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Because Lin Daiyu has Jia Baoyu and his grandmother's favor for him, and Baochai has worked hard to gain a foothold in Jiafu, Baoqin won Jia's mother's love as soon as she entered the mansion, so Baochai was very jealous.
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Because Lin Daiyu didn't get Jia Baoyu's love until she got both Jia Baoyu's love and the old lady's love. And Xue Baochai tried every means to please and endure in every way, but he was not as popular as Xue Baoqin, who had just come to Jiafu, as loved by the old lady, and even said the childish words of "I don't know where I am inferior to you".
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Daiyu is not jealous of Baoqin because Baoqin does not pose a threat to her love. Baochai was jealous of Baoqin because she was favored by the old lady as soon as she arrived in Jiafu.
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Daiyu knew that Baoyu also liked herself, and Jia's mother also loved herself, so she thought that she could become Baoyu's daughter-in-law. Baochai knows that Baoyu doesn't like herself, and Baoqin is excellent in all aspects, and Jia's mother also likes her. So he thinks that Baoqin is his worst enemy.
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This is because Lin Daiyu is a person who does not fight or grab, the leather sedan chair can be said to be indisputable, and her personality is relatively calm, without too much competitiveness, but Baochai is a very competitive woman, and she is especially jealous of Baoqin's identity and family background.
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This is because as soon as Baoqin prepared a sail and entered Jia's mansion, Jia's mother liked it very much, imitating a hailstorm, but Baochai was not warmly received by Jia's mother, so Baochai felt very jealous, and finally became jealous of Baolimb Harp.
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Because Daiyu has Jia Baoyu's love, but Baochai's love is very unsmooth, and she has never gotten what she wants to have.
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Xue Baochai's brother is jealous of Xue Baoqin, mainly because after Xue Baoqin came to Daguan Garden, everyone praised her for her beauty, but ignored Xue Baochai. Before Xue Baoqin came to Daguan Garden, Xue Baochai had always been very popular with everyone, and everyone praised Xue Baochai for being beautiful and knowledgeable.
Although Xue Baochai seems to be a person who is indifferent to fame and fortune on the surface, in fact, her heart is very eager for others to appreciate her. In contrast, Lin Daiyu is about to appear indisputable. She doesn't care about other people's comments from the inside or outside, and she always goes her own way, so she won't be jealous of Xue Baoqin because she is loved by others.
Regarding Xue Baochai's personality, we can also see some ways from her dress and living environment. Xue Baochai is a person with a complex personality and deep scheming, so the clothes she wears are all lotus pink or lavender. The main reason why the author writes this way is to convey a message to the reader:
That is, Xue Baochai is inconsistent. Not only that, but the house where Xue Baochai lives is also breathtaking.
Once, Jia's mother took Grandma Liu and other sisters from Daguanyuan to play in Luwuyuan, where Xue Baochai lived. As soon as Jia Mu entered, she was surprised to find that Xue Baochai's house was like a snow cave, and there were no furnishings. This shows that Xue Baochai is a person who is particularly good at hiding himself.
Imagine how a person with such a complex and insidious personality can allow others to steal the limelight from him?
Because of this, Xue Baochai showed rare jealousy after Xue Baoqin came to Daguanyuan, and even ridiculed Xue Baoqin in front of Jia Baoyu to steal his limelight. Xue Baochai thinks that she is relatively beautiful, and she is knowledgeable and knowledgeable, and she is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, so she thinks that she should be the most high-profile girl in the Grand View Garden. But when Xue Baoqin came to Daguanyuan, everything changed, and everyone turned their attention to Xue Baoqin, Xue Baochai thought that he was ignored by everyone, so he was so angry.
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Because Baochai is a person who likes to go to the homes of relatives to get to know the relatives, and Baomu got the love of Jia's mother as soon as he came to the piano, and even had to open the cloak that Baoyu didn't have.
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There are always people who use the idea of palace fighting and house fighting to interpret Baolun Yechai and Baoqin as contradictory and opposing competitive relationships. That's ridiculous. Because next, Xiang Yunji said: "Sister Bao, although you are joking, some people really think so."
Xiangyun suspects that Daiyu is jealous because she doesn't know Hai Dai's "Golden Ranch" yet. Xiangyun is straightforward, not stupid. Her conclusion that Baochai's jealousy is "a joke" is even more correct.
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Because Baochai has always been expected by his family. Every day is very depressing, but I think Baoqin is happy every day. It feels very unfair.
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Baochai was more or less aware of this fact, but under the arrangement of the feudal patriarch, it was impossible for her to refuse this marriage.
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It should be known that Baochai is a very smart person, she can see Baoyu's thoughts, but if she marries Baoyu, it will still be very good for herself.
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The reason why Lin Daiyu was not angry was because she knew that Mother Jia's favor and defeat Xue Baoqin was only temporary. In fact, in Jia's mother's heart, the people she loves the most are Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu.
Although Xue Baoqin entered Jiafu relatively late and stayed in Jiafu for a relatively short time, Xue Baoqin and Jia's mother were loved by Jia's mother as soon as they met.
Jia's mother not only expressed her love for Xue Baoqin, but also gave Xue Baoqin a lot of beautiful clothes. Not only that, Mother Jia also left Xue Baoqin to sleep with her.
