I had a very upsetting incident and wanted to help talk about it.40

How big a thing, there is no need for it.

Brother, big fart.

Good luck.

You are well-intentioned. This incident proved that this classmate was not worth making friends. Secondly, if you want to reconcile with him, you can make an effort to communicate. Not wanting to be natural is not necessary.

Since it's a dormitory, it's recommended to have a good relationship, and you can suffer a little loss at the right time, maybe if you don't have this misunderstanding, you will also become friends. After all, money is nothing now, and a person is much more useful than money.

It's nothing, as long as you haven't done anything wrong, don't blame yourself, it may be intentional, then you can find a way to create a misunderstanding, wronged him, or throw him 10 yuan, saying that Lao Tzu rewarded you with 10 fast, don't keep mentioning it to me.

You have to remember that people are divided into three, six, nine and so on, and we can't ask everyone to have the same noble personality as we do, we should allow and accept the existence of inferior people.

It's normal for friends to have conflicts, I hope you relax your mind after all, you meet every day in a dormitory, treat it calmly, and be a person who is not surprised by everything. A true friend knows himself.

Well, treat him to a meal and then explain it to him. If he doesn't believe you yet, forget it.

Classmate, I think this is a very complicated matter, and it has to do with your personality and the personality of your classmate.

First of all, you must be more honest in your life, to put it mildly, it is a post-it note, what others want you to do, you don't refuse, you will take anything to yourself, and it seems to others that you have no self. You classmate, I think it's a nerve, how can there be such a person? At least I've never seen this a few times in college, unless the relationship is very close and will say such things, but no matter what, this person has a very bad personality, doesn't consider other people's feelings, and does this to the people in his dormitory, then he will definitely not be able to get out of the way.

You ask him if he said that on purpose, it depends, and if he doesn't have that attitude towards others, only you, then he's targeting you. You can't help it, he scolds you, you can scold back, but he will definitely scold again, you have such a quarrel in one dormitory, it will affect the feelings of the entire dormitory, which is still not good for you. It depends on whether you are a boy or a girl, if you are a boy, I support face-to-face solution to the problem, if he scolds you again, you will fight back, such a person does not need to give face.

If you're a girl, it's better to forbear, have a good relationship with other people, and if you do well, you're not afraid of what others will say about you.

Let's make things clear, they're all classmates and roommates.

It's good to remember this kind of person, don't help him in the future, you are kind, but he is jealous of the belly of a gentleman with the heart of a villain.

I roughly divide the problems into two categories, those that can be solved by one's own efforts, and those that you can't solve on your own.

Needless to say, the former usually relies on your own reflection, adjustment of state, adjustment of emotions, change of perception of things, etc.

The latter sometimes involves communication with others, so you also need to do the part of yourself that you should do, and if the rest of the parts that need the cooperation of others cannot be accommodated temporarily, then you can find a piece of paper or notebook to write down the unprocessed thoughts every day, which will reduce a lot of interference for you. That is, put it aside for the time being, and wait until you suddenly have the confidence to solve the matter, and then find out the matter and reorganize the solution.

Just like our reading habits, if we can't read a chapter or a sentence, we will draw a line with a pen or fold the corners of the book to put this part of the content on hold first, so as not to let it delay our reading of the overall content. When you read it carefully, you can go back and study it separately in context.

The same is true when dealing with things, there are always some things that we need to solve, but at the same time can not be solved quickly, it will not only consume our mental energy, but also cause it to occupy a lot of our time and energy, so that other things have to be delayed frequently, so it is better to take a "temporary shelf" way to record first, so at least it will not delay other things.

Hope it can solve your troubles.

It's such a coincidence, I'm also upset, this experience is too normal, sometimes after this hour or the past day, the mood will get better, first calm down, look at the greenery around you, and listen to a soothing song. We all know that upset can't solve any problems, and peace and tranquility can go far, so don't get along with yourself, protect yourself when you are upset, let yourself calm down, and then deal with the problems you face.

When you encounter something annoying.

Keep a normal heart.

Face it. to solve.

You haven't told us what kind of troubles you have encountered, you have to tell us the specific things, so that we can help you analyze what to do? Not all worries can be solved in one way.

If you encounter troubles that can be solved, solve them as soon as possible, and don't always keep them in your heart if you can't solve them for the time being, making everyone unhappy.

If you know how to ask questions, you will know what to do.

Then you have to think about what the problem is, what is the cause, what is the problem that makes you so upset, the most important thing is to seriously think about what is wrong, everything has its source, you can't always think about why you are so unlucky.

How can all unfortunate things happen to you, everyone else is so happy and happy, and you really suffer here. If you think like this, you will only make yourself more and more upset the more you think about it, but don't blindly rely on the Internet to spend it, because that will not make you not upset in the future, it will only deepen your own troubles, because once you leave this online virtual world, you will feel very empty, very lonely, feel that no one in this world will pay attention to you, and then you will have some bad thoughts.

The most important thing is to find the origin of the matter, make yourself sober, don't be confused, if you can, find your trusted friends or relatives to talk to your heart, if you really can't solve it, find an outsider to help you mediate your mood, don't be cranky alone, can't get a depression out, it's not good, when you encounter upset things, just sit down calmly and think about it, there will be a solution to the problem, but you haven't found it yourself, I wish you happiness and happiness!

If you have troubles, it is best to talk to your parents, I personally think that parents are not selfish to their children, and it is inconvenient to talk to their parents, so it is okay to talk to their friends.

Remember, no matter how big things happen to you, don't think about suicide. Life is short, and you should live it well. If you want to tell, I'd like to hear from you.

