What should I do if I like a girl, but I m afraid she s not what I want?

<>I think that since you have this kind of fear that she may not be the person you want, it means that you are still dissatisfied with her in your heart, and you have not reached the point where you like her very much, at most you appreciate something about her, etc., so I think in this case, it is better not to provoke that girl, after all, the responsibility of a man is very important.

But what I want to say is that people live in the present, and don't think too much about what the future will look like.

Once you like someone, even if it's just that you like this person for a certain period of time, as long as you can be sure that I want such a girl during this time, I think it's okay, I think the reason for deciding whether you act or not is not what the future is, but what you think in the moment.

After all, on the road of life, our needs for things at each stage are different, for example, when we are young, we will want to say that we can find a beautiful one that can be taken out, and then after we work, we will be more attracted to girls with the ability to work, and then when we are more mature, we will need a husband and children or a woman who can unconditionally support us to work hard, different age groups have different needs, and the types of girls we like are not the same. If we can say for sure that I've liked it so far, and I feel like she's the best person for me, then why not go for it!

Whose life is slowly step by step out of their own life, no one can accurately predict their future, we can actually see a lot of such examples in life, some people's girlfriends during college are the kind of girls who are particularly beautiful and playful, but when they get married, they find a gentle and gentle, down-and-out wife, so there is nothing absolute on the road of life, since you like someone, don't think about what the future is like, As long as you don't regret the current one, it's worth your action!

Who doesn't like it because there are some good flashes in the opposite sex? This kind of liking is actually a simple appreciation, and it's not love, so I think it's nothing, after all, there are more such things, do you like one, you want to be together, do you have to think about what to do? Then how abusive you are, so just treat it with a normal heart, and it really can't be solved, I think you can do the following:

First, gradually distance yourself from each other. I think if you just like others simply, it's not love, there's nothing to worry about, after all, there will be a lot of people you will like in your life, and she is not the type you like, you just simply like it, don't go too close to her, so the signal to the other party is as if you like her, but it will end badly in the back, and it will not be good for everyone.

Second, find someone you like. Do you think this girl is not the type you like anymore, why are you still clinging to others and declaring sovereignty to others? Such a boy is very hateful, and he is not with others, and he always declares that he likes each other, which will cause a bad impact on everyone, so I think you have to clarify this, and then go to the person you like, so that it is good for everyone, don't hurt the innocent.

Third, clarify to the outside world. I think you have to tell others that you just like it simply, don't cause everyone to misunderstand the two of you, especially girls, as for you as a boy, it's all because of you, don't be afraid that everyone will condemn you for being careless. <>

I think it's normal to like other people, and don't do things that are bad for everyone.

Like a lot of kinds, there are just simple likes, there are from the heart of the special like, like a girl to be brave, many times we buy things, and only after trying to know whether this thing is good or not, suitable for themselves, two people together is not inherently suitable, only slowly run in, like a girl is brave to chase, two people together, slowly run in, more or less there will be some contradictions, if it can be solved, and two people are very happy together, it is good, If you don't chase it, you may have regrets, and you will regret it, many things follow your heart, don't let yourself leave regrets. <>

In fact, it's a very beautiful thing to like someone, like her to see her laugh at herself is happy, like a person, you have to be brave to chase, two people together to know whether this girl is what they want, boys don't choose to go to the mother-in-law, and don't let yourself regret leaving regrets, when because you haven't said it for a long time, and another boy chases this girl, you will be more heartbroken, watching the girl you like is about to be chased away, isn't it a pity? The feeling of liking is really good, I also like a person, I can't say that I am happy, don't be afraid in front of love, maybe in the moment you are afraid, you have already missed it, it is not a shame to like a person, if you like it, you will chase, you must cherish it if you catch it, not because of the freshness of the moment and be together, such people are really disgusting, you have to be brave if you like it, and you can chase what you want if you are brave. If you are friends, that's just right, you still know a little about each other, and you can better consider whether to continue to understand in depth, if it's a stranger, you have to be brave enough to tell this girl that you like her, you can start with a friend, slowly understand, anyway, don't hold it in your heart, so that the girl doesn't know your mind, it is really possible to be wrong like this, the most regrettable thing is not to break up because of love, but not to be together because of love.

If you like it, chase it, even if that girl isn't the one you want in the end.

People spend their whole lives looking for their other half, but there are very few people who are lucky enough to find their true destiny.

Aren't there many people who are married to someone they don't love?

Subject: You are not a prophet, and you don't know if the girl you are facing is your other half.

If you look forward to the future, you will never start, there is no beginning, how do you know if she is what you want?

It's a very happy thing to like someone, isn't it a happiness to be able to maintain such a careful mood with a person?

Life is short, grab the person you like, and don't let yourself regret it one day in the future.

If you really like her, you'll muster all your courage for her.

But subject, if you really feel that this girl is not what you want.

So please let go quickly, how precious is a girl's youth?

