When my son is older, how can I make my son find a lover sooner?

Updated on society 2024-04-25
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Nowadays, many children are not in a hurry to find a partner, which has become a common phenomenon. Some children think that they are in trouble with a partner and do not have the freedom to be alone. Don't always Cui, his own fate has arrived, and he will naturally find it when he meets a good one, parents can help find it, but they can't urge it, otherwise it will be counterproductive, and they still have to find a partner when they reach a certain age, because everyone must have a responsibility, whether it is for the society, for the family, and for themselves.

    Therefore, most children find a partner, get married, and have children when they reach the legal age. There are also a small number of people who are unwilling to find a partner, and they should be educated ideologically, so that they can realize their goals, responsibilities and obligations. Don't always urge him, believe in fate, and it will naturally become after a certain time.

    Some children think that they are in trouble with a partner and do not have the freedom to be alone. Don't always Cui, his own fate has arrived, and he will naturally find it when he meets a good one, parents can help find it, but they can't urge it, otherwise it will be counterproductive, and they still have to find a partner when they reach a certain age, because everyone must have a responsibility, whether it is for the society, for the family, and for themselves. Therefore, most children find a partner, get married, and have children when they reach the legal age.

    There are also a small number of people who are unwilling to find a partner, and they should be educated ideologically, so that they can realize their goals, responsibilities and obligations. Don't always urge him, believe in fate, and it will naturally become after a certain time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, love depends on fate, and it cannot be forced. Your son is getting older, you can arrange for someone to meet him. Create some suitable opportunities for him.

    Let him touch girls, and it may be a little bigger. But everything has to follow fate, and when fate comes, what should come will come.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My son is older, how can I make my son find a lover sooner? For this problem, first of all, as a parent, you should let go, let your child become independent as soon as possible, not a giant baby who will always rely on your parents, young people should have their own ambitions and their own pursuits, constantly learn and update their knowledge, and strive to improve their ability and literacy, so that they can become excellent, adapt to the development and competition of society, have good qualities and talents, and definitely find their favorite other half.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The son should find a lover early and later, and respect his personal intentions and choices. If your son doesn't object, you can ask your relatives and friends to introduce him to him, or go to a marriage agency to introduce him to a blind date. In addition, the material preparations for marriage should be as adequate as possible.

    Parents have done everything they have to do, and they can only look at their son's fate and hard work. Don't put too much pressure on him, it will backfire.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's to make your son better that it will attract girls. It's not that girls are snobbish, everyone wants to find excellent, men like to find beautiful, women like to find capable, it's the same reason. Only shout at your son, learn more and enrich yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    One way: help him come up with ideas, inspire his interest in his spouse, and let him take the initiative on his own! But it's not forced marriage!

    Second, parents and friends help to see whose girl is good, and take the initiative to mention matchmaking!

    The best of these is the first method!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The son is older, it's time to find a lover, but it's useless for us to be anxious, it's his fate that hasn't arrived, there is no new lover to enter his eyes and heart, and the family can only persuade, not force, but the person who can get off the bridge to introduce and his requirements are inclined to the conditions, only like this, I wish fate to come to your son as soon as possible, I wish you all the best.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The son is old, and it is understandable that the parents are anxious about the son's marriage, but the son's affairs can be done by himself, and the Lord is in a hurry. You can't help his feelings, so you have to rely on him to find it himself, you can let him go to the blind date platform to find other blind date platforms and ** can also try. Parents can only help him with some special favors, not with his feelings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    One is to see if he is in a hurry, if he is introverted, he can only create opportunities to contact with women, and if he doesn't want to find someone who only does his job and participates in more blind date activities, he can always meet a confidant.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can only make him sad about this, and he often wants to find love as soon as possible, I, if he doesn't get urgent, he won't be in a hurry, it's useless for you to urge him slowly, just let him go on a blind date every day.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you should create opportunities for him. Let him go out more and spend more time with your younger girls, so that he will find someone he likes sooner.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, your son is getting older, and you want your son to find a lover sooner. So you have to ask, why does your son have been reluctant to fall in love and get married? Personally, I think you have to communicate well with your son.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Blind date, take him to the vast blind date market to meet the girl. Or you introduce him to a reliable one that you know well.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's up to him! You have to be in his heart. Of course, as a parent, you can create more opportunities for him to go on a blind date. It is always necessary to meet to have a chance to know if it is suitable or not.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Marriage is fate, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, and there is no chance to meet on the other side. It's useless to be in a hurry, you can let your son get in touch with girls more, and after a long time, you will have feelings or it will come naturally.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is divided into two situations, one is to get married for the sake of marriage, not 100% willing but forced to live helplessly, and the two people come together. The other is to get married because of love, which can't be forced, so you can only create more opportunities, everything depends on fate.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is not something we can decide, it depends on fate, you can find someone to introduce him to let him go on a blind date, maybe there is a right eye.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Now the society is very realistic, the best way is to let your son make a lot of money as soon as possible, and the lover will naturally appear when there is a future, otherwise everything is not to be discussed. Although it is explicit, this situation is very common in today's society.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Make the child excellent, let him be responsible and caring.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It mainly depends on his personal wishes, and secondly, parents can help him find one.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There's nothing to do, just a blind date.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When the son reaches a certain age, the family can educate the child, such as having a girlfriend, but it mainly depends on the son himself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is up to him, after all, that person will live with him in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Few of today's children are in a hurry to get married, and their parents are unfounded. Children have their own ideas, and they can't stop fate when they come, and they don't meet each other without fate.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is not in a hurry, it depends on fate.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    When the son is older, the father wants his son to take the initiative to find a partner. Then you have to talk to your son often and make friends. and then subtly communicate with his son. Slowly, the son will be able to engage in the object.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When your son becomes an adult, as a parent, you should encourage your child to have more contact with classmates, encourage your son to socialize more with classmates of the opposite sex, encourage more, support more, and criticize less.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The father does not interfere with the marriage of the child, and it is up to him to make his own decisions, because now that the autonomy of marriage has been practiced, and the marriage of the child is not practiced, it is up to him to decide, and the father has no need to shoot him, otherwise he will be disgusted.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You can remind your son that now that you have grown up, it is time to consider finding a friend, whether to be introduced by someone or to find it yourself, you should think about it clearly, and act immediately, don't delay the time and there will be no good choice. ,