No matter what happens in life, it is not as important as being alive, so no matter what troubles you encounter, you must be happy, and living happily is the best, and everything can be solved.

Why didn't I see you talking? What is the situation? Tell me about it! Let's see if we can help you.

Write it out or you will be bored, get out of depression, and live happily.

You can talk to me and see which of us is bothered!!

You, you, you, you repeat the giggles, Cai Xukun. Allergies are very giggling come to me, is it the New Year, the principle of loneliness, the principle of economics, the number with the number of the cluck, the cluck, the repetition, the loneliness, the man, I'm afraid that you will be more lonely than a certain reading, wow, what is the attitude to reread the forehead lonely. Accompany you to get lonely, continue to be speechless?

I'm lonely, I'm lonely! Mother-in-law's loneliness, cluck, loneliness, you are lonely! Go to your house cough cough loneliness!

Does the meat have to be stolen, slowly lonely, lonely, eh? Tell you, you're a female motorcycle!

Article 33 of the Security Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates that the term "mortgage" as used in this Law refers to the debtor or a third party not transferring possession of the property listed in Article 34 of this Law and using the property as security for creditor's rights. When the debtor fails to perform its obligations, the creditor shall have the right to receive preferential repayment in accordance with the provisions of this Law at the discount of the property or the price of the auction or sale of the property. The debtor or third party provided for in the preceding paragraph is the mortgagor, the creditor is the mortgagee, and the property provided for security is the collateral.

Article 34 provides that the following property may be mortgaged: houses and other fixtures on the ground owned by the mortgagor; machinery, means of transport and other property owned by the mortgagor; State-owned land use rights, houses and other fixtures on the ground that the mortgagor has the right to dispose of in accordance with law; State-owned machinery, means of transport and other property that the mortgagor has the right to dispose of in accordance with law; The land use rights of barren mountains, barren ditches, barren hills, barren beaches and other wastelands contracted by the mortgagor in accordance with law and mortgaged with the consent of the contract issuing party; Other property that may be mortgaged in accordance with the law. The mortgagor may mortgage the property listed in the preceding paragraph.

It can be seen that the collateral must be owned or disposed of by the mortgagor, and it must be transferable and transferable by law, and the creditor's rights secured by it must not exceed its own value.

You are responsible because you are the operator of the store.

Hehe! Your sister-in-law is fooling you! Your shop is opened with your certificate, the two thousand yuan belongs to you, the ownership of the store belongs to you, and you are the real owner of the store.

The proof of the loan to buy the house is also yours, the collateral is also yours, and if something goes wrong, from a legal point of view, you will be fully responsible. Of course, if you love your sister-in-law kindly, she will help you share a little responsibility.

Unsecured credit small loans, as long as there is a lease contract, the procedures for 10,000-500,000 yuan are simple and the loan is fast!

In the face of salarymen, small and medium-sized enterprises in urgent need of money!

What you need is strength and self-confidence.

Do you dare to hold your head high and your chest high! The most fundamental problem of the problem you are talking about is inferiority and cowardice, inferiority leads to lack of self-confidence, suspiciousness and always feels that others look down on you, and you choose to avoid these problems, this kind of problem will be worse.

All I can say is: let go of your baggage and look open. When you can't tell whether what others say is true or false, don't hesitate to take it as true.

When you feel that someone else is watching you, you let them watch you, what's wrong, and you don't do anything wrong, sit upright, walk right, don't be afraid of anything, because it's not terrible.

Make friends with everyone around you as a trustworthy person, no matter what they do to you, you have to have a good attitude to face it, exercise more, and fight more.

Speaking of which, the most important thing is that you need to break through, change, and face it bravely, and you must not escape anymore. I am willing to do my best, the power of Weibo, to help you solve the problems you encounter at any time.

Don't be too much of that, maybe one day you'll be what you say you are, and he'll gossip about you if you learn from you? Usually communicate with classmates more, hehe, you can share fun with others to promote feelings, so that others will not say that you are a nerd, he scolds you, you give it back. Afraid of what?

But don't scold too harshly. You should just be unlucky that this year is your natal year. I ask you:

What are guys interested in? A car or something, then you can talk to him about something. Doing what you like is key!

Just treat everyone else as a floating cloud! Spy on Shenma.,At most, I think you're handsome.、There are still quite a lot of cuties now.。。 Haha, sister, I expand like a spider's web with these relationships.

There are also people who have played well to help carry the black pot. Narcissism (a little bit is good) and more self-confidence! The main thing about making friends is to see if you get along well and whether this person is interesting.

First of all, I have to find a brother for myself, (like a girlfriend.) There is time to join in the fun、、、

You have to learn to take it easy and not strain your nerves too much. Sometimes it's also self-suggesting and telling yourself not to be nervous. You don't overthink it.

You are you, and you don't need to care too much about what others say. Also, there are some things that are in the past, so don't get too tangled. You have to make yourself happy and cheerful in order to make more friends.

Be sincere, you trust others, and others will trust you. There is also a combination of work and rest, and proper relaxation can make you better concentrate. It is important to be healthy and maintain a good attitude.

Communicate with your classmates slowly, get to know a few good classmates, go out for a walk more, talk to your family, talk to your family, want to open more, read more useful books, TV, the Internet, watch some touching TV variety shows, etc., I wish you to get rid of your troubles as soon as possible.

When I was in high school,,, I had this trend for a while, this situation is because I have no friends, I actually have an inferiority complex deep down, I think others are not trustworthy, I always feel that someone scolds me, because I am very insecure, I feel that I have not done well enough in the class this year,,, I want to get rid of it, make friends, I don't know if there is a psychological counseling room in your school, if you have it, you can write to the psychology teacher, she will help you, and will not let others know...