You can't give her a future, give her a promise, or even continue to give her your likes, just don't delay her time.

The boy I am most tired of playing ambiguously in my life, the state of having more than friends and not having a full lover is really anxious.

I'm sure most girls wouldn't like a state without an official identity either.

The subject has figured out how to do it, emotional things, for those of us who eat melons, are all the business of others.

Only the subject yourself is like a person drinking water, cold and warm self-knowing.

Go and chase it hard, at least I liked it vigorously, and I won't regret it in the future.

Didn't Han Han say that liking is presumptuous, but love is restraint.

There's nothing wrong with being presumptuous, there is no restraint in being presumptuous?

I wish the subject can finally gain his restraint after being presumptuous.

<> encounter this situation, of course, you have to chase it, and only if you chase it and get along with it, you won't regret it for life.

If you like a girl, you should first chase the other person, if you catch it, it would be great, and then get along for a while to see if she is what you want. If she's not what you want, the two of you will naturally break up.

Since you like anything, you must have the courage to try, don't hesitate to think about it, and in the end you can't do anything, you can only regret it endlessly.

If the girl you like is preempted by someone else because of your hesitation, won't you regret it, not so much regret it as having no regrets. Chase that girl first, and then you can get to know each other slowly and find out if she is the type you want. Besides, this kind of thing will not waste your time, but will "hone" you and make you more "attractive".

It is more "manly".

As the saying goes, "only the foot knows whether the shoe fits or not". Just like when we buy clothes and shoes, when we meet the clothes we like, of course, we have to try them, otherwise you will never know what you want and what is suitable for you. But if you just stare at the one you like when you buy clothes, and you don't try it, and in the end it is bought by someone else, then you will definitely regret it.

Besides, who hasn't had a few failed loves in their youth. While you are still young, you should go through a few loves, accumulate more love experience, and it is also a kind of promotion for yourself. Only then can we find the right person at the end.

<> if you want to know if the girl you like is what you want, you have to give it a try, just like a piece of clothing, you like it very much after seeing it, if the store doesn't let you try it, you don't dare to buy it rashly, and you don't dare to make up your mind to buy it after turning over and over for a long time. But if you can put it on and try it out, and find a mirror, you will immediately know whether it is suitable for the plaster, whether the style is appropriate, and whether the material is good. So you can only know if she is the right girl for you when you pursue the girl you like and you have established a more intimate relationship.

To be clear, the above is just for this matter, not that girls are like clothes. This prejudice is analogous to me.

How lucky it is to be able to meet the fitting room of the person you like, why don't you dare to pursue it boldly? Now girls are very sought-after, and the girl who can be liked by you is likely to be another person's goddess, in case he confesses one step ahead of you, in case you don't kill a Cheng Biting Jin halfway when you like her, and then this girl who haunts you is taken away by Cheng Biting Jin, then you will never be this girl is suitable for you, even if you have a new lover in the future, you will leave regrets in your heart, if you confess earlier or what.

So if you like it, you have to hurry up, don't be afraid of failure, so young, there are still opportunities. No one can guarantee that they will be able to find the person they love at the first time. It's just that we will gradually mature on the road to love, and gradually know what kind of girl is suitable for us.

What's not to dare? Go confess! Being rejected is nothing, which means that I worked hard, but I didn't get into the eyes of others. If you don't go, you will regret it for a long time, and you may regret it for a lifetime.

Maybe people like you too, and they don't dare to say it like you, but when you confess just right, everyone is happy!

If you like a girl and don't dare to tell her, then don't worry about this situation, the best way is to interact with each other for a while, such as chatting, or talking about things in life and learning together. And then feel it. If the girl also likes you, you can find a chance to confess.

If the girl doesn't mean that, then don't say it, just keep it in your heart.

You can invite the girl you like to drink milk tea, or make an appointment to go to the movie or read a book in the library, which is a better way to show affection to a girl. You can also express your affection through the girl's girlfriend and friend to send a small gift to the girl who is the message, and then follow up and develop your feelings for that girl.

If you like a girl, then I suggest that you better tell him, and if you don't feel afraid to tell him, you can hint at it, or let someone else relay it, but tell him directly, I think it would be better.

Everything can only be known if you have done it yourself, don't guess on your own, be fully prepared to have good results, believe in yourself, even if you don't succeed, there is no problem, this is at least a valuable experience.

If you like a girl and don't dare to tell her, you should be brave in this situation. Take the initiative to confess to the girl. So that the girl will accept you.

This girl didn't dare to tell him, I think it's useless to say that you don't have courage at first, I think if you like him, you should be brave enough to express it, I think you don't tell him, he doesn't know that you like you, and naturally he won't react to you.

If you like a girl, go and confess to her bravely Tell him that you like him, if he refuses, it proves that he doesn't like you, don't regret it If you confess, he just doesn't dare to tell you, if you say this, maybe the marriage between the two of you will be achieved.