Is it inferiority complex to be cheerful in other ways, but afraid to show your inner emotions to ot

I don't think it's inferiority, it's a nervous or shy mood, and it doesn't belong to inferiority.

Actually, I think they may be because of low self-esteem, because if they have low self-esteem, they don't dare to talk to others, so they will be very uncomfortable.

I don't think it's inferiority, it's probably a sign of insecurity, and he's afraid of hurting himself by revealing himself to others.

If I'm very cheerful in other places, I feel that this is a word that I dare not reveal my emotions to others, and I don't feel inferior, because everyone has a different expression in their hearts, and I feel that this is not inferiority.

I don't think this kind of behavior of yours can be inferiority, but an act of self-preservation. You are very cheerful in other ways, which proves that you are definitely not inferior, but you are afraid to show your inner emotions to others, and you are the kind of person who is more afraid and insecure.

I feel very cheerful in other aspects, but I am very shy when I express my heart like others, because my heart does not want others to know, the Tao or the place in my heart that I don't want others to know.

I don't think so, everyone's personality is different, and they only want to know their own thoughts, and there is actually another reason why they don't want to confide in them.

If you are cheerful in other ways, but you are afraid to show your inner emotions to others, I think it is not inferiority, but not finding the right person to talk to.

I don't think it's necessarily inferior to someone if you're afraid to show your emotions to others, but you probably won't be able to express it.

Low self-esteem refers to the emotional experience of underestimating oneself when comparing oneself to others. Severe inferiority complex is a psychological deficit. From early childhood, people have to attach themselves to their parents and the world around them due to their powerlessness, incompetence and ignorance, and a certain inferiority complex occurs.

At the same time, one's aggression is not caused by feeling self-esteem, but by feeling inferior, which is a manifestation of overcompensation. The inferiority complex in the process of criminal reform is one of the main obstacles to psychological correction.

Several characteristics of low self-esteem:

1. Everyone has a different degree of inferiority complex, because people are not omnipotent, and they lack self-confidence in what they are not good at, so inferiority is inevitable;

2. Personal self-confidence will also be enhanced, because ability is the intangible wealth of the individual, the more wealth a person has, the stronger his ability to solve problems, the greater the degree of control over his own destiny, self-confidence will be consolidated, and inferiority will be compressed to the extent of being ignored.

First, no one is perfect, there are advantages and disadvantages, we must learn to carry forward the advantages and try to change our shortcomings.

Second, we must also maintain a normal heart, neither humble nor arrogant, not overly modest, and not too conceited.

You can debate reasonably and appropriately issue questions, but don't be overly emotional, especially on "non-principled issues", don't be too competitive and calculating.

3. In normal times, pay attention to broadening your mind and horizons, communicate with others more, and cooperate in affairs.

Enhance understanding and friendship. Learn to empathize and take care of the feelings of others appropriately ......

Because of low self-esteem in the heart, a psychologically sensitive person is too suspicious of others, even if he doubts the merits of others, so he always sees that others have many shortcomings; Confident and cheerful people are also very sunny and trusting of others, so they always see that others have a lot of good qualities.

Confident and cheerful people, enthusiastic and lively, are more likely to pay attention to those good and beautiful things, and they are better at complimenting others and communicating with others. On the contrary, those who are introverted and have low self-esteem are not confident in their own strengths, how can you force them to recognize and praise the advantages of others. I hope that people with low self-esteem will face life and be born to the sun.

Because people with low self-esteem in their hearts mostly see the bad side, the thoughts of pessimists, while an optimistic person is especially willing to believe that most of what they see is the good side, which is also the reason why most people like optimistic and positive people, and there is not much pressure to associate with them.

It doesn't have much to do with being introverted or cheerful, it depends on how others feel or impression it's on him. And then there's the familiarity of the two people.

Be able to see the shortcomings of others. It is the joy that I am stronger than him. This is the spiritual self-consolation of people with low self-esteem.

Because people with low self-esteem have a negative state! And people who are confident and cheerful feel that life is very clear, and it is good to see nature.

