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Her decision to get engaged was not necessarily a solo idea; After all, marriage is a part of real life! It may be disturbed by the relationship between family and financial interests. Or the containment of elders.
Young girls are more likely to be weak and need support from their families and families. So I had to make some choices. So, the first question is to find out what the problem is.
Is it that she loves you but can't escape reality, or is it a promise that she has a relationship with you. Actually, you can analyze it yourself.
Love is beautiful and ideal. If your girlfriend emotionally determines your status as a lover, then it is obvious that there is a lack of commitment and goals for common needs. In other words, you may have captured her emotional heart but you can't get the cornerstone of reality.
Returning to the status quo, the girlfriend is already engaged. There may be a chance that you can communicate with each other at a deeper level and find out why you are not chosen. If it's her family's opposition and you love each other, you can be brave enough to fight for it:
For example, the two go together to be honest with each other's true love and even commitment. If your girlfriend changes her mind, then it depends on your own charm, maybe you want to postpone the marriage date to work harder, this is testing your true love.
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Why do you have to work so hard, just find a new one.
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Comment: People are going to get engaged to prove that she doesn't love you anymore.
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In these three cases, the bride price can be returned.
1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities. This is a principled provision for the bride price, and the premise is that the marriage has not been concluded and the bride price has been paid.
2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together. In this case, the man and the woman have fulfilled the necessary legal procedures for marriage and are in accordance with the legal marriage relationship, but the parties are not really living together. Barricade.
3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor. The bride price is the property given to the other party before the marriage, and the amount is generally relatively large, which refers to the situation that the paying party is unable to live after the bride price is paid to the other party.
The first condition of the above rules is that after the bride price is paid, but before the parties enter into marriage. And for the first.
The provisions of 2 and 3 are that the two-type heng shed party already has a legal marital relationship, but it should be conditional on the divorce of both parties.
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The girlfriend is engaged, and the news is a big blow to the man. He used to put women in the most important position in his heart, but now women are going to marry someone else. In such a situation, the man first needs to calm down and refrain from any impulsive behavior.
Then he should think carefully about whether his own behavior caused this result, or whether it was caused by the environment and other factors, and only by finding the reason could it be possible to win back his girlfriend's heart.
No matter how well a man thinks he is doing, a woman always has thoughts and emotions. If the girlfriend is engaged, then obviously, she has found a more suitable counterpart than herself. Therefore, the man needs to put himself in the other person's shoes and consider why she would leave him.
Is it because you are too enthusiastic or because you are too cold? Is it because she wasn't cared for and tolerated enough? Only by figuring out these problems can you grasp the opportunity to win back your girlfriend.
Even if the girlfriend is engaged, the man can't let go easily. He needs to make his love clear to his girlfriend and try to re-establish the emotional connection. At the same time, men also need to seek support and advice from family and friends, listen to different opinions, and carefully consider each suggestion.
If he can, a man can offer his girlfriend to have dinner with her or spend a weekend with her, trying to understand her and her life as much as possible. These efforts have the potential to win back your girlfriend's heart and make her a fond memory.
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