Why do you like someone and still like her after breaking up?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because I haven't forgotten it, after all, I loved it so much, like the deepest part of my heart, every memory with her will remain in my heart, even in a world without her, everything around her will become related to her, and everyone will associate it with her. Even if you break up, it's only because of other reasons (I don't know the reason) Not that you don't have him in your heart So you will still like her It may be that you love her deeply but you don't know or like her has become your habit Whether you want to start again depends on your own plans After all, love is a matter between two people Maybe time will make your feeling of liking fade But after all, if you have loved each other, you will not have no feeling at all Unless there are impurities in the previous love So I hope you can Choose a good choice Nostalgia may be beautiful But the lost love, the mutilated alas, is not a work of art As long as you love with your heart, then no matter what love becomes, it will be very beautiful, especially the kind of secret love that can't be called love, it is also a very beautiful work of art, but it will often change beyond that stage Love is not the result But the reason why the Titanic is touching is also that it disappeared at the most beautiful moment of love If the boat port meets the iceberg, the story will continue I believe that without the original touching, it will not become a masterpiece of love. So if you feel like you're completely in love, you don't need to do any embellishment, you don't need to think about the outcome, but it will bind your mind, and the beauty of love may fade away.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because you still love her, you can't let go of her. You have two choices: 1. Let them go, 2. Go and force her to come.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because you like it. I'm sad because I'm a little jealous. If she's happier, bless her. If you're not happy, grab it back.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Many people find out that they still like each other after breaking up, why do many people still like each other after breaking up? Actually, it's a number of psychological factors at work. Of course, it is not excluded that you really still like it.

    However, since you have chosen to break up, you must learn to let go.

    1. Cherish when you lose

    People are very amazing animals, and when they have them, they have no sense of crisis and do not know how to cherish them. It wasn't until I lost it that I realized that I liked it so much. The same is true for relationships, especially the person who took the initiative to break up, I thought there was no love between me and her, but I didn't expect that after the breakup, I would be so sad and still love her.

    2. The desire to conquer

    Actually, sometimes after a breakup, you feel like you still like each other. This may be because of the desire to conquer, especially if the other person proposes to break up. If this is the case, because you can't keep the other person, you will doubt yourself, and at the same time you will also regard this unwillingness as liking, in fact, there may not be many liking elements in it, more unwillingness, more of your possessiveness towards the other party.

    3. Withdrawal reaction

    There is a study that shows that when you are rejected by someone, or when you are broken up, you will find that you are very fond of the other person. This is a relatively normal psychological reaction and a manifestation of withdrawal reaction. Some people have this kind of behavior when they break up, some for a long time, and some for a shorter period of time.

    Breaking up will make you feel that your possessions have been taken away and your life is incomplete, so you will think that it is love.

    Some people can't get out of it for a long time after a breakup, mainly because of the above reasons, and sometimes it may not be because you still like the other person. Since you have broken up, then choose to let go, and if you want to get rid of this thought, you need to completely remove the other person from your life and stop keeping things related to the other person. At the same time, you also have to start over, don't reject the pursuit of others, and you also have to start a new relationship.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the other party has clearly broken up with you and doesn't want to reconcile with you. That person really just doesn't want to be with you anymore. Don't think that the other party still cares about you from some clues, and you still want to redeem it.

    Emotions are one of the most difficult things for people to control, especially the emotions of longing. If they don't look for you, they really don't want to look for you. They don't really like you that much at all.

    In fact, many of us are immersed in our own world. I feel how much I have given to you, how much I have paid for this relationship, how great I am. At the same time, I want you to give back to me in the same way.

    In fact, you don't know what the other person's demands are, and you will focus your life on this person. Ta's joys, sorrows, and sorrows directly determine how well or badly you have today, and your mind is full of ta, which will make both people tired, and the person you love will also feel very stressed. In fact, they just want two people to be together happily, rather than needing you to be around them every day.

    Tell them every day how much I love you and how much I care about you. If you really love someone, will the other person not feel it?

    To summarize the reasons for the breakup, there are the following points, when a person who loves you deeply suddenly proposes to break up with you, then he may be particularly disappointed in you.

    When a person who loves you deeply feels that there is no future with you, then he may also break up with you suddenly.

    Some families are very particular about "the right door".

    Even if the person who loves you deeply suddenly says to break up, then it may be because he feels that you can't give him the future he wants, that you are not motivated enough, and that you are not working hard enough, or it may be because he is particularly disappointed in you, because you have neglected him for a long time, he feels that there is no need to continue talking.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

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    After the girl broke up, she said that she would like a lot of people in the future, and the teacher felt that she was giving up on herself, and she might be hurt by the breakup, so she would have this thought, a bit of revenge.