Of course I can see it. Because anyone can see it, really.

Everyone has a self-compensating mentality.

A person with low self-esteem, we have to see why she has low self-esteem? In fact, everyone is unwilling to have low self-esteem, so she will try her best to make herself look better, or at least feel better, and when her own conditions are not up to it, she can only find her own advantages by seeking to compare with others, so at this time, she is naturally easy to pay attention to the shortcomings of others and then highlight that I can also be better than others. Otherwise, if you live in inferiority every day, how can you live?

And a person who is confident and cheerful herself, she is full of confidence in herself, and she will not think about so many bad aspects, she thinks about the good side, she naturally sees the good side of others, and will think that everyone else is doing so well, is there any way for me to surpass each other or take the other party as an example and motivate myself more.

If you don't want to change, you won't write it. Hehe.

You are not actually introverted, but you have a hidden inferiority complex in some aspect of your heart. But don't worry, almost everyone has this kind of inferiority complex, but the depth is different and the way it is expressed is different.

In order to be confident, calm and generous in your dealings with others, you need to first identify what makes you feel inferior, and then overcome it. Often this kind of inferiority complex is only psychological, and not specific to the lack of a certain ability or quality. So it's not insurmountable.

Sister Feng is all the rage, and the value of her existence lies in the incomparably strong heart of her, and she is unmoved by the scolding of 1.5 billion people. Her morbid psychology (not to mention whether she is hyped up. In fact, it is the maximization of the inferiority complex, and at the same time it becomes the minimum.

As for how to enhance self-confidence, it is not something that can be explained in a few words. It is advisable to find some books on related aspects to read. Let yourself be full, thick, and substantial. It can also put the inferiority complex in a more balanced position.

Note: Low self-esteem cannot be eliminated, and overkill cannot be overdone. It is good for a person to be afraid.

Others often say that I am very honest, but this is nothing, as long as you choose your own direction of life, honesty has the benefits of honesty, like my family life is very happy now, nothing bad!

It's good to be honest and honest... See if you want to change ...

What do you want to say?

How do you want to be outgoing and lively?

Introverts should cultivate their emotional intelligence more, change their sensitive and inferior side, make themselves confident and strong, and dare to express their thoughts in the crowd. People who are troubled by low self-esteem and introversion will eventually become frogs at the bottom of the well and be eliminated by the times. If you don't know how to change your personality, you won't be able to achieve anything.

Third, learn to ignore different voices and speak out boldly. There are a lot of people in this society who will deny and ridicule you, and if you stop moving forward and doubt yourself because of these things, then this is a sign of cowardice. In today's material society, as long as you always maintain a self-confidence and kindness, you will eventually become a better version of yourself, and you can also gain the appreciation and admiration of others.

In life, when your personality is particularly introverted and inferior, you must learn to change, make your personality more extroverted, and believe that you will be able to express your inner thoughts.

Communicate more with friends, often participate in some party activities, or participate in some social organizations, exercise your cheeks, and enhance your confidence.

Secretly encourage yourself to express yourself bravely, because the more introverts don't express themselves, the more they will feel inferior.

First of all, you should build self-confidence, boldly let go to do something that interests you, and don't be afraid of being questioned, because people cannot be perfect, and you must grow from every exercise.

You can write down what is in your heart, which is a way of liberation for people with low self-esteem.

When you feel that you have an opinion on something, but you are afraid on the surface, then you can find someone to talk about it privately, or tell a friend and ask a friend to tell it.

If you really can't speak, you can express it in words, whether it's communicating with others or writing a diary for yourself.

Express your thoughts in words, introverts and people with low self-esteem are not very good at verbal expression, and it is more powerful to express them in words.

There is a song about the doctor is lonely patients, which describes such a group of people, who are glamorous on the outside, but in fact have low self-esteem and loneliness on the inside. Live like a lonely patient, self-pulling, extroverted lonely patient, why not. In fact, Mr. Lu Xun proposed dual personality earlier, what is dual personality, that is, a person has two different thinking, and the two thinking does not interfere with each other and thinks independently.

