What bad habit do you least accept from others?

Everyone is an independent individual, so everyone has a different lifestyle, different personality, and different habits, and as a person, I can't accept the following bad habits:

The first point is sloppy, for a person with a slight obsessive-compulsive disorder, this is really difficult to accept, of course, the sloppiness here does not only refer to the person's sloppy dress for himself, but also refers to the kind of, clean up his surface, in fact, in life, the dormitory is a mess, items are thrown everywhere, don't have to be on duty, and don't clean up their personal belongings, especially in the case of accommodation, you are under the same roof as other people, at least you have to consider the feelings of others, fortunately, In the five years that I have lived on campus, the roommates I have met are still more clean and acceptable. <>

People who don't have a sense of time, for example, we made an appointment to go out today, and we agreed on a time and place with each other, and the agreement was eight o'clock, and you came at half past eight or later, which is very excessive, of course, if there are special circumstances, it is another matter. You let others wait for you stupidly for so long, not even a**, not even an apology and an explanation, I will never hang out together next time.

One set on the surface, one set on the back. This is especially the relationship between the place, if the relationship is not good, then it is expected that people say that you are not good. If in the process of getting along, you can say anything unsatisfactory to your face, after saying that this matter will pass, I don't like to be very good with you on the surface, and when I turn around and say to others, I think she is really not good for this person, or how to do it, you directly tell me that I can accept it, but if it is a set on the surface, I can't accept it behind it.

People need to run in with each other, no one is born with tacit understanding, and they also need to tolerate each other.

My mother-in-law helped take care of the children at my house, and there were no major contradictions, but small frictions continued. In particular, she has a lot of bad habits, and I basically can't bear it.

The first is the sitting position, which is the legendary Ge You paralysis. I think if you're too tired, it doesn't matter if your sitting posture is ugly. It's too tiring, so you can put a cushion on your back.

But after a long time, I found that my mother-in-law had never sat properly, and no matter when she saw it, she was always sitting paralyzed. At first, I didn't want to say anything, but as long as it came through my daughter-in-law's mouth, my mother-in-law was always unhappy. Later, I found out that my eldest baby had also learned to do that, and he couldn't sit well at all.

Even when I watch TV, I sit or lie down like that. I was a little angry, so I told my baby: watch TV and sit well, don't watch it if you don't sit well.

It took a long time to correct this. But occasionally I still find that my baby is sitting crookedly, so I will tell my husband and let me talk to my mother-in-law. It's changed a lot lately.

Second, it is not respecting the privacy of others. No matter how big or small, no matter when, as long as there is something to find my husband, he will directly push open the door of our house and go in. I never knock on the door, and I never feel that there is something wrong.

Once, it was more than 12 o'clock in the middle of the night, and the door of our house "banged", and then my mother-in-law walked in and asked me directly: What medicine did you take for a cold last time? Seems to work, doesn't it?

Put in**? Woke up my baby directly. My husband was directly angry and said:

The medicine box is in the living room, don't you know? Find it yourself. Also, come into my house and knock on the door later.

Then turn around and coax the child. The mother-in-law stopped talking and went out silently. Although I still didn't knock on the door and entered our house, I usually didn't go too late or too early.

I didn't pay much attention to her.

The third is to throw away garbage. The hometown is rural, and the yard is huge. When I was in my hometown, my mother-in-law threw any garbage in the corner.

Clean it up every few days. In our house, our family is relatively small, and every time we come home, the baby's toy sofa is everywhere on the floor. Throw used tissues directly at your feet.

I usually start cleaning up as soon as I walk in the door. Later, I saw that I was packing it up and throwing it away, and I didn't care about it. Once, my husband came back, just changed his slippers and entered the door, and stepped on the used toilet paper, my husband said:

Baby, don't throw used tissues around, throw them in the trash, right next to the sofa. The baby said: I didn't throw it, grandma threw it.

After this incident, the situation has improved a lot.

Maybe some habits, as the daughter-in-law said, become contradictions. But his son said it might improve. Therefore, it is very important to get people to break bad habits.

Ignore me when I need others.

First of all, from the personal, well-dressed aspect is that a person is too lazy to dress up himself, and he dresses himself up particularly sloppy, and then the clothes are not washed, the clothes are wrinkled, torn, and they are not changed for several days, they may all stink, and the socks are not washed for several days, which is a bad habit that I hate very much.

Or there is a kind of person who is particularly clean and decent in front of people, but in his private life, he is a particularly sloppy person, he doesn't know how to tidy up, he doesn't want to be clean, he can dress himself up clean and beautiful, but he doesn't care about his living environment at all, which is also quite disgusting to me.

I can't tolerate people who smoke in public, because I've been the kind of person with a bad trachea since I was a child, and then my dad has been a good man who doesn't smoke or drink since I was a child, so my younger brother grew up in this environment and didn't smoke or drink, so no one in my family smoked, and I couldn't smell that kind of smoke since I was a child.

But if it's in a private space, I don't have any right to say anything about others, but if it's smoking in a public place, I think it's a very impolite behavior, because smoking is really bad for the body, and if you don't care about the body, it hurts a lot and hurts others.

So in fact, I prefer people who are more direct in this society, and people who are more direct are not too dominant, but people with such a personality make people feel very clean, very simple, and want to get along with him.

The kind of person I hate the most is the kind of person who borrows money and doesn't pay it back, that kind of person is really indescribable, someone else lends you money, love is love, he lends you should, you should be very grateful to him, because he is there, help you when you are in trouble, but you borrow money and don't pay it back, this is a particularly immoral behavior, it is not just a bad habit, this kind of behavior is really condemnable, you know?

