate of the elderly.

This kind of thing is difficult to explain clearly in one or two sentences, the important thing is to do it with heart, don't think about the immediate effect, life is really not easy.

If there is an old man in the family, it is equivalent to having three treasures. Good! Good! Good!

Financial benefits, personal life difficulties.

If you're virtuous, the good outweighs the disadvantage, otherwise the annoyance will be annoyed.

Look at the old man's thoughts! If they want to live with you, of course you have to live with them. In fact, there is an old family member, if there is a treasure!

Honor them well! Because we will also be "old people" in the future, if our children are far away from us, what will we "old people" do? What a pitiful thing!

Of course, if they don't want to live with you, then respect them! But go back often to visit the elderly and listen to their nagging

I advise you not. Or you'll regret it. Although men generally want to live together.

But live with the elderly. There will be a divergence between their minds and yours. It is easy to make trouble.

Because my mother-in-law is not my own mother after all. I wouldn't mind. Everyone has shortcomings and lives together for a long time.

The shortcomings will be exposed one by one. "And his son's love will be shared with you in half, of course I am not happy." It's just some stingy mothers-in-law, but it doesn't have to be touched

If you want to be filial to them, come to them often. Spend more time with them.

In the case of a newlywed, of course, the young couple should run in first.

If you start living with a large family, there will be a lot of problems, because the young couple themselves do not have a good run-in, and the new members and the old members of the family also have to run in. If you don't get it right, it can easily escalate into a relatively large conflict.

It is recommended that the couple live on their own for more than 5 years and develop similar living habits first. Then arrange it according to the situation.

Ask the old man for his opinion.

Or depending on the situation.

If you need care, you live together.

It's best not to live together. It's nothing else, the more people there are, the more contradictions. The best way is for the elderly and the young couple to live separately, but not far away and can take care of each other. This is the perfect solution.

Of course, as a wife, I don't want to be with my parents-in-law, but as a husband, of course, I want to, shouldn't I be, it's not good for you to ask like this, you see your old man, your wife and your own thoughts.

Of course, if you have a house, you live separately, but if you don't have a house, you have to be together, and of course the young and the old people don't have the same ideas

Do I have to live with a child after giving birth?

What kind of mistakes did you make in the past? Did you correct it?

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You don't have to live together, but you should often go home to see the elderly, talk to the elderly more, and communicate. Enhance relationships.

If there are conditions for wanton grinding, it is best not to live in one place, because the elderly people often look down on the lifestyle of young people and the luxury of wasting things and spending money. Young people sometimes can't stand the verbosity of the elderly, after all, the old man is wordy when he is old, and he is always afraid that you will hail everything and guess what you are doing wrong, so they love to be wordy about everything, and young people don't like it very much. There is a saying that you want to be far away and close to you.

So if you can.

Being with the old man in the next generation may spoil him.

And the methods of educating the elderly may be outdated.

Behind the times.

It's best to bring your own.