Is there anything wrong with kindness How do you treat beggars on the side of the road

First of all, there is absolutely nothing wrong with kindness.

Secondly, because there are too many fake beggars, if they do not give alms to those in need, they will miss out on those who really need help.

Furthermore, people who do not help others for fear of being deceived are hypocrites.

Three, because the purpose is to help people, so don't worry too much.

In short, help if you can, because you can't lose an opportunity to help others for fear of being hurt or deceived. Would the 'fake' beggars beggars beg if they really had a good social status? Have you ever seen Bill Gates ask for food?

As far as beggars are concerned, their social status is not as good as yours, can't you have a little compassion?

Don't take the good as small, don't take the evil as small. 'Do good deeds no matter how big or small.

Those 'rich people' who make a living by begging take advantage of people's kindness, and they are unbearable, but the act of doing good should not be changed because of these 'wicked people'.

Kindness is wrong - such as "The Farmer and the Snake", "Mr. Dongguo and the Wolf". It is important that we keep our eyes open and not let our kindness encourage those with ill intentions to make them the motivation to continue.

Kindness is not wrong - such as "orphanages" and "homeless people aid stations", such as every person and enterprise who contributes money and efforts to the "Wenchuan suffering compatriots", etc., there are many good and unclear rescues, the society needs kind people to build harmony, and the suffering and helpless people need us from spiritual to material help, giving people the hand of roses, which still has a lingering fragrance for a long time.

When dealing with beggars on the side of the road, my personal starting point is that I will not give them if they are not disabled and have the ability to work. If you have a disability and are unable to work, I will give you any change. There are also those with special circumstances, and I will also give special consideration.

and make it the motivation to continue.

Some begging uncles did what they did, which made people feel very chilled. In fact, those begging uncles who sleep outside the wind and eat are not a meal, if someone gives them food, they should be grateful, they should be grateful. But those begging uncles have been asking for things from others, and they are still justified.

When others give him food, he also refuses directly, which only makes people feel that their requests can be said to be very much.

On December 29, 2020, there was a Mr. Huang in Shanxi, who opened a store in Shanxi District。At that time, an old man came to his noodle shop and wanted to ask for a bite of noodles to eat. This boss is still very kind, and he directly took out rice for this old man to eat.

Because it was a meal at the time, I was busy and didn't have time to cook for the old man, so I took out the rice. For this matter, this boss did it very correctly, and he did not dislike the old man.

But what this old man did made people feel that it was too much, this old man had a lot of requirements, he didn't want to eat rice, just eat noodles. When the boss brought him noodles, he felt that this face was too cold, so he picked and chose again. The boss was not only angry, but also patiently explained to the old man, and the old man finished eating the noodles and left after listening to the explanation.

This begging old man originally went to beg from someone else's house, and he didn't spend a certain amount of money. Others are already very unhappy, and picking on this behavior during meals will only make everyone feel that such a beggar is not worthy of the sympathy of others. It stands to reason that those who are begging should eat everything when they see some food.

I didn't expect that my life is getting better and better now, and the old man is also confidently asking for things from others. I hope that every hotel owner can be as patient as this boss to treat begging people, but begging people must not take an inch and directly embarrass others. This behavior makes others not want to help those who are begging, and gradually they do not feel cared for by society.

Yes, so when I meet this kind of person to help him in the future, I am afraid that he will dislike it.

This will break someone's heart, which is originally a thing to help others, but because of your dislike, the person who will help you will lose confidence.

There must be such a possibility, the old man doesn't know how to thank others, and he has to blame, I don't know what kind of help will be exchanged for wolf's heart and lungs.