I don't understand what kind of psychology people who borrow money and don't pay it back are kind people who lend you money, but you don't pay them back, and then if people ask you, you will also say that people are cautious and not generous, I think borrowing money now is really a very speechless thing, the people who borrowed money have now become uncles, and then the people who lend money to others are ignored.

These are some of the bad habits I hate.

Everyone will have their own habits, and the good aspects are always worth learning from others, and they should always maintain them; And bad habits should be quickly stopped, which is what each of us understands. However, habits are easy to form, and it is not easy to break them. I know that I have a lot of bad habits that I haven't broken, but I can't tolerate some people's bad habits.

First of all, the first aspect is not to love cleanliness and hygiene. Our eyes all like to see beautiful things, and we all want to see a beautiful picture in front of us, but I don't know if some people are born with exceptions. They never paid attention to how dirty their surroundings were, and they were able to live there as if nothing had happened, but they didn't know that he had already affected others.

Sometimes I am in a very good mood, but because I saw this scene, my heart was immediately covered with dark clouds. Asking her to clean up and keep not tidying up and hoarding garbage, this is really a particularly bad habit that people can't bear; If you want to clean her up at this time, he won't let me clean up, and you want to continue to keep it, I guess it's almost **. My home is not big, but in our small world, every time passers-by or guests come and go, they will praise it, and they are very clean, and I am really happy in my heart.

The second aspect is to do things procrastinatingly, not neatly. Procrastination has become a symptom of most people in this society, but if a person has no sense of crisis, obviously has a lot of things to do, but leaves everything until the last minute, and ends up in a hurry, not knowing what to do, this is really a particularly bad habit.

Every time I was around such a person, I would even take a small notebook to remind her of something to do, but she just looked like she didn't care, and when it came to a pinch, she came to me for help, saying that she was busy. This happened once, twice, three times, and I knew I couldn't stand it, it was really a super invincible bad habit.

The last aspect is laziness. How many people are lazy and have advanced cancer, and I always feel that this is a social disease, not a reason why I can't do something, but I should reflect on whether I should get rid of this bad habit. I like to eat fruits, but I don't eat them because I have to wash them; I obviously used my parents' money to buy a lot of skin care products, but because I was too lazy to wait for its expiration date, I really can't tolerate such a person, I think only she can stand herself.

We can all have bad habits, but don't let it affect your future life, because it has already become a big problem, and someone around you may hate this bad habit in particular, but it is just because of the face of your friends. In any case, it is better to change yourself.

Eating, talking loudly, sloppy, asking personal questions.

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When eating, people next to me burp and blow their noses.

I can spit it out directly!

When some people eat, they always use chopsticks to turn the dishes around.

I found that there is a particularly annoying thing, that is, others pick their nostrils in front of me, and talk to you while digging, and then rub it after digging, and what is even more disgusting is to wipe or flick it casually.

My roommate's feet stinked so much that the whole class avoided her in winter, and my good friends would say that my cotton clothes would smell after a long time. In this case, I just reminded her to ventilate her shoes more.

Smoking in the car or in other closed environments, the air is not good, but he is spitting smoke inside, does he have the feeling of taking care of others, and every time he wants to go over and pinch his cigarette.

I think that everyone has their own behavior habits, some people's behavior habits may be very good, which makes people feel self-contained, and some people's behavior habits are disagreeable. And I, the most unbearable behavior habits, can think of the following:

First, say bad things about people behind your back, and evaluate the behavior of others at will, in fact, everyone has everyone's behavior and behavior, and it is naturally impossible to get everyone's praise, but in my opinion, whether this person does well or not, it has nothing to do with us, if this person does this thing related to you, this person also has some relationship with you, you can comment out of good intentions, if this person has nothing to do with you, even if he does not do well, it is not something you can evaluate, just know it in your heart, and evaluate others at will, even if you are right, it seems a little unqualified.

Second, do not pay attention to personal hygiene, everyone should have a sense of hygiene, you go out, others see your first impression, it must be your appearance, if you do not pay attention to hygiene, the beard is messy, the clothes are also spotted, then the first impression is definitely not good, even poor, the first impression is often very decisive.

I don't know if everyone will encounter one or two strange things in their lives, anyway, I met them, when I was in college, there was a boy in the same major, which impressed me that it was called a deep. He is very unhygienic, at first it was okay, I didn't find it, and after a long time together, you will find that it is really unbearable, his kettle can be used full of black dirt, and then it is still used, and it is not washed, and the clothes are not washed until they smell bad, especially in winter, the coat can be worn until it is blackened, and sometimes there will be a peculiar smell on the body, listening to the people in his dormitory, sometimes the people in their dormitory are eating, and he takes off his socks directly to them as soon as he walks into the dormitory, and he does not feel disgusting at all. Later, as more and more classmates discovered his hygiene problems, they would try to stay away from him during class.

Third, when eating, I like to chirp, in fact, I don't force that you must be quiet when eating, don't make a little sound, but at least don't chirp, when you are eating, there is a person next to you who has been chirping in the bar, thinking about it, I feel that I have no appetite, eating should be a pleasure, if it becomes like this, it is really unacceptable.

I think that good behavior habits can be advocated and learned, but bad behavior habits are really unacceptable, and it is better to correct them as much as possible, otherwise, it will be more embarrassing to be pointed out in person one day.