How should a female high school student chase a little cold to watch

When love comes, you need to confess, don't dare to say that beautiful vow because it may change, but it's good once. When love leaves, you need to keep it, because you let go easily, even if she doesn't want to go, she will be swept away by the crowd, the same once. Kai-Fu Lee said that being attracted because of excellence, being loved because of attraction, and knowing how to love because of being loved, this is the process of love!

Loving someone is not about suffering from gains and losses, nor is it about spending all your energy to please you, let alone fantasizing about how happy you will be in the future, but you have to be an excellent person, because in the future, there will be people who love her, and the only thing you can do is to compare them! Please give yourself patience, wait patiently until that day, when you are brave enough, good enough to walk firmly in front of her, and with a sense of calm, it will be you she has never seen before. He can refuse you who are not excellent, but he can't refuse you who have become strong for her!

In the relationship, there is no rule that says who must take the initiative, nor does it say that whoever takes the initiative is the loser, if you don't take the initiative, you can't know what kind of love your ininitiative will make you lose. You said, you like him, that's enough, for the person you like, isn't it worth your effort? Otherwise, how can you be embarrassed to call it like?

Even if he doesn't like you, so what? At least your initiative will get you the answers you want.

The meeting smiled and nodded.

Create chance encounters, such as your buddy pushes you and bumps into her and then apologizes and invites her to have a meal or something, and if she is cold, you will make her laugh with a dead face.

Make yourself the best person in your class and pursue her in an environment that everyone admires. The question is, can you do it?

1.There is a misjudgment of his own value: either he pursues someone whose value is far greater than his own, or he thinks that chasing this girl proves his worth, or he feels that the only value he can show is his sincerity

2.There is a misjudgment of the meaning of "initiative": I think that taking the initiative means constantly showing favor and paying, and taking the initiative to chase girls means spending money on buying food, drinking, and chatting with others

3.There are too few choices, desperate, and you can't afford to lose: just chase a girl, I feel that this girl is the love of my life, and you don't know how to live without her

Well, knowing how the problem was created, then it is much easier to solve the problem.

In fact, this is the common cognition of many brothers who are just starting to fall in love. Maybe the reason why the girl approaches you at the beginning is because you take the initiative to invest and pay for her.

For example, if you invite her to a meal and give her a gift, the reason why the girl chooses to be with you may not be your own value, but your contribution to her in other aspects.

In order to prevent the breakdown of the relationship, you will increase your own dedication and dedication.

And girls will also enjoy your efforts in a short period of time, so you are in a vicious circle of infinite giving, constantly increasing your own costs to maintain the relationship.

She is always running in front and you are always chasing behind, resulting in an emotional gap between high and low positions, and he will break up when he feels that you are not useful.

After that, you must have also reflected on your own problems, felt that it was wrong to give unconditionally, and felt that it would be too cheap and reduce your value. Then you think that as long as you are more "cold", you can improve your value, after all, many so-called "male gods" in life do this.

If you want to chase the girl you like, don't be too enthusiastic when pursuing, because most of the time, the girl doesn't reject you because she hates you, but because your enthusiasm scares her, so whether it's chatting or pursuing, you should maintain a proper sense of mystery, people have curiosity, especially the curiosity of girls, will be more vigorous than boys, if you want to completely capture a girl's heart, you need to maintain a certain sense of mystery, don't come up directly "dedicated" everything you have, Because people have a certain inferiority, the easier it is to get without any sense of mystery, the less they will cherish it, and those boys who are mysterious and secretive and hot and cold to themselves, girls will explore the boys' world with exploration and curiosity. At this time, the pursuit will become very simple.

I think in the process of chasing girls, first of all, you should not be too enthusiastic, you must take your time with him, you can chat with him first, cultivate a good feeling, step by step, and then attack slowly, so that you are neither enthusiastic nor cold.

It's good to keep your distance, you can take the initiative at the beginning, and if she responds to you, then it's okay to develop further, of course, you can't be too enthusiastic, just have a normal relationship.

When pursuing a girl, if you don't want to be too enthusiastic or cold, then treat it with a normal heart, be an emotionally stable person, and adjust your heart, you can do it.

When pursuing a girl, you should chat with the girl every day, but more often than not, the two people can meet to strengthen the connection, and you should help the girl to answer the questions she asks, rather than saying irrelevant words.

When chasing girls, you can be more enthusiastic about girls on Valentine's Day or birthdays, and you don't have to be too active at other times.

When you want to pursue a girl, you must do it in moderation. Don't contact girls too often. In this way, you can make your love life better.

Restrain your behavior. It's okay to contact girls appropriately, but not too often.

I think it's okay to get along normally, and I can maintain my relationship by chatting when I usually judge the spine, but to grasp this time, I think it's okay to chat for half an hour every day.

You should let your charm stool be reflected, and you should also make yourself more gentlemanly. You should also let your abilities be reflected, you should also improve your emotional intelligence, and you should also learn to take it in moderation and not harass the other party.

You can properly show your feelings for her, and you should also give her some gifts, but don't show the special return of the clan and don't lick the dog, you should show your feelings appropriately.

1. Be warm.

No matter how tall or cold a girl is, she will have a weak side. You can see that it's just her appearance. In fact, she hides the heart of a girl.

The girls crave boys to protect her. The strong side on the surface is actually quite complex. If you can warm her, she will be infected by you.

For you, this is no longer an expression of indifference, but a very warm side.

2. Don't always pester her.

For a girl who is extremely cold, you can't pursue her for no reason. The reason I'm so indifferent to you is because I don't know you, it's a sign of distrust of you. If you keep chasing her and don't give up, she will especially hate your behavior.

Needless to say, as a couple, you may not even have the chance to be friends. Chasing Gao Leng's sister must be very careful. Don't present yourself self-righteously.

This will only add fuel to the fire of your terrible situation.

3. Confess when appropriate.

Don't admit it too soon. It's a particularly great opportunity when you see that she is passionate about you. When her affection for you rises to a certain level, it's time to express your success.

At this time, you should seize the opportunity, seize her affection for you, and express your voice boldly, so that you can take your cold sister directly.

4. Care about her from time to time.

From time to time, take care of the details of everything, such as breakfast, taking medicine when you are sick, good night text every night, and remember a few words she says. In fact, these are small things, but if you keep doing it, they will be touched and even feel that you are more reliable than other boys.

5. Give her some gifts.

Gifts of love and warm words. For a girl who is extremely insecure, the most reliable is real warmth. A shoulder and a hug, accompany and move them.

They are always reluctant to say more. When they are sad, they need the comfort of others, but they don't say it.

6. Don't always ask them what they want.

You should find out what they need yourself. At this time, their friends, girlfriends, and roommates can all make good use of it because no matter how tall and cold the girl is, they will also be relaxed when they are with their girlfriends. They usually have a circle, and you should fit into this circle as much as possible.

It is necessary to pay attention to the issue of politeness, the issue of proportionality, the issue of respect for the other person, the issue of safety infection, and the issue of not offending the other party.

Be sure to take the initiative, and then until the last moment, don't give up, in the process of pursuing each other, don't touch each other's bottom line, be sure to understand each other's hobbies and interests, be sure to make yourself more humorous, more interesting, and pay attention to your style of dressing.

Attitude towards girls, respect girls' ideas, don't pester girls, prepare some small surprises for each other, and confess to each other at the right time.

Be sure to pay attention to each other's emotions, pay attention to each other's preferences, choose the right way, choose the right time, and preferably attract each other to make yourself better.