What was it like not to be in a real relationship during college?

Hahahaha, it's very uncomfortable. Not only did I never really fall in love during college, but I never fell in love in my entire life. Relatively speaking, I don't have so many friends of the opposite sex, and there are only a few who can talk well, but these friends are all women's friends, and they have a good relationship with all girls.

Every day in class, you can see people in pairs, occupy a place for their other half, two people learn something together, lean on each other when they are tired of learning, and say something like a little love talk, wow, Meizizi. Every time I eat, I can't avoid sweet crit, go to the cafeteria to see, in addition to couples or couples, people are not eating in the cafeteria, but to communicate with each other, because our school is closed, usually not allowed to go out, so their hearts that have nowhere to put it, look at all the remote corners of the school, like what cafes, groves, playgrounds, corners of teaching buildings, anyway, you can see the figures between them.

So I hate, I just can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour, every time I see them, it's annoying, and I feel like it's ruined my college life. And they are really never afraid of people, take today's noon, we went back after class, and found that there were two people kissing under our dormitory building, the woman's face hid, and the man chased after the kiss, ah, spicy eyes, and took two steps to find that there was also a pair in front, kissing like glue, take a closer look, or the class next door to us. Further on, I found, my God, are they holding some kind of kissing contest, see who lasts more?

Really, I'm sorry for them, because it was the rush hour for eating, and everyone was watching.

So I feel like my school is dirty, my three views are dirty, I'm really an antique. Alas, I still don't want to talk about this kind of love.

Not long after I started my freshman year, I broke up with my boyfriend from a long distance. In the next three years, although there were likes and suitors, they all felt that there was something missing and did not come together.

So it can be said that I didn't fall in love in college. Usually when I see good friends showing affection, I will say envy, but in fact, I don't seem to be so sad.

I feel like I've grown a lot since I didn't have a boyfriend. When I had a boyfriend before, I always relied on him, and I always asked him to solve any problems with me. But then we broke up, and I slowly learned to solve the problem on my own.

I don't always ask for other people's opinions and follow the steps of others, but I have my own opinions, which I think is a good thing for me. People who are always dependent on others will not achieve great things, and being assertive and becoming independent is the biggest improvement I have made at university.

Another advantage of not falling in love in college is that you have plenty of time. Because I'm the kind of girlfriend who is more clingy, when I have a boyfriend, I always like to stay with him, and the two of them go to a movie, where to play, or chat, and time flies very quickly.

Except for being in love, there is basically no time for anything else. But if you're not in a relationship, you have a lot of time to do meaningful things, I go to the library to borrow a lot of books, make a plan, how long it takes to finish reading, and I also have time to think about what I'm going to do after graduation and then study to prepare for the exam, which I think is quite fulfilling.

Another advantage of not falling in love is that you won't be sad, girls in love will become very sensitive, even if your relationship is good, there will be times when you quarrel, a quarrel will affect the mood, and sometimes it will be very sad.

But I don't have a boyfriend, I'm very happy every day, and it's good to talk and laugh with my friends every day, so I don't think it's a big regret that I didn't fall in love in college, and I also believe that I will eventually meet someone I like, but the time hasn't come yet.

I feel like I'm going to be a nun, I'm going to be a monk, I'm going to be lonely and old, that's how it feels.

In my college, I basically spent my life single, although I occasionally fell in love, but I died in the cradle before I felt the sweetness of love, and I haven't felt the kind of walking on campus holding hands can abuse others has been stifled.

And I also have a problem that even if I fall in love, I won't make it public, because I feel so ashamed, why should everyone see such a private thing as falling in love, it's really uncomfortable to be exposed to everyone's eyes, I like that kind of secret, only two people know the relationship is just right, love is originally a matter of two people.

But in fact, I am not only single for four years, we are poisoned and infected together in the dormitory, everyone is basically single for four years, this state is toxic, it will be contagious, you have to believe this truth......<

But seeing a girl in my class who changed four or five or six boyfriends in college, mine and I were stunned, and I never knew if there were any other boyfriends between this boyfriend and the last boyfriend we knew.

