Should I really give up this friendship of the same sex ?

If the other person hurts you, give up.

Whether it is love or friendship, you will go through a honeymoon period at the beginning, during that time you will be very intimate, there will be a feeling of seeing each other late, but after that, it will slowly tend to be dull, and some people will feel that the novelty is boring after the end, and they no longer want to deal with each other. It's not that the other party must not have cherished you, it's just that her character determines what he does. Friendship is the same as love, it is not unilateral and can be forced, maybe he will re-take care of you after a while, or maybe you are like strangers.

I've experienced the same thing. I still don't understand why my friend, who had been a little dependent on me, suddenly stopped talking about me. She didn't give me any explanation, she didn't say a word to me again.

I was also sad for a while, but eventually let go. After all, they used to be good friends, so I wish her all the best in the future.

She doesn't reply to messages because she doesn't care about you, so let's not let someone who doesn't reply to messages waste your time, time will dilute everything.

As friends, we can appreciate each other, be tolerant, talk to each other, and understand each other, since she is tired of this friendship and don't want to continue, then you continue to pursue, it's no longer interesting, don't be too persistent, you should give up or give up, the world is so big, you will have new good friends in the future.

Personally, I think it's better to give up, because the Internet is a virtual world, and many of the virtual worlds are unknown and deceitful. Besides, the other party has already rejected you, so there is no need to waste time and energy on him. And as you know, the topic of same-sex is not allowed in China.

So if you really have an idea, you can find someone in reality who you think is good and the other party approves of you. Away from the internet, away from virtual stuff.

It's not ladylike to meet people, there are really people looking for friends on the Internet, why haven't I met such a good friend as you. Give gifts to each other before you have met, and when you speak, you are also a person who values love and righteousness.

Netizen, a netizen who has never met, you regard him as a most sincere friend, do your best to establish friendship with each other, but in his heart he will not think so, he always thinks he is very good, in your friendship, you are the active party, the active party is always the victim, pay the most, report the least, because you take the initiative to pay, the other party is just pandering, the way is different and do not conspire with each other, obviously feel that the two of you are not people on the same channel, you are kind and charitable, but he is selfish and does not know how to cherish, It is recommended to be neither lukewarm nor hot, cool down, and don't be too proactive!

Then you should also let go of her slowly, you can't pretend to be her all the time, and try to make friends of the opposite sex.

If it's irretrievable, give up.

Then give up! Find a real-life friend.

The premise of being a friend is "mutual appreciation", if one party is tired and disgusted, it will lose its foundation, and it is better to separate!

Don't be wishful thinking.