How did a girl who was gentle before marriage slowly become a tigress after marriage?

Speaking of which, I think it's probably because society and humanity are changing。Why do you say it, in the old days of our parents, life was hard, it was not easy to be together, our parents were thinking about the basic problem of eating, drinking, and Lazar, in the past, in addition to the basic desire of love, most of them were about survival, and now our lives have become better, and our spiritual pursuit is more progressive, right? So we're now also proactive about our personal feelings.

So in general,With different times, the changes in human nature before and after marriage are also different, and we need to understand that at different times, your appearance will be different and <>

First, why do many girls change a lot when they are in love and when they get married? In general, the time is different. In the past, when we were not married, many of our things were beautiful when we were in love at the beginning, and we felt that each other's farts were fragrant, but after marriage, many things slowly changed into family affection by the passage of time, didn't it?

Second, your role has changed, hasn't it? You have changed from two young men and women to parents with a family and a child, which is also the focus of many girls' transformation, their children often need to be taken care of by their mothers, and with the pressure of children in daily life, everyone will be irritable or something. <>

Therefore, we also have a good companionship and communication in the life of the couple, many men should pay more attention to women, understand that feelings are two people's affairs, not blindly complaining, only two people can be happy

In fact, it's not that she wants to be like this, it's all changed by family trivialities.

You can't get the life you want and enough love.

Because there are many things in the family that make women very irritable.

Because life is stressful, otherwise everyone is happy.

First, there is too much responsibility and pressure.

If there is pressure and it is shared by two people, then of course it is fine, but if there is a responsibility that requires you to resist, you try. Although it is said that "motherhood is just", it is just over to be broken. If the child's education is not ideal, and everyone blames you for the responsibility, this pressure can easily bend the mother.

Let's ask which mother has not secretly recited, "It is biological, it is biological". But in the face of a little guy who doesn't know how to write well, and doesn't know where to be in the future, and the fathers who don't know where to hide, how can they calmly say "the years are quiet" and "treat them gently"?

Second, the torture of scumbags.

It has been said above, but it is necessary to take it out again because the times have given mothers more parenting responsibilities, especially in terms of learning ability. But some mothers are not good at learning, and when it comes to children, they are naturally black-eyed, but the teacher doesn't care about you, and when the child goes to school, he can't drag the class back, since he can't drag it back, then do you have to study hard. But the child's grades have become the tail of the class, so how dare the mother speak in the group, how dare she be bubbling and strong.

In this case, you have to patiently reason with your child and teach him to learn to look like he is learning, is it really embarrassing for mothers. How can you maintain a gentle state under double pressure?

3. The hard work of parenting.

Many of today's mothers have made great achievements in their jobs, but with the birth of their children, the little guy who is upside down in black and white will only tell you to give up with big flickering eyes, and he has no energy.

If you insist on reflecting your own value of the price, then I'm sorry, your tiredness is only known to you, your hard work is only experienced by yourself, tired or irritable is very easy.

Of course, this is all forced, because the things that this woman encounters in her marriage are very unsatisfactory, which will cause the woman to lose her temper often and become a tigress.

Because women need to take care of their families and children after getting married, they worry about all kinds of trivial things in life every day, and they lack a lot of time and space to improve themselves.

She used to be just the daughter of her parents, but since she got married, she has changed a lot of identities, your wife, your parents' daughter-in-law, your children's mother, but who has been considerate of her.

Because of the trivial things in life, women will grow old quickly. Focusing on children and husbands all year round can also make women neglect their love for themselves. I feel like I can't give up at any time to become a better version of myself.

I think this is all forced by life, and in marriage, it is also men who force women, so they will become a tigress, and they are no longer as gentle and virtuous as before.

After marriage, some boys become particularly impatient.

Because the tenderness before marriage is all pretended.

Because married women are generally very stressed.

It's nothing, I just don't love you.

After marriage, some boys become very lazy.

There are so many reasons for this!