Share, what do you think about people who like to speak ill of others?

In fact, everyone will say something behind others' backs, which is normal, and there are very few people who can do it without saying a bad word about others, but this is also a principled bottom line, blindly saying bad things about others, framing, this is particularly excessive, looking for opportunities to confess to her or tear it directly, we are not easy to bully. ‍‍

It's normal.,It's because you're wrong that you keep slandering you.,There's a word that doesn't mean that the wicked sue first.,In fact, it's almost the same meaning.,It's all a weak heart.。

My personal approach is to never talk about her behind my back in the first place, it's boring and it exposes my thoughts, but as long as there is an opportunity to dig a hole, I will definitely not let it go. He should know that if he comes out to mix, he will have to pay it back sooner or later, and if you dare to make me unhappy, I will have a way to make you sad. The villain who spreads rumors and slanders is the most hateful and will not be tolerated. ‍‍

They say that you are actually because you have a certain degree of anxiety, and it will be much better to find out their real problems or to look a little more open.

People who like to make up stories behind your back are for three reasons: they don't reach your level, they don't have what you have, and they try to imitate your lifestyle.

For this kind of person, I generally have how far away and far away, the mouth is on other people's faces, and you can't run to sew it up, wasting your energy for someone who is not worthy.

Don't bend yourself, don't care, have nothing to say, this is letting go, letting go of the other party and letting go of yourself, and while you care, but at the same time "worry a lot" to suppress your feelings, let yourself in a predicament and can't break free, this is self-torture, from this point of view, how to treat others is not so important, but how to treat "when others treat themselves, their own reaction" is often very important. ‍‍

This kind of person, just ignore her, don't be angry, whether she is right or not, she is doing this wrong.

If there is enough evidence to prove that I am wrong, and I have the determination to look down on me as a person and want to break off my friendship, he is naturally not afraid to fight with me. It's a pity that most of the people don't want to hurt the superficial harmony with me, and they only dare to hide behind and whisper, reluctant to hide in sheepskin and can't get out of the wolves. I can only sigh at this, and classify this category as interpersonal relationships under universal values. ‍‍

A person speaks ill of others behind his back.

This is a way to vent, because he is very likely to be dissatisfied with this person, or encounter some problems in life, and there is no way to vent at this time, so saying bad things about others behind his back can make their hearts feel better. At the same time, there is a certain sense of security.

This is the spiritual sustenance in psychology.

And this kind of sustenance is based on the pain of others, they say bad things about others, if that person knows, what will they think? In real life, they have a lot of pressure, for example, my colleague Xiao Wang is such a person, the boss has not done a good job every time he explains his things, and he also likes to say bad things about others, in fact, when he says bad things, he wants to attract everyone's attention, but also because of panic.

It shows that the person's pattern and heart are quite small, he only has himself in his eyes, he can't see the good of others, and he can't see the bad of others, to put it bluntly, this person is a big mouth, and how to say it, this kind of person is very confident, you have to guard against him everywhere, and you can't tell him some things about yourself, otherwise he will betray you.

This is a kind of villain, he has no psychology and just likes to play with right and wrong, and he has no interests for himself, and he can only be described as "cheap" by one person

This is simply a kind of villain's heart. Whoever it is? No one will benefit from him in front of him.

Some people speak ill of others because they are too demanding and critical of others, and some people are because of habit.

Hello, if a person always likes to say bad things about others, such a person, you had better stay away from him, first of all, psychologically unhealthy, and then unworthy of association, so it is better not to get close to him.

Aren't you just saying bad things about people?

The mouth grows on others, and others can say whatever they want! They speak ill of you behind your back, and you can't hear you! Someone tells you that someone says bad things about you, and you have to sulk when you hear it!

You can't slap someone else's mouth, even if you really hear it, it's no fun for you to argue! People are used to being noisy, and they don't worry about anything, and you are the one who gets hurt in the end!

