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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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What you have given and then what you want.
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Well, that's up to you.
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1.First, express gratitude. Regardless of whether the gift is in line with your heart, you should thank the other person for their intentions and practical actions.
Gift is a way to express emotion, behind which contains silent dedication and love, we should hold a grateful heart to erect a tomb to accept it.
2.If possible, try to understand the other person's intentions. In fact, everyone has their own logic and reference standards when choosing and giving gifts, and perhaps gifts that are not practical in our eyes have their own special meaning and value in the eyes of the other party.
So, why not try to look at it from a different perspective?
3.If it really doesn't meet your needs, you can euphemistically say what you think. A gift is a way to express emotion, but it is not the same as a discretionary item.
When the gift is contrary to your actual needs, you can express it euphemistically, explain your actual needs, or make corresponding suggestions, so that you can really achieve the purpose of giving gifts - to make the other person happy.
4.Not all gifts need to be kept, but be mindful of how gifts are handled. If we feel that the gift is really not what we want, we should not let it go to waste or dispose of it casually.
Consider putting it away and giving it to someone in need, or giving it to someone else when appropriate. When handling gifts, you should show respect for the gift and your own good qualities.
5.In the end, gifts are just a tool for conveying affection, and the ultimate purpose of gift-giving is to maintain and strengthen the relationship with each other. When accepting and handling gifts, we need to grasp a tone that can not only retain our own dignity and feelings, but also respect the hearts and minds of others.
It is an attitude in which both parties work together to maintain interpersonal relationships, and it is also needed in modern society.
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