It's a concept of love that we can't understand for four years of single dogs.,And even if those men give me I won't want it.。

In fact, it's just that the vision is too high, and I think that the college for supper is not very good, and I can't find a boy who is worthy of me, and it's really a very low boy, and I dislike people who fall in love in college, limited to our school, and I dislike it very much.

So, even if I didn't feel like falling in love in college, I thought it was okay, there was no feeling of unfulfillment, and I didn't become someone else's talking point and laughing stock, which is good.

I've always been a single dog, and every year on Valentine's Day, my circle of friends is full of all kinds of shows. At first, I felt that I was so depressed that I was alone, but it was only on Valentine's Day, and after Valentine's Day, I was a female man who took off the reins.

Because I know my shortcomings and faults, and of course I know what I want to look for! So I'd rather be single-quality than low-quality socializing. <>

Actually, I think it's okay to be single or in love. That's everyone's personal will, and everyone has a free choice. It's not about college or work.

It is said that the university should talk about a vigorous love in order not to waste one's youth, but who stipulates that youth must be flamboyant and vigorous, can't it make people feel very comfortable like warm water? <>

So for not falling in love in college, I personally don't think it's a pity, that is, fate didn't arrive in college, so you can't force you to find a random one and get along! Always have your own goals and choices.

But I have happier couples around me. I'm still very blessed, I won't be like some people who don't want to get it even if they can't get it themselves, it's a kind of heart that tends to be sick.

Out of 100 people's understanding, there will be 100 interpretations of college love. Whether you feel sorry or unwilling, the past has let it drift away with the wind.

If you regret it, cherish your future fate, if you don't have regrets, only unwillingness, then work hard yourself, and give a resounding slap in the face to those things that once made you have negative emotions.

If I haven't been in a real relationship before college, I feel like it's a pity, maybe a sign of immaturity, and it's immature.

Then your college will be very boring, everyone around you has experienced love, and every time they will complain that you have been in love for more than 20 years, and you haven't even found a boyfriend, it's too embarrassing, and you don't have anyone to recall in the future

I will feel regretful, and I should not feel anything anymore.

I don't think it's a pity.

Here's why:1Although campus love may be something that everyone yearns for, if you don't meet someone who makes your heart pound during your time on campus, it means that fate may not have arrived.

If you fall in love for the sake of a campus relationship, it will make each other's love cheaper, so there is no regret.

2.On campus, studying is still a more important thing, and if you always think about falling in love during school, you will always take care of one thing and lose the other, and it may be a good thing that you haven't talked about it.

Love is a beautiful and sacred thing, when you meet true love, you really cherish it, you don't have to meet, you haven't talked about it, there are no regrets, and there are better things to look forward to in the future.

It's no regret that although college students are adults, they should still put their studies first, and there is no need to focus on falling in love.

There are no regrets, it can save a lot of time.

After graduation, I felt that it was a pity that I didn't fall in love in college, and love on college campus was pure. I haven't been in a relationship once in college. Now I feel that I should have my own definition of love.

If you haven't been in a relationship in college, you must live in college. It's a pity that I didn't fall in love in college, so don't fall in love just to accumulate some points for yourself. I haven't been in love in college, and with some more and more realistic things in life, not being in love in college should be a life journey.

I don't regret that I didn't fall in love in college, because love is not the whole of life, but at the same time there is life. Personally, I don't think that if you don't fall in love in college, you won't leave regrets, so you don't want to fall behind, so you don't have to regret because you haven't been in love in college, but two mature and interesting people have come together.

In fact, there are no regrets, whether to fall in love is a personal choice, and it is also related to fate and opportunity, so there is no fixed formula for when to start falling in love, and fate will naturally start when it comes.

There will be regrets, but you will meet someone with whom you will spend the rest of your life later.

It's a bit of a pity, but the love in college is the purest one.

There will be regrets, but there will be no particular regrets.