Enthusiasm on the outside and inferiority complex on the inside is also a dual character, when you talk and laugh outside, you will not think of your inner inferiority, on the contrary, when you are inferior alone, you will not think of your enthusiasm on the outside. So, these two personalities exist independently. In our cognition, people are either enthusiastic and cheerful, or they are introverted and inferior.

Problems arise when these two personalities are all concentrated in one community.

Haruki Murakami once said: **Some people like to be lonely, but they just don't want to be disappointed. Everyone who falls in love with loneliness has been afraid of loneliness, from being afraid of loneliness, to getting used to loneliness, and learning to enjoy loneliness, I have refined myself into a light and breezy appearance.

People with low self-esteem on the outside are a transitional stage, continuing to appreciate the prosperity outside, and at the same time yearning for detachment in the heart, which is a struggle and a tangle, so people will be cranky and inferior. This is a normal state, if you go well, you are detached, and if you don't go well, you are worldly. But most people can't get out, continue to struggle, and continue to have dual personalities.

I have a friend who is like that.

She is very good to everyone, warm-hearted, smarter than me, better at studying than me, beautiful and very good at things, and everyone likes her very much. But the requirements for his lover are not high, and he found a boyfriend who couldn't be recognized when he threw it into the pile, and later I heard that this scumbag actually split his legs ......

I stupidly persuaded her, what kind of boyfriend like you can't find it? There are a hundred times stronger than him, a height difference of more than ten centimeters, and wearing high heels is like nothing; I can't remember that passerby face no matter how many times I saw it; Earn no more than you, spend no less than you; If you treat you wholeheartedly, forget it, spend your heart and split your legs, this kind of large-scale garbage is too polluting to the ** station, what else do you want him to do?

What did this stupid girl say? It probably means that she envies me very much, and she can have no scruples, in fact, many boys like her, but she just wants to find an ordinary person to live a good life, because she is afraid of losing and does not dare to ask for a man with higher conditions, because she is afraid of being rejected by others, because she wants to be praised and caters to other people'......s opinions, and because she wants everyone to like it, she pretends to be enthusiastic and cheerfulShe is just a child who craves love, does not want to be criticized, does not want to be left out in the cold, and gives everyone a warm smile to gain acceptance and integration.

In fact, in the face of people who are better than themselves, everyone has low self-esteem, some people choose to escape, some people choose to integrate, but only by conforming to their own hearts and showing their true selves can they be respected and recognized.

A person with a warm appearance and low self-esteem in the heart is brave and admirable, and if you find someone who loves her (him), you can laugh sincerely, and don't force yourself to compromise.

What is it like to have low self-esteem? Adler said that there are thousands of manifestations of low self-esteem, and everyone's experience is different, so today I just want to talk about my low self-esteem, my personal experience and feelings....Because of my inferiority, let me get involved with psychology at a very young age, and since then began the journey of self-exploration of the soul, I think this is the greatest luck brought to me by inferiority, I am the so-called "wounded healer", people who have suffered psychological pain may become a psychologist, the initial motivation is just to solve their own problems, to solve the problem that self-consciousness has been following like a shadow, a deep inferiority ......complexConsciously, I have never been satisfied with myself, no matter what it is, I will feel that I am too dark, too ugly, I have the impression that I was very sick at that time, always cold, and my parents would often say that I can't do this, that's not good, and the adults around me often say that this child is really dark, too thin, born so small, it is not easy to grow so big. So, I take it for granted that I am not good, people outside will not like me, I am not worthy of others' like, I am afraid of being with others, very anxious, I don't know what to say to them, because my mind will think about what I say, and they will not like what I do, so I am very sensitive and anxious with my friends in the yard and my classmates at school, and I will always look at other people's faces when we play together, but whenever there is a problem, I will worry that I have done something wrong, most of the time I am trembling, Put yourself in the least important position.

So I had few happy memories of my childhood, and when I was an inner child, the child, who was about four or five years old, with thinning hair, a sad face, helpless and lonely, stood crookedly, exuding a decadent, lifeless aura all over his body, and always looked pitiful.