Is it wrong to pat and drag in high school? Does falling in love in high school have to be a mistake

Of course you can, you still have to believe in true love Some people avoid talking about the problem of high school students' love, and some parents are sternly opposed, and the tone hurts the child's heart In fact, we must look at the problem from the root, not only the bad side, things always have two sides If you talk about it, it affects learning, life, and psychology, then it is better to stop there, after all, we are now students, and we focus on academics You can't give up your career, life, and thoughts for a person, women should focus on their careers, and the same goes for men If you talk about it and it doesn't affect you in any way, then you can continue, In fact, falling in love in our age is sometimes a good thing, For example, let some confused people find the direction of struggle, for their own him; Isn't it a good thing that she works hard, sometimes we don't understand what love is, and blindly loving will hurt us and sink into it. Don't extricate yourself, that's good, so for falling in love now, see if you have self-control, whether you can look at this problem correctly, don't hurt yourself for some unworthy people, don't think about it, hurt yourself in life, understand what you want, it's better than not understanding.

It's a mistake in itself, it's important to study, and for you, it's okay to talk about it properly and correctly...

There are no mistakes, as long as you do it in moderation and know that relationships are just as important as academics.

I think it's wrong for high school students to fall in love....They have to read good books first.

I talked about it in junior high school, and it's time to talk about it in high school.

If there is a facilitating effect, that is also good.

No one is qualified to say that a normal relationship is wrong. It just depends on what the situation is based on.

First of all, let's talk about your mother's opposition, no matter what, you have to have a correct attitude, your mother's purpose is definitely for your good, the most important thing is to be afraid that you will be hurt, because for them, after all, we are children, and they don't want us to get typhoid fever just when we grow up. The second thing is to delay learning or something.

Then, in fact, I always thought that if there is a love relationship that I had when I was in school, it would be very romantic, study together, and progress together. It's a very positive feeling. I'm not against you having to separate, but you're entering the third year of high school soon, so keep a low profile.

Then put learning at the forefront. As for your relationship, don't go too far, just as if you can't be separated. In every relationship, you can't let yourself be too depraved.

Finally, take control of yourself and take care of yourself. A girl must take good care of herself, no matter what it is. Self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement.

It's okay, slowly sort out the relationship, you study together, go to the library, and progress. Try to get into a good university. Bless you.

At present, both of them should focus on studying, first study the third year of high school, and prepare for the college entrance examination for a year that is impossible for you to break up, so that you and she have no heart to study to maintain a relationship, and in the process of maintaining, you should also be encouraged by 2 people to do a good job in the college entrance examination, and the parents can temporarily conceal it.

As for what your mother said, it's the future, and you think too much about it, and you can only know it if you have experienced it yourself.

Parents love their children with great affection, and they hope that their daughters will become phoenixes and their sons will become dragons, and their feelings are understandable. But it is not necessarily wrong for high school students to fall in love, as long as the two parties are together and do not affect their studies, it is very good to be able to help each other. Parents only see the disadvantages of being in love, but not the benefits of being in love.

There are many people who fall in love in high school, until they graduate from college, and then get married, and some people fall in love in high school and break up after college. If the two of you fall in love and it doesn't affect your studies, it's not a mistake, and you can get better grades to show your mother.

It's more like you, we also talked about it in the third year of high school, and we are also the kind of people who study together. However, when we filled in the college entrance examination, we couldn't fill in a place, and the four years of college were in different places.

If the two of you can treat this relationship with a correct attitude, you can use love as the driving force for your study efforts, and you can bury it in your heart during the third year of high school, spend more time to study hard, let yourself work hard for him, and become a better person in his eyes, I believe your parents will understand you. But if this relationship affects your studies and normal life, then you will lose more than you lose. People will change, the self 10 years ago and the self 10 years later are definitely different, and the same is true of him in your heart, many of my classmates around me are high school and junior high school classmates, and my husband is also my college classmate, but after going to college together, there are not a few who break up.

You are carefree now, and when you really live together, there may be conflicts. Girls are more likely to fall into it, so what you have to do now is to make love the motivation for you to study hard, if the two of you are admitted to Fudan University together, your mother will not object, but will be proud of you, this is also a good opportunity to test the relationship between the two of you, isn't it? Go for it!

Your mother is probably afraid that it will affect your studies. But depending on what you said, you both are pushing each other forward. He also helped you answer questions, which did not affect your studies, but gave the other party motivation, what a good thing.

You can make it clear to your mother, set goals for each other, and the usual performance teachers see in their eyes, let love become the driving force for you to move forward, there is no reason not to support it. The probability of you getting married depends on how much you love each other. Several of my high school classmates are now graduating from college, and they still show affection every day.

The two of them chose the same major, although it is not the same school, but the relationship is surprisingly good. I'm sticking with you. You're a good boy.

Your mother's reaction is normal, the opposition is not that she thinks you are not suitable, but that she is worried about you, worried about your grades dropping, worried that you will be bullied, after all, it will take many years to get married, and no one can guarantee that you can always get better, so you should understand your mother. But this doesn't have to be a reason to break up, love doesn't have to be shouted out loud, silently in the bottom of the heart, the two of them tacitly, work together, plan a better future together is the most important, and when you go to the same university, no one will oppose you.

If you really fall in love with each other, put your relationship aside for a while, motivate each other to make progress together, and get into a university that both of you like, then you can get along day and night. If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight? True feelings are the ones that have been washed away by time.

