How do you fix a bear child? What to do with a bear child?

There are two bear children in the family, and the two of them are either fighting over things and shouting non-stop, or they are working together to do all kinds of sabotage, and I will let them face the wall for an hour, or kneel on the small bench for 20 minutes.

When I was a child, my brother especially liked to pinch me, the child was always hurting, and when I wanted to hit him, I was always blocked by my mother and gave me a loving education, after a long time, I went to school one day, and the labor and management found a place where no one pressed him to the ground and hammered, and after the hammer, he kept a distance of one meter from me.

Repairing a bear child is usually stopped first, and then very harshly pointed out his mistakes, so that he realizes that such behavior is wrong, and warns him. If you do it again, you may have to resort to it.

A child's skin is in nature, but sometimes it can be annoying. My nephew just turned five years old this year, and when I took him to the mall some time ago, he was clamoring for me to buy him toys, and I agreed, but my father told me not to let him go before he went out.

So I ignored him, but he got worse, sat on the floor and cried, and attracted passers-by, at which point I picked him up and walked to the common lounge. Let him cry, I was tired of crying, I wiped away his tears with a tissue, and I wanted to use my silence to tell him that it was impossible to make me compromise by crying.

The bear child is noisy and disobedient, most of them are underbeaten, and it is good to beat them hard.

When I was in school, my sister tore up my book, and I turned around and threw her doll, telling her that what you do to others will do to you.

The last time I took my niece to play in the sand, a bear child threw sand at my head. I just grabbed a pile of sand, sprinkled it on his head, pulled his clothes open and stuffed them into his clothes. As a result, he ran back crying, and when he met this kind of bear child, he had to treat him in the same way as others.

Countering violence with violence is particularly effective.

My niece was too disrespectful by her mother, once I sat there so well that she snatched my phone and fell to the ground for no reason, since I couldn't hit the child, I chose to take away all the toys and snacks she liked at the time, depriving her of the things she cared about to teach her a lesson, children are very smart, next time they won't dare to mess with me.

For the bear child, if he is very fierce, I will watch him make trouble, and I will not agree to his request because he is troublesome.

When he was tired, I would reason with him again and tell him that it was useless to make trouble, and that he could only realize his wish by studying and listening to his mother.

During the Chinese New Year, a parent sent me a WeChat, he met a bear child at a friend's house, the child was about seven years old, he poured a drink into the parent's shoes, and when he stopped him, he also spilled the rest of the drink on the parent, the child's mother chatted with others not far away, and he didn't care about teaching him when he saw it, and the parent only symbolically said a few words about the child at a friend's house, and then asked me if I wanted to teach him a lesson in this situation.

Engaged in the education industry for so many years, I have met a lot of this type of children, in fact, a child is not born a bear child, the reason why he became like this, and his family environment is a lot of relationship, parents, relatives do not teach, connivance, shielding is the most direct cause of these children's willfulness, in fact, bear children are not terrible, the right way of education can still allow them to correct it, the most terrible bear parents, the reason why children are disobedient are caused by adults, in this society, The bear children brought out by the bear parents will indeed face this sad situation.

So if this parent encounters such a problem again. I think it's better to teach him a lesson, to make him understand that you caused the problem. You should bear the consequences of the incident, let him remember that his parents can't help you deal with the aftermath forever, and it is impossible to cover up Sanchangchang for the rest of your life, and through this lesson, I believe that he will never dare to do this in the future.

But then you may also meet a bear parent, this is the most difficult to deal with, the bear child can be educated, there can be room and opportunity for correction, but the bear parent is the most difficult to change, there is a bear parent will educate the bear child, because even he himself feels that his child is not at fault, and even justified, this situation requires all of us to resist his behavior, so that things can be alleviated.

Here I also propose two methods, I hope to help you.

1. In the face of bear children, we need to be calm and patient. When some children are bad, many people will deal with it in a violent way. It is to insult or hit them, although sometimes this method has an immediate effect, but in the long run it will not solve the problem fundamentally, and even more so, the more angry you are, the more children will fight against you, so we must first calm down and persuade them patiently.

2. As parents, they should lead by example. There is a saying that "three years old is eighty", children have a strong ability to learn and imitate, parents' behavior to a large extent affects their children, the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked, so parents must lead by example, words are not as good as example, in the daily bits and pieces to make a good example of good behavior for children. If you have encountered a similar problem, there is a better solution, you can leave a message and communicate with us.