Why does it hurt to believe again and again?

If you always don't understand this, and you always go on a big time and again, then you will definitely suffer forever and be injured forever, so you should be able to eat a trench and grow a wisdom.

Too naïve, too gullible, too confident; The understanding of people is still very insufficient, the hypocrisy of people has not been perceived, and the laws of some things have not yet been grasped; It's just acting with feelings, acting with interest, without real emotional communication, without touching the inner world. This is the reason for the injury again and again, and I hope to learn a lesson in the future, get to know people before dealing with them, and only then can I talk about feelings.

If you believe it again and again, you will be hurt, which means that you believe it more than once or twice, which means that you have been dishonest, so your heart will be hit.

Maybe it's because you repeatedly believe that you haven't accumulated the experience of previous failures, so you will always get hurt.

Because it's easy to believe that these people will always have something to disappoint you, and disappointment will hurt.

Prove that you believe in someone you shouldn't believe and that's why you're getting yourself hurt.

If you believe it, you will get hurt, and the person on the other side of the delivery is not worth it at all, and you should not have anything to do with him after you believe it, protect yourself.

Because sometimes you shouldn't trust others, because some people are not worth trusting.

When you have it, when you repeatedly trust others, they may do things that you can't control.

Therefore, we must distinguish between right and wrong, and we must know the truth, goodness, beauty, falsehood, evil and ugliness of this world, so we must distinguish well in this world.

What does that mean, exactly? As the saying goes, right to people.

The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.

I think sometimes we can only believe half of what we believe in others, and if we believe more, we will only be hurt even more.

The reason why many people no longer trust and give their feelings after being hurt is because they have not dealt with their injuries in time.

The next time you may repeat the mistake of the last time, meet the same person, and get hurt again. In this way, again and again, not only will they not believe in others, but they also no longer believe in themselves, or simply accept their fate, and they still have not walked out of the so-called"Fate"of the traps.

How to deal with the wound in time?

1. First sort out the reasons why you are unladylike. Why do you always meet the wrong people? Reflect on your own preferences, see what is wrong with people's standard conditions, and adjust them in time.

2. Realize that if I don't love him, he should love me, and if I am so good to him, he shouldn't reject me and betray me. In the world of feelings, there are no such formulas.

3. Know that you just met the wrong person, not that you are bad. No matter how good a person is, if he meets someone who is not suitable, he can't produce love.

4. All you need to do is to adjust the direction, choose, and wait for the person who can appreciate, agree with you, and what you are suitable for.

It's generally impossible Unless she's really too much of that For a long time, no matter how big the pain is, it will fade away If there is someone who is really good enough to ** her It is him.

Why not believe in love.

If you don't believe in love because you've been hurt.

So it's the same as the case of choking on food.

I don't plan to eat because I've choked on it.

Doesn't it feel a little cute and childish?

After reading this example, do you feel that your situation is essentially the same?

If you are hurt in love, you don't plan to accept the next love, it is obviously unfair to you, everyone will be hurt, but if you are afraid of being hurt and are unwilling to face or pursue it again, then your future memories will be a little pale.

What is the matter that she hurts you deeply, is it a betrayal or something else, if it is a betrayal, then it is not your fault, and you can't punish yourself for the fault of others If it is something else, then tell you Oh, love itself is a process of hurting each other, so come on.

You can still have your own love after the injury, maybe this love is not for you now?

Of course, I will believe in love.

You can learn how to get along with injuries from injuries.

I also learned to grow.

The next relationship will be more mature.

There is no fixed interpretation of love, and everyone's understanding will be different. Love can be sweet or bitter, no one dares to say that my love is 100% sweet and there is no love that is 100% bitter, no one's love has not been hurt, or sweet, and only after being hurt, after sweetness, can you understand what love is, love can make you laugh, but also make you cry. It is only after laughing and crying that you can understand what love is.

What is love like? Love is like Sunday morning, an old song sings. What is love?

Why do Orthodox people promise life and death? An old poem reads. So, what is love?

What is love like? Love is the rain of spring. The place moistened by love always seems to be vibrant, every bush of weeds is delicate, and every sapling is delicate.

When spring comes, the raindrops of love are like pearls, always strung up and scattered, when the spring is gone, the little flowers of love are either fruitful or withered. Love is the autumn wind, when love is gone, it is like the wind and sand blowing through the field, everywhere is a withered yellow, leaving only bleak and bleak, and full of desolation. The autumn wind swept away the yellowed branches and leaves, leaving behind the strong branches and buds of life.

When the next spring comes, when the spring rain drops, when the spring breeze blows, the world will wake up again, and the shoots of life will hang on the green branches again. Love is a floating cloud, always floating, coming and going freely, unpredictable, one will dress the sky up in a gorgeous and colorful way, the sky is clear, and the other will be dark clouds overwhelming the city, wind and rain full of buildings. When the sky is clear, there are few clouds, and what people see is the cheerfulness of the clouds.

Love is a sugar-coated cannonball, and after the sweetness, you have to taste the bitterness of it. Learn to be strong and face it calmly!!

1. When love is not there, please say blessings to him. After all, once loved. 2. Don't tell him I hate you when it's over.

Because, love is a matter of two people, and everyone is responsible for missing it. 3. When you leave, you will think of a lonely picture, but please forget it. A person must always have a new beginning, don't let the past tie you to the temple of sorrow.

4. Don't say who you love the most, life is still very long, and no one can predict tomorrow. Maybe your true love is still waiting for you in the next second. 5. Don't be noisy when you break up.

After all, the two have been together for so long, and he will be sad to be separated. It's just that he's wiser and doesn't want to tie you down or his tomorrow. It's good to get together and disperse, and in the future, we will still be friends.

Everyone has their own helplessness. 6. Don't talk about grief, everyone has their own story. To live is not to miss yesterday, but to wait for hope so that everyone can see your strength.

You can also live well without him. 7. After leaving, tell him aloud: I love you, and it has nothing to do with you.

Love is your right, say what you want to say, calmly remember your past, and then cry. After crying, leave everything for yesterday and never touch it. 8. When you think of him, think of his goodness, of his laughter.

Remember once loved someone, don't care who started the betrayal in the end, just be happy. 9. When you break up, you will be yourself, and a person's world also has the rising and setting of the moon, and there are also beautiful moments, which classify him as a memory. 10. A person's world always needs another person as a foil, and when he leaves, he can't stand up to you, and believes that he will have a better tomorrow.