What should you do when you meet such a friend?

I've been in this situation too, but it's not my classmates and friends, it's my husband's, and I'm also disgusted.

In fact, everyone is very good, but in reality, some things are difficult to say, and it is easy to say what he knows;

I'm afraid, the kind of fool who pretends to be stupid, isn't it?

You don't have to worry, work together!

Explain the reality to him clearly, he will understand, and he will not be unreasonable.

You tell me? It's best this way, it doesn't hurt feelings.

Otherwise, it's yourself who is uncomfortable.

What do you think?

took out the savings and showed her the savings, and said sincerely: "Look, I don't have much money here, and others who don't know still think that we are a small couple." I didn't even dare to find my girlfriend.

Hehe, kidding. You see, I'm running a miserable business now, and I don't care if I'm hungry, if I get sick, if you get sick, won't your work be even more distant? What do you think? ”

You might as well tell her the truth, it's not easy for everyone to work hard outside, and she should understand you.

Or make an excuse and say that you have something to do at home and need money, that you have to go home, so that she will definitely not live in your house again.

I think first of all, you should think about what your relationship is really like???

Is it a friend of life and death? Bosom friend? Ordinary friends? Fellow?

Two fellows came to my house that night, and he said to me at that time: I borrowed 500 yuan from you today, you may be able to borrow it as a friend, and tomorrow he will borrow 500 from you, but you only have 499, you can say that it is not enough, and the day after tomorrow he borrows 500 from you, maybe you will say no. This is a very realistic example, of course, the friend of life and death, the confidant is not in the second time, he has been in your house for 1 month, and he is still preparing to find a job next year, and you are also unemployed!

Can't he see the embarrassment of the bundle now? In a way like yours, your friends are nothing more than friends of wine and meat!!

Where to go, I don't think I need to do it anymore! directly asked him to find a job, which should have been a bit difficult for him and him to live now.

Can you still call it friendship, don't deceive yourself, you must be very good-tempered, so she dares to treat you like this and tell her to leave

Get a job with her.

This is not a friend, a real friend will know to understand you, talk to her directly, and maintain a friendship.

Let's make an appointment to find a job.

If you treat him as a friend, it is naturally difficult to ask for this money, after all, it is easy to take other people's hands and eat other people's soft mouths; You may be calculating this account in your heart: if a friend eats a few times, the cost of your meal will not exceed 600 yuan; You are unwilling now, and you regret it!

This is the routine, and it is also the so-called social experience; From the beginning, I asked you again and again, and I planned to borrow money today, and the amount was not too much or no less, and I vomited out all your food and drink, and there was still some surplus!

I believe that he also borrowed money from other people, and taking a circle is equivalent to him making a game, and everyone helped him carry the sedan chair! When I invited you to dinner, it was nothing more than a matter of more than more pairs of chopsticks!

Of course, the money can be returned, after all, nominally he borrowed it from you; Even if he pays back the money, it will inevitably complain that you can't be a man!

Now, weigh it yourself: is your so-called affection important, or is the 600 yuan important? Do you want to be together in the future? The key is that you have to recognize this friend's character, is it worth making a deep friendship?

Maybe I'm a gentleman with the heart of a villain, maybe he'll pay you back in two days; Good night, good dreams!

Such a friend is very unreliable, I guess he has been playing with other people's money, you have to remind him that it's time to pay back, and his brother is still settling accounts, what are you afraid of.

The villain intersects with honey and mixes oil; Gentlemen intersect and send charcoal in the snow.

Such friends still have less care and less contact.

Well, in fact, friends don't have to be like him. A true friend should possess the following qualities:

1.Distinguish between right and wrong, and will not support, let alone instigate, his friends to do illegal and criminal things. If you do that, not only will you be punished by the law, but even your friends will be affected.

All friends must be cautious and choose well. Making the wrong friend will be lost for life.

2.Insist on justice, and when your friends are hurt by bad people, they will stand up and stand with their friends. This speaks volumes about the importance of a friend's character. What's the use of making friends like that if something goes wrong with a person's character?

3.Knowing distance, true friends will not treat their friends as private property, but will leave their own time and space for their friends. It's easy to understand this, think about your family, your own parents, your own siblings, it's not like you're together all day, right?

When talking about love, it is often said that distance produces beauty. The same is true when it comes to making friends. It is absolutely wrong to use the excuse of a friend to blackmail your friend.

Because friends are not the second you, friends also have their own lives.

If you understand these three points, you will make real friends, good luck!

A friend is definitely not a person who annoys himself, and when the so-called "friend" makes him feel annoyed, there are already cracks in the friendship. One is a clingy person, and the other doesn't like clingy people. If you care about the friend's friendship, take the initiative to keep your distance and tell him what you want to do on your own.

If he can grow up, he will be your best friend for life. If he doesn't grow in your way, your friendship will break down, and he won't be the right friend for you. It's not because you have different personalities, it's that he doesn't know how to grow up, but it will only affect your steps.

Don't make such a friend, because he is unworthy, and friends must tolerate each other and not hurt each other.

A lifetime is not long.

Don't grieve yourself.

There is no shortage of friends in this society.

If your friends are gone, you can look for them again.

As for the rest. Be yourself!

You can accommodate your friends appropriately, but you can't lose yourself.

You also have to be selective and divided with friends, isn't it?

I'm always accommodating to my friends, but it's all small things, and if you don't get along in big things, you still forget it, and it's uncomfortable to accommodate others.

It's been like you're tired and disgusted now.

Do you know what friend means? It is a person who can say [confidant, chat, understand you, tolerate each other, make you feel safe, and will not let you be lonely. Shi You: A friend who is loyal and loyal.

Dead Friends Friends who have deep friendships and will not lose each other until death.

Best Friends A close friend.

Suyou: Sincere and simple friends.

Friends who are not thinking about themselves (responsible).

Friends who are honest and straightforward. You can see what kind of person she belongs to, only how tolerant can you make true friends, if you think she has done the above, congratulations, you have a high index of eternity. Your friend is jealous that you don't admit that you are better than her, and everyone will have a little bit of it.

Besides, you are better than her anyway, you don't need to care, if she is stronger than you, you should not be jealous, you should congratulate her from the bottom of your heart. If this happens, you can say, "Can we not talk about this?"

You speak a little hurtfully. Then he digressed from the subject. And I'm curious, how do you get involved with whom?

If you are unwilling for your friend not to admit that you are better than her, don't worry about it, think of something happy, and you will forget it immediately. That's how I am, and sometimes that's the case.

Let it be ... There aren't so many people in life who will understand you because she's not you.

The so-called dating, everything will be a "too much".

You are a very enthusiastic person and a very sincere person, but it is possible that because of experience, you are not very good at communicating.

Everyone needs private space, and you have already "passed" by waking someone up every day. He may have been annoyed, just didn't have a seizure.

This birthday, we would like to think that he forgot it unintentionally, but how likely do you think it is, basically not. In other words, he deliberately didn't call you and wanted to distance himself from you.

You can imagine the details of your relationship, especially the other one of the three of you, see how he did it, and compare it to yourself.

Don't question someone, don't mention it, and don't wake him up. It's cold for a while, if he wants to be friends with you, he will naturally take the initiative to find you.

Also, people should not bind themselves to their social circles, but try to socialize with more people.

I don't dare to suggest it according to your narrative! Is there any friction between you? Also, did you bless him on his birthday? Besides, is it possible that someone is trying to stir up a relationship between you?

And you ask him if you think of me as a friend.