You also have a big mouth, and no one dares to guarantee that you haven't said anything bad about others! So keep your mouth shut and take care of yourself, Bitalu! Don't just take care of others and don't care about yourself!

Over time, you'll be like them! They are all veteran drivers and old players, you have become them, how can you have played them!

Sometimes it's not someone else who defeats you, it may be yourself! Only if you become excellent and strong, others will not only not say bad things about you, but will also try to please you! Please eat and drink, and hope you can help them!

For those who say bad things about you, you have to turn these pressures into motivation, and if you don't succeed, you are right, and if you succeed, they will only be impressed with you!

What is the psychology of people who like to speak ill of people behind their backs.

1.Inferiority complex.

Low self-esteem is the last thing a person wants to admit in his heart, but in real life, people often feel inferior for some reasons. When a person feels inferior, he achieves psychological equilibrium by belittling others. These people will make themselves feel better by saying that they are better than others.

2.Comparison psychology.

Human beings are born with a comparison mentality, believing that they are better than others. When a person is inferior to others in some way, he feels an inner imbalance and thus wants to prove his superiority by belittling others. These people often speak ill of others behind their backs in order to achieve the purpose of comparison.

3.Jealousy.

Jealousy is one of the most complex human emotions, it is a strong emotional regression, containing complex psychological mechanisms. When a person sees others who are more successful, better, or more popular than themselves, he feels jealous. This jealousy will cause him to develop a demeaning mentality towards others, thus alleviating his jealousy by saying bad things about others behind his back.

4.Egocentrism.

Self-centeredness is when a person only looks out for his own interests and feelings and ignores the interests and feelings of others. This kind of psychology can make a person ignore other people's thoughts and feelings, and thus speak ill of others behind their backs. These people believe that as long as they feel good about removing the wax mold, the feelings and thoughts of others are not important.

In short, people who like to speak ill of people behind their backs have complex psychological mechanisms. These people may have this behavior due to low self-esteem, comparison, jealousy, and self-centeredness. However, this behavior can not only hurt others, but also oneself.

Therefore, we should try to avoid this bad behavior and maintain a good attitude and behavior.

People who like to speak ill of people behind their backs are often referred to as "long-tongued women". This kind of person actually has problems with his personal conduct, and it is his forte to tell right and wrong and sow discord. 1.

The psychology of jealousy. The person behind this kind of person is often better than himself, more capable than himself, and better than himself. So jealousy drives it to make irresponsible remarks about people.

2.The psychology of falling into the well. This kind of person has no sympathy, and instead of pulling on the weak, the distressed, and the unfortunate, he stomps on it, and sprinkles salt on other people's wounds. Add fuel and vinegar behind their backs and speak ill of people.

3.The psychology of pleasing others. This kind of person talks about the bad things of his enemy in front of Xiao Wang, so as to win Xiao Wang's favor and get closer to Xiao Wang.

4.The psychology of two sides and three knives. This kind of person said Li San in front of Zhang San, and said Zhang San again in front of Li San, stabbing both sides and sowing discord.

5.The psychology of watching people's jokes. This kind of person speaks bad things behind his back, acts as a messenger, and tells right and wrong, lest the world will not be chaotic and make fun of chaos.

6.Low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence. This kind of person likes to speak ill of people behind the cracking, which is actually a manifestation of his own lack of self-confidence, and he is strong in order to cover up his inferiority.

likes to say bad things about others behind his back, and the truth is a person's true thoughts and portrayals.

Because we were originally unwilling to accept the advantages of Lu Ji of the people who were wise and dissipated, we often used this behavior to belittle them.

This kind of early sock behavior can help you soothe your inner dissatisfaction, so that you can also affirm that your ability is stronger than the other person.

In fact, at this time, we are always jealous, and it is also a projection of our own hearts.

In this way, you can balance yourself, and this is the "hypocrisy" of human beings.