How to develop patience How to develop patience in children?

The main thing is that I want to be very patient in my heart, and I am not in a hurry to do anything, no matter what others do, I will never be in a hurry, and I will slowly cultivate into a patient person.

First, less doting, many parents in the child encountered difficulties or do not do well when began to feel distressed, and even some parents simply help their children deal with these difficulties, this behavior makes the child's psychology breed a kind of dependence psychology, dependence will lead to a person impetuous, if you encounter tricky things in the future can not be handled, but because you usually rely too much on the help of parents to start impetuous, no patience, so parents should be less doting, so that children in the face of difficulties to find their own way to solve, cultivate patience.

Second, more tribulations. The ordeal here is to create more difficulties for the child, such as when puzzles, give the child some difficulty increases, so that he can slowly overcome all kinds of difficulties in the game and hone his willpower, only in a difficult environment is it easy to cultivate the child's patience.

3. More encouragement. Some children will give up halfway because of one or two blows, start to complain that the game is not fun, and start to complain that they have mishandled things, parents should give their children more encouragement, so that children know that there is no difficulty that cannot be passed, this kind of encouragement is very necessary, and it is also an important way to promote children to learn patience.

Fourth, parents must let their children understand that patience and perseverance are the secret of success. Let your child do more small things like washing dishes, cleaning tables, cleaning rooms, etc. At first, the children will be careless and want to play, and parents should urge the children to do their work until the dishes are clean, the dining table is cleaned, and the room is cleaned up.

My happiest years were when I was very young, when I was four or five years old. At that time, I didn't go to school, my brother went to school, my grandmother went to work, and my parents went out to work, so I stayed home alone. I should be a precocious child, I can think about a lot of things at that time, I was very well-behaved at that time, basically my grandmother let me stay in **, I can stay in that place all day, and I don't cry.

I still have memories of watching small insects, playing with flowers and grass, and playing with mud in the yard every day. Talking to myself, I didn't get bored at all. Now I feel like I should have been immersed in my own world and enjoyed it.

So, I like to be alone now, I enjoy being alone to do what I like, and I especially like flowers and plants, I have never had too many expectations for others, and I have long understood that most of life is spent alone (at least most of the time the spirit is lonely). Although, perhaps, that time created a quiet me, not suitable for the current impetuous society (to be very lively and outgoing), I am still grateful for that time. Now you have to deliberately behave lively, although it consumes a bit of energy, but it is not a big problem.

Does your child have this as well? He is very anxious, and when his wishes are not satisfied, he begins to cry, and even rolls around, and his mouth becomes a repeater, which is unavoidable. Did you continue to insist or did you choose to compromise?

Professor Li Meijin said that we need to cultivate children's patience, and children without patience will have problems when they grow up. In social life, many of our things cannot be achieved immediately, a person cannot do great things without patience, and waiting is a very important quality.

How to develop patience in your child.

1. Kind and firm persistence.

Professor Li Meijin said, Say no to your child at the age of three, at this time he will be too big to roll for you, you don't want to talk about it after the age of 12, and then he will run away from home if you say it at that time.

When your child makes unreasonable demands, say no kindly and firmly. Don't shake him when he rolls, watch him quietly, let him vent, and when he calms down, tell him well, you love him, but love is also principled, and then, explain to the child why not. Children are usually able to calm down.

2. Guide children to learn to wait.

The Crooked Rabbit series has a picture book "The Waiting Gift Box of the Artifact". It is probably said that Wei Weilong likes to eat chocolate very much, and if there is a chocolate, it must be eaten immediately, and it cannot wait for a moment. One day, Dad brought him back a gift box and told him how he was willing to wait a week and there would be delicious chocolate inside, otherwise, the chocolate inside would program stones.

I read this picture book with my son, who is over 4 years old.

Son, I like the lollipop of an animal head in the cake shop very much, and I must buy it every time I go and eat it immediately. Once, he coughed and was not suitable for sugar, and I said, if you are willing to wait until you are well to eat. I'll buy you your favorite strawberry flavored ice cream.

Although he was not very willing, he chose to wait.

Later, when he got better, I bought him ice cream and he was very happy.

After that, I waited in such a way that he waited for something good to happen. Gradually, he began to eat in moderation.

On the road of life, not everything can go your way, not everything can be immediately effective, cultivate children's patience, but also cultivate children's minds, and cultivate children's endurance and coping ability to face difficulties and setbacks in the future.

1. Learning: Learning is a thing that can benefit people a lot, and at the same time, it can effectively cultivate one's patience and perseverance. You may encounter some difficulties in learning, but you can develop good patience by solving problems.

2. Have enthusiasm: To do anything, you need to have a certain enthusiasm. You can try to do something that you are interested in, mainly to see if you have persistence, and after a long time, you will develop good patience.

1. Learning: Learning is a thing that can benefit people a lot, and at the same time, it can effectively cultivate one's patience and perseverance. You may encounter some difficulties in learning, but you can develop good patience by solving problems.

2. Have enthusiasm: To do anything, you need to have a certain enthusiasm. You can try to do something that interests you, mainly to see if you have persistence, and over time, you will develop good patience.

3. Reading: Reading can give people a beautiful experience, from which they can understand and think about some wise philosophies of life, and can guide them to cultivate their patience.

4. Drawing: As we all know, it takes a long time to paint a painting that you are satisfied with, and painting is a very test of care and patience, so you can improve your patience by drawing.

5. Practicing calligraphy: Practicing calligraphy requires calmness, and every stroke must be cautious, which requires patience to persevere, and practicing calligraphy can cultivate one's self-cultivation. In your spare time, you can also improve your patience by practicing calligraphy.