But before that, none of the girls in the Grand View Garden had been treated like this. So everyone must be very puzzled, why would Jia Mu be so partial to Xue Baoqin? Zen slippery.
In fact, the reason why Jia's mother loves Xue Baoqin is very simple, that is, Xue Baoqin is relatively well-behaved and very beautiful, so Jia's first impression of her will be better.
But Lin Daiyu has never shown jealousy of Xue Baoqin, and I think the most important reason for this is that Lin Daiyu is very wise.
She knew that although Jia Muqi loved Xue Baoqin, this was only a temporary preference, and Xue Baoqin would not stay in the Grand View Garden for too long.
In fact, Jia's mother loves Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu the most, but Jia's mother gets along with the two of them day and night, so she won't be so enthusiastic.
Although Lin Daiyu looks stingy and loves to play petty, Lin Daiyu is a very kind girl at heart.
She will not be jealous of others because they are favored, nor will she laugh at others because they are not favored. Therefore, Lin Daiyu's heart is a very pure person.
Compared with Lin Daiyu, Xue Baochai is more stingy.
Xue Baochai was very angry when she saw Xue Baoqin being loved by Jia's mother, and even sarcastically mocked Xue Baoqin in front of the girls in Daguanyuan, which made Xue Baoqin very embarrassed.
Lin Daiyu has not had biological brothers and sisters since she was a child, so she felt very fond of Xue Baoqin after seeing her. From the bottom of her heart, she also very much hopes to become good friends with Xue Baoqin.
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This is because for Daiyu's brother Meng, he and Lian are very smart women, and he has understood their intentions for Jia Mu and Baoqin's behavior, and it is also because of the relationship between Baoqin and Baochai, so Daiyu is not jealous.
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Because she understood why Mother Jia treated Xue Baoqin like this, and understood why the other party did this, she naturally wouldn't be jealous.
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Because Daiyu doesn't care about these things at all, and Daiyu prefers flowers and plants, so she is not jealous.
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"Dream of Red Mansions" Xue Baoqin and Xue Baochai are cousins.
In the Grand View Garden, except for the widowed Li Kun, Baochai is the eldest, she loves her younger siblings everywhere, is sophisticated, and observant. She always pays attention to everything around her, and cares about the disadvantaged, such as Xiangyun, Daiyu, and Xiuyan, all of whom have been cared for and funded by Baochai.
Although Baoqin has been "shopping" with her parents since she was a child, she will still be accompanied by Baochai when she comes home, and Jiafu Huidu can also see that she has the demeanor of Baochai, but after all, she is young and innocent and lively, so it is inevitable that sometimes she can't take care of the general situation.
Xue Baochai's figure is in front of the image
There have always been different views on the character of Xue Baochai. Some respect Xue and suppress the forest, while others respect the forest and suppress Xue. The story of Zou Tao and his friend Xu Boqian waving their old fists several times because of a heated argument is a typical example. Even today, there are still different opinions.
Some people think that Lin Daiyu is sour and mean, narrow-minded, and loves to make small children, while Baochai is dignified and steady, gentle and generous, and open-minded. Some people think that Baochai is cold and ruthless, hypocritical and treacherous, and is a "female Cao Cao".
The fact that there are diametrically opposed views on the same image of a person is of course a reason why there are opinions between the benevolent and the wise, and at the same time, it also shows the complexity, richness and objectivity of the description.
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I don't think Jia Mu has ever thought about this, because she didn't want Baoqin to marry Baoyu, and naturally she didn't give up Daiyu's idea.
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I really thought about it. Jia Mu once thought that Baoyu was very suitable for Baoqin. But it turned out that this was not the case, and in the end Jia Mu also gave up on this idea.
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Yes, Jia Mu really had this thought, because in Jia Mu's cognition, she actually didn't recognize the relationship between Baoyu and Daiyu, so she had such an idea.
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I had this thought, and I did have such a thought at that time, but I was suppressed by reason, and Jia Mu loved Baoqin very much.
Because Lin Daiyu has no way to stop it, and she thinks that if two people really love each other, there is no need to exclude others.
On the one hand, because she is an outsider, she is equivalent to a guest, so it is not good to discipline her too much. But on the other hand, it can also be seen from the fact that Jia's mother asked Xue Baoqin's birth date that Jia's mother actually wanted to marry her to Jia Baoyu. Because she is relatively simple and kind, not as scheming as Xue Baochai. >>>More
It's the same with men, don't condemn all women in one sentence.
It's normal to be jealous, but you don't have too much of a burden, it's wrong for you to think she's hanging on both sides, but everyone has the right to pursue happiness and choose happiness. Her actions didn't affect you, so you shouldn't have too much pressure. But you can choose to find an opportunity to talk to her calmly and understand her thoughts.
Some say that Jia Baoyu is the stone, some say that Jia Baoyu is the incarnation of the messenger of Shenying, and even say that Jia Baoyu is the form of the god of both, the body is the messenger of Shenying, and the soul is the ...... of the stoneI am more inclined to the stone is a bystander who accompanies the envoy of the gods and the fairy of the pearl to walk in the mortal world, and travels through a wisp of dreams in the red dust. Like the author Cao Gong himself, he was born in a (nearly) powerful family, and he neither fought for it nor was he greedy to keep it. He felt that he just happened to appear, the witness of this human dream that had already arranged various characters, and was just a passer-by in the world. >>>More