I feel very lost and powerless about the road ahead and life. Ask for advice

Learn a skill, have a stable job, pay back all the money you owe to ensure a stable life at home, and then come out and work hard. With your wife's constant support and a stable rear, what are you afraid of?

As long as you have passion, you believe that nothing can't be done, but remember to find the right direction. Confusion is something that everyone encounters, but remember what your goal is, if you can't find it, at least know that you should make your parents, wives and children live better, then work hard to make money.

I have always believed that what affects a person's life is not academic qualifications, but personality and attitude", here you are half right, academic qualifications are knowledge, knowledge is technology, there is technology, there is strength, there is strength to do things. Character and attitude are virtues, and morality is an aid to promote and consolidate results, and morality can fill the lack of academic qualifications.

Since you know the importance of character and attitude, that is, the importance of morality, let's first change the phrase "old things" to "elders". This can start from respect, respect is filial piety, all filial piety first, filial piety must have wealth.

I can only say that I am the same age as you, but I am still married, you say who is more confused, everyone has their own troubles, but not every trouble has a good way to solve, can only pick but the most suitable way to solve! I'm not sure if I'll regret it in the future, so follow your own heart, as long as the starting point is good, I think your approach and your results should be better! Be happy.

How to say it, a man should have backbone and perseverance. It doesn't matter if you don't have culture, but you have to have confidence, perseverance, and goals. You also said that you still have a wife and children to raise, who will help you if you don't work hard?

First of all, I think you have to find a job that you can do, and you like, or don't hate, and then use dim sum to do it, stick to it for a few years, and when you have work experience and capital, maybe you are also a boss. Sincerely, the gold and stone are open. Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi?

As long as you work hard, as long as you persevere, as long as you walk straight towards the goal. When the time comes, you can also live in a bungalow, drive a sports car, have your own employees, and have your own career.

Blowing the wind, Cao Ge, do some clever ways to make money, arrange something for the family, and everyone work together.

This is normal, as the saying goes, 30 is not confused, which means that the experience of life is slowly accumulated over time. No one will know what the future holds, that is to say, no one is not confused, it doesn't matter if you are confused, the key is that you have to understand what you want to do? Determine the goal and try bravely, go more, try more, slowly the road will come out, and life will not be confused.

Because there is no goal, set a goal for yourself in life, and only when you have a goal can you be clear about your future.

Because you haven't planned your future before, you feel lost now.

Because I don't have an accurate goal, I don't know how to go on the road ahead.

Since there is no life plan, it is recommended that you first set a small goal and then make a specific plan.

I think it's because you don't have a goal in mind, you don't have a plan, you don't know what you're going to do.

You don't have a plan for the future when you feel lost, and you don't know what your future holds.

You will feel lost because you have not found the right direction to strive for.

Because you don't have a goal for your future life, and then you don't have the motivation to work hard.

Because you don't have a clear goal, you can make a plan yourself.

1 All your questions embody a few points:

1. You said that you have to be more sophisticated, proving that your life is more tempered, life pressure is greater, the current social environment, family environment, learning and love environment will have a great impact on children, but in this process, the most important thing is to adjust the mentality, optimistic, at your age, it is not interesting to go to school, good grades are not the only good standard, to exercise more, all-round development.

2. You think that you have learned well but you do not play well on the spot, which proves that you are too nervous, and it is helpful to relax your mood by setting off appropriately, and using the weekend to climb mountains, play ball, and get together with classmates and family members to chat will help to regulate your spirit.

3. I can understand what you say about falling the jar, not being strong, not having perseverance, not being able to learn, and having pressure in life, but you are still relatively young, these things can be overcome, there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts, talk about yourself becoming stronger, no matter what the outcome, you will not regret your own efforts, which has no pressure, officials, businessmen, and farmers all have their own pressure, learn to be honest and relative, so that your life will be more exciting with your progress!

Hello classmates. Since you are still a junior high school student, you are still very young and your learning prospects are still very ambitious. When I was in junior high school, I started in the second and third years of junior high school, and my grades in the first year of junior high school were simply unimpressive.

Don't like to talk doesn't mean anything, often some people can counterattack the situation, as long as you can really calm down, don't pay too much attention to the test results, you feel that you have played to your due ability is enough, the missing part should be carefully summarized, the place to improve must be left awake, the part worth deepening the impression should be recorded with notes, guard against arrogance and dryness, maintain a modest attitude, usually learn more from others, and ask if you don't understand.

I'm also in the third year of junior high school, and I'm about to take the high school entrance exam, but I don't have any pressure at all... Don't oppress yourself People have different talents Maybe you are not learning this piece of material, but you can do other things well Believe in yourself Learning is not necessarily the only way out We teachers often say this because our education system acquiesces to this wrong view But you have to know that everyone is born with their own meaning You have to find your own direction in order to have the motivation to persevere. It's not a bad way to fall in love, haha, but you must like the right person, the right person will not only reduce your stress, bring you a sense of ease, but also guide you, motivate you, and make you a better version of yourself

It's only the third year of junior high school, and it's sentimental......It's not simple, it's a rural family, and the family conditions are not very good, right? It's okay......It's not that you have to study to have ......a way outIt is better to read 10,000 books than to travel 10,000 miles, and it is better to read countless ...... than to read 10,000 booksReading countless people is not as good as a famous teacher to guide the way, and a famous teacher is not as good as understanding the ...... yourselfThere is no need to hang ...... from a treeFlexibility is the last word......Not the descendants of the rich ......Then be the ancestor ...... of the richIf you don't fight for yourself......When are you fighting? Ninety percent of people your age are busy in love?

Where is there time to think about all these tedious things in life? Your consciousness, thoughts, and vision are ...... ahead of othersThat's where your advantage ......