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    My son will look for it when he is older, so don't worry too much

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Move with affection, know with reason.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The most important thing is to understand why the son has no partner at the age of thirty, whether he is emotionally traumatized and doesn't want to look for it again, or he doesn't understand what kind of girl he wants to find, or his social circle is too narrow to have the opportunity to contact girls, or maybe he is a bachelor.

    At the age of 30, he should be able to take charge of himself, have his own independent thoughts, and be responsible for his words and deeds, his parents are just guides, and he can't hold his hand for the rest of his life. If the child asks for help, try his best to help, if he has the life he wants to live, then try to respect it, even if one day he regrets it, it is his own choice.

    Unless my son offers to introduce him to someone, let it be. A 30-year-old adult, what you want will naturally communicate, no communication is not wanted, people don't want me, I don't need to say it for your good and then shoehorn it into others. There is a kind of coldness that makes your mother think you are cold, and there is also a kind of objectlessness that makes your mother think that you have no object.

    If the son is also very anxious and can't find the right one, at this time, adults, parents, relatives, classmates, friends, and colleagues all contact to help find it, there is a suitable one, what they like, personality, work, the same three views, and the family conditions are okay, get married, have children, and have a happy home.

    Get to know your son more, whether it's to help or go with the flow, the main thing is to make your son more comfortable and get his happiness.

    Don't interfere too much in emotional matters, if you like him, you will be concerned, children can't understand your current mood before they become parents, and you shouldn't be too anxious.

    For the child's feelings, they also have a number in their hearts, when they can tell the family, they will definitely tell you, leaving some privacy space for the child. I also believe that as long as you can meet the right person, it doesn't matter if it's later, you also have to put the right attitude Don't put too much pressure on your child, take time to do something you like, and divert your attention appropriately.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The son is in his thirties and has no object, as a parent, he should first calmly talk to his son, to see what is the reason why he is not looking for it at present, whether he really did not meet the right one or is too busy at work and has no energy to find, after understanding the reason, if he is busy with work and has no time, the family can choose to introduce him to the object, but this is not too urgent, do not urge, after all, emotional things can not be forced.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think you can try to get him to go on a blind date, and the blind date is a good way to make him accept some new friends.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't think you should rush your son. Because marriage requires fate, you have to respect your children.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    The child is not in a hurry to find a partner to show him, he is not afraid of not finding a good object, and parents should not be too anxious. When fate arrives, it will naturally come naturally, if he doesn't have fate, you will be forced to work hard, so parents must learn. Relax and don't put yourself on your own.

    Being too tired and stressful is counterproductive. Just remind your son to know that he's grown up. Sooner or later, you have to get married and start a family, so that you can be considered a perfect family.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The children of many families are not in a hurry to find a partner, and their children choose to go to graduate school after graduating from college. When I graduate from graduate school, I will be almost 30 years old, and I will have to work hard after graduation. Nowadays, children are under great pressure to study and work, and with a certain economic foundation, children want to find another partner who is like-minded.

    Children have unstable jobs, and even if they have a partner, they may break up, so nowadays children start a business first and then start a family. How to talk about raising a family if you can't survive, the improvement of the child's cultural level to find the other half of the requirements is also high, when parents should go with the flow, don't force the child to find the right, and when the time is ripe, the child will have a very good other half, the current child Gao is not in a hurry to find a partner, when the parents should understand the child's heart, don't be in a hurry, the times are different to see the end, respect the child's ideas, the career success object comes naturally, I also hope that the child will find his ideal other half.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    When children grow up, they have their own ideas and considerations, and they also have their own criteria for choosing a mate, so parents and friends should not be too anxious and anxious, which is not conducive to the relationship with their children.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The child is not in a hurry to find a partner, the child has his own plans, the child does not want to let the parents worry too much, now the price and housing prices are very expensive, the child is in the entrepreneurial stage, wants to put the career first, and when he earns money, he will consider his own marriage event, rest assured, the desire to support the child will ......be realized

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    How old is the child? If.

    It's still young, it's okay if you're not in a hurry to find it, do a good job while you're young; If you are already an older youth, then it is time to think about it. However, marriage is not a child's play, nor is it a matter of urgency, it is a kind of fate. If you don't find a partner, you naturally haven't met the right person.

    Parents should also not nag their children every day and force their children to find a partner, so as not to arouse their children's disgust.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The child is an adult, and as a parent, he can't solve the problem in a hurry, the key is still the child, so the emperor is not in a hurry, the eunuch is in a hurry, it is useless. If there is a detour in the marriage, don't rush to find the child, and wait for a while to recover your mentality. Otherwise, communicate more with your child so that he can understand his parents and start a family is a step in life.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You should talk to your children, establish a correct view of marriage, and do what kind of things you do at what age.

    In helping children analyze and analyze whether the current situation is less contact, or they are busy with work and cannot scruple about it.

    Or because of hurt feelings, he is reluctant to get involved in marriage again.

    If you understand your child's reasons, you will be able to help your child appropriately!

    Some children's parents don't understand, so they need to communicate more with their children and understand more.

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