Good luck.

Maybe you were destined in a previous life, but it may not be possible.

For those who want to get into a good university, it is an influence, not a mistake!

In fact, I think it's understandable for high school students to fall in love, they just like someone, it's very simple and beautiful. The parent teacher was a little too much of a fuss. But keep a clear head.

It doesn't matter if it doesn't affect your studies.

There is no ending to love in high school!!It hurts.

High school is a very important period in life, and if you can promote each other's learning, it is not necessarily a bad thing, but if it affects your learning, it will be more than worth the loss.

I feel right, because high school students are 18 years old and should go through it.

Wrong, there is no ending to love in high school.

Depending on the individual's attitude, this cannot be said to be absolutely right or wrong.

Since you are all so busy with your homework and don't have much time, what kind of relationship model do you want? I don't understand that.

In fact, it is not strange for high school students to fall in love, and it is better to see that you still have the heart to fall in love while ensuring your studies.

In fact, from my own experience, falling in love in high school is very innocent, and the fact is that you need to accept that there is a very high probability that there is less sweetness and more, all kinds of pain and pressure. For example, in the future, after graduation, you will consider the place, school, and major you will apply for, which is really more painful than sweet. People have seven emotions and six desires, and they are the most difficult to control.

If you want to fall in love without delaying your studies, to be honest, it's almost a fantasy.

Since you like each other, it's better not to do this kind of thing if you agree to be admitted to the same university and then fall in love. In the beautiful and hard life of high school, having a little like each other is probably like a little honey on a strawberry. Think about your future first.

You will continue to grow and see a different world. Rather than destroying the good, it is better to take insurance first, and then hope for it.

Hehe, dear, I was just casually strolling around and saw your description moved me, I think that woman is not worth your continuation, I graduated from high school for two years, and when I was in my third year of high school, a girl chased me because of my studies, and I didn't feel it and agreed....But people like it very much, and then after a long time, I began to like her, pleasing her, we were very good before she graduated, and the university was very good at the beginning, but it was just after the breakup, the reason is that people want to go out and see, I am a junior, and now I have experienced countless things about my high school love with others, and there are too few things that are really still together now, I understand your current situation, I have also experienced rejection by others, and I am particularly troubled, as long as I see her all day long, I am not in the mood to study, Buddy advises you that there are things in women's colleges, we men should be able to learn to control their emotions and understand how to go on their own path! There is still half a year to take the college entrance examination, give yourself some time to think clearly, and it's over!

If you really want to try, then take the initiative, if he takes the initiative and is very open, don't choke, if you want to open, don't be afraid of how he will chase you directly! If it doesn't work, pull it!

In this case, the love is good, and after a long time, all problems have been solved. Don't wait until later to regret it.

Do homework together on weekends, go to public places where you remember something, don't be alone.

The mind of a child, in the future, you will know that you are now the same as Trensu.

Yes, but don't focus on falling in love and affecting your studies.

It's hard to find that feeling in college anymore.

There are not many people who fall in love in middle school and have results, because:

1 You are still young. The idea is simple.

2 The circle of contact you have now is too small.

3 You have no financial foundation.

4 You have not yet received the mental preparation of the family (oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, children, etc.).

5 Your main business is heavy.

6 Of course, your parents, society, etc.

So the result of falling in love together in high school is not big.

Despite the fact that this is the age of people-oriented, it is not forbidden to fall in love.

If you talk about it, please don't affect the main business too much, it's best to talk about it after you have the capital to live independently, otherwise the harm will outweigh the benefits.

First of all, as long as you think it's worth it, that's enough.

The first one you asked, the people who liked her before, as long as they had a clear mind, would bless you.

If it's some brains, of course, they will say bad things about you, and for these people, you have to use the same method to deal with brain C, and the second one is that other men like her, which means that she is attractive and has advantages, which means that you didn't choose the wrong person, these two problems are not limited to high school, love, college, and work, and this problem can happen, and the focus is on talking about it in high school. I hope you and her can work together to get into a good university together, so that even parents will not object.

1.What is yours is yours, and if it is not yours, you fight for it, and it will not belong to you. Just like life and death, what should come will always come, so why worry about it.

2.If you are together, cherish each other, think about it, suffer from gains and losses, it is better to enjoy the days that each other has.

In high school, I'm not very in favor of falling in love, because high school is a turning point for a person, since you like her and are still afraid to do something, it's better not to like her, just give up, no matter how many people like her, it's all up to their ability to chase.

This shows that you don't know her well enough and need further communication and exchange, even if she has a boyfriend during this period, you have to treat it correctly, don't be sad about it, you have to be prepared for this. A marriage without an emotional foundation is a failed marriage!

After you talk, some of them will continue to like her, and some of them will hate her and be jealous of you. If you are dating, if someone likes her, it depends on the reliability of your relationship, that is, how much you love each other!

Personal advice: Don't fall in love in high school.

1. They will think that the cabbage will let the pigs arch! 2You just say goodbye to her

I think it's better to talk about it in college, because it's a beautiful relationship.

Cherish'Cherish'Cherish'If she loves you'You love him'Do you still care about how others feel?'

Does it make sense for you to care if you love? When love comes, you'll block everything.

Isn't it very insecure to think about it so much. Just divide it, I'll help you find a better one, hahahaha.