First calm down and carefully sort out your emotions, whether it is the problem of perseverance or the problem of method that hinders the pace of progress, and then you can prescribe the right medicine. If it's a problem with learning methods, you can ask teachers or classmates for help, but if it's a matter of perseverance, you can only change yourself to be effective.

Pluck up the courage to talk to your parents or teachers about your confusion, let them sort it out for you, and say it will be easier to reduce stress! Find anyone online! You have to have courage! (^v^)

Find a girl who studies well to fall in love, exercise EQ and IQ by the way.

You have to relax your mind, sister, I'm in my third year of high school now, I'm tired every day, and I'm also from your stage, I understand how tired you are, you usually work hard enough, but your grades are not good enough in the exam is really a very shocking thing. But you must know that we live and we study, not because we have much achievement, but so that we will not regret it in the future. Not all hard work will pay off, but if you try, you won't complain about who you are now when you are thirty or forty.

You can ask this question, which is very good, it shows that you are actually a very motivated child, so if you feel any pressure in your daily life, you can tell your sister that I am a stranger but I will be a good listener. My buckle 754060010. Finally, I wish you a good result in the high school entrance examination.

In fact, no matter what you do, you must first be able to support yourself, your parents are worried about your future life, and which parents don't want their children to be able to support themselves.

As long as we earn money by our own ability, it is all good, which means that we have matured and grown up, we can support ourselves, no longer rely on our parents, and we will not gnaw at the old.

When we are young, we have many assumptions, we don't know what we will do or what we can do, but no matter which job we choose, we have to do it to the best of our ability, these are all things that we are accumulating work experience, whether we continue or change jobs.

If you do a good job in front of you now, you will find that you have a lot of potential that has been tapped and increase your confidence.

If you feel lost about the road ahead, don't stop and keep walking!

Thinking of this, I feel that I really need to fight hard, persevere, and the most important thing is to persevere. Even in the 1000 meters, in the last few hundred meters, in the face of the limit of physical strength, you must persevere, do not stop walking, even if you are jogging very slowly, do not stop your steps! With this belief, I went to the playground every morning for the last few days to run 4 laps and insisted on not walking!

In the afternoon, after school, I ran 4 laps before going home. In this way, day by day, my score has also improved a lot, from 4 minutes to 3 points 55, then to 3 points 50, 3 points 45, and finally to 3 points 38! I remember these data very clearly, and the feeling of my progress in the mock test again and again, and finally crossing the finish line with a full score, is really great!

The previous confusion has long been forgotten and forgotten, but it is the joy and satisfaction of the full score that I will always remember in this life!

If you feel lost, then take a few extra steps, for a better future, nothing is not worth trying, as long as you persevere, you will definitely see hope!

People are always at the crossroads of choice, but we also know that many people have a phobia of choice, often have no clue about some choices to make in the future, have no way, are afraid to choose, and even do not know how to choose, resulting in a very confused future life path, not knowing what to do.

If it's me, first of all, I don't choose phobia, if it's the answer I identify, the choice I identify is that is that, I won't change anymore, and I won't be confused anymore, if there is something I can't make up my mind, I will find a more experienced and educated senior, let him know how to go in the future, after all, the predecessor also came from your time, and you have some worries about his original time. He should give you a good piece of advice.

In fact, when facing some very important decisions in life, I am not sure of my idea, at this time I will discuss the pros and cons of things with my teachers or my relatives, that is, the kind of people who are more knowledgeable, so as to make a choice, because after you analyze the pros and cons of things, you will have an overall grasp of the choice of this matter, so as not to say how much harm you will do to you in this choice, people generally seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and I am also like this.

If you are confused about the future, don't be upset, but to find a solution, so that you can take the right path of life, if you are in a hurry, but do not care about the serious analysis of the pros and cons of things. If you are really anxious about this matter, I think you might as well put down everything and go on a long trip, during the trip, you will think about a lot of questions, so that the pros and cons of things will come out unconsciously, and it will also relieve your pressure to a certain extent, so that you can kill two birds with one stone, it is not bad.

And if you don't make a good choice, don't act rashly, don't make any foolish or anxious choices, because those are irrational behaviors, sometimes your life will have a variety of results because of your small choice, so in dealing with the fork in the road of life, you need to be careful and careful with analytical choices, so as to make your life more complete.

When the future is uncertain, I will choose to touch the nail, you don't have to be surprised, just touch the nail. Because when they are confused, many people will stop their steps and do not continue to move forward, because they do not know how to walk. But I won't.

When I'm confused, I'll go. I don't know which way to go, so I just choose one to take, it may be wrong, and I may hit a nail. But when you come back after hitting the nail, you should have an experience.

When you have walked a lot, you will naturally know which way you should go, and you will not be confused.

I used to be at home when I was most confused, like most people, and I couldn't come out. Because I don't know what I can do when I come out. My friend kept telling me to come out.

I refused again and again. It's like being able to wait at home until pie falls from the sky. As it turned out, there was no pie for me to eat.

And I'm wasting a lot of time at home.

It wasn't until later that I couldn't bear to be mediocre, unwilling to be lonely, and finally mustered up the courage to come out. But standing at the crossroads of the city, I don't know where to go. It's really confusing.

No one can help much. In the end, it's not a family job search. A detour, a detour.

I hit a lot of nails and suffered a lot, but in the end, I still walked out of my own way. There was no road in this world, but when there were many people walking, the road came out.

Try it when you're confused, try what you haven't tried, and you can only get what you've never gotten until you've experienced something you've never experienced. Any successful person is hit by a nail step by step.

So when you are confused, go and touch the nails, don't be afraid of the pain, there will be a right path that belongs to you.