    After the girl broke up, she said that you would like a lot of people in the future.

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    Good morning [holding the mold hand], after the girl broke up, she said that she would like a lot of people in the future, and the teacher felt that she was giving up on herself, but Chun Xuan could be hurt by the breakup comparison, so she would have this thought, a bit of a revenge mentality.

    Ordinary girls have this kind of thought, which means that she doesn't care about herself anymore, she gives up on herself, and she has no sense of trust in other chain scumbags, so he will like a lot of shacks, and he also has a bit of revenge.

    Is the girl who was broken up, the one who was dumped? Generally if she is dumped, she is greatly hurt in her heart, and her self-esteem is also greatly hurt, and she doesn't have much trust in her feelings.

    How to reply to it.

    You can reply like this: For example, don't give up on yourself, life is beautiful, don't indulge yourself like that.

    If you're just friends, you can add that there are better boys waiting for you.

    It's normal to break up and break up, no one's relationship is smooth sailing, I hope you can see it and figure it out.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Definitely don't think so, because having such a thought is completely lying to yourself, it's better to face the reality, if the other party really likes me, he will never break up with me, because no one is willing to make their lover sad.

    When everyone is in love, they may encounter a breakup, but when they break up, everyone's thoughts are different, some people will be particularly decisive, and some people will be particularly hesitant, because she still likes each other very much, she feels that the other party likes herself very much, in fact, this is just an idea to deceive yourself, if a person really loves you, he will never say the word breakup, when he mentions breaking up with you, he has thought very clearly in his heart, when he breaks up with you, when he breaks up with you, He just informed you that it is impossible for this kind of person to turn back, so in the face of this situation, there is no need to be too humble, even if you break up, face it calmly, live your life well, the world is so big, there are many people, you can also meet better people, there is no need to waste time with the person who lost you, everyone's youth is limited, you must grasp it.

    There may be people who are particularly unwilling when they break up, and will find all kinds of ways to redeem each other, in fact, this is just their own struggle, you do this, but it makes the other party more determined to break up with you, I am a very indifferent person, for the breakup, I see it very clearly, you must say goodbye to the breakup, even if you feel that the other party still likes you, you don't need to be particularly humble, if he really loves you, after losing you, he will come to you again, If you don't look for you, it means that he really doesn't love you, if you have been humbly trying to redeem the other party, you think you love him very much, but the other party will feel particularly bored.

    Whether it's a boy or a girl, when you break up, the first thing to ask yourself is, do you still like him? Ask yourself, how would you spend your life without him? If you have everything you think about, then choose to break up, because the relationship is not easy, don't easily say the breakup, if you say you broke up, say goodbye.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After the breakup, I don't think about whether the other party will still like me, I will let myself get out of the haze of the breakup faster.

    After all, you still have to be very decisive and dedicated in the relationship, like is like, dislike is not like, break up when you break up, don't hesitate.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Yes. I wonder if the other person still likes me. I still hope that my image in the other party's heart is better.

    First, the soul is not in the state, second, there is no goal in life, and there is no confidence in life, and third, there is no desire to associate with people. You should divert your attention, cultivate more hobbies, and get out quickly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you break up, you may want the other party to like you, but there is no way to do this kind of thing, and sometimes it is affected by many factors!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you break up, will you think that the other party still likes yourself, of course, when you break up, you still don't want to admit that the other party doesn't love you anymore, you must think that the other party still likes yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think like this, because I think that if two people have broken up, it means that two people have no feelings for each other, so I won't think about such a problem.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, it won't. Because I already saw his heart when I was in love with him, he was full of disgust with me and did a lot of things to hurt me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I shouldn't think so, because if he doesn't go to you if he breaks up today, he has already let go, so he won't think like this.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When you break up, you may feel that the other party still likes you, or you may feel that the other party doesn't like you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I would have thought so when I broke up, because after all, two people have gotten along and must still like themselves.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I would definitely like to, because no one will suddenly accept a breakup, and I will definitely think that he still likes me, why did he choose to break up with me? Sometimes a lot of things just don't work out.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There's no need to think so much after the breakup, each of them is on a sunny day, and let him go in the past.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When we break up, I may think that the other person still likes me, but it is useless to think about these things at this time. Anyway, since he has come to the point of breaking up, it doesn't matter if he thinks about himself or not. And if it was a breakup, I shouldn't think so.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When I broke up, I didn't think that the other party still liked me, because I felt that since the two people no longer had feelings, the breakup was inevitable, and he would no longer like me.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After the breakup, I think to be honest, for this kind of thinking about the other party, I think to be honest, I still think about the other party, and the other party brings himself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think about it, and I'm angry for a while. There's a sense of carelessness.

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