Should I be obsessed with finding reasons to break up that no longer make sense to me?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-15
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you say that you went to Inner Mongolia to find him, do you want to solve the doubts in your heart, or do you want to give up everything in Beijing and go with him? In fact, it should not be, whether it is worth it or not only you know, from the perspective of a friend, you will only be persuaded to let go, let time dilute all this, but the feelings between you can only be experienced, and the pain can only be borne by yourself, and your friends can not help you share it A person's changes are unpredictable, no matter how they change, ask yourself what you need, if there are doubts in your heart, then ask for leave to find answers No matter what decisions you make, the result is your own responsibility, so other people's opinions are not importantThe key is in your own heart. After two years together, a relationship ended in such an unclear way, maybe when you look back in the future, you will still be unwilling, and even feel regretful, so I think if the reality conditions have this opportunity for you to find the answer, just go!

    Even if you know the truth that makes you hurt a lot, at least you can let go, you won't feel that giving up is a pity, and you will be very calm to find your next happiness after untying the knot.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the man says he wants to break up and immediately separates.

    It means that he doesn't love you anymore, and finding a reason is embarrassing himself.

    Men are different from women, women say that there is still a chance to break up, and men have no chance if they want to break up.

    This is the truth, the truth that has not changed for thousands of years.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since you said it yourself doesn't make any sense, then why force it? Feelings need to be cherished by two people, the other party doesn't care about you, they can find a reason to perfunctory you, and they can't wait to break up, so why let themselves be entangled and linger for a long time? Be kind to yourself, love yourself and others will love you more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Read more, write more, practice more.

    Skill comes from practice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Listen to more English tapes, and if you don't want to listen to them, you can study hard in class!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My personal look at Farha, you.

    You can refer to the following.

    Want to ask if you have a crush?

    If she knows that she has rejected you, I think you have two more paths, one is to continue to chase her, and the other is to meet the life of the freshman year, make yourself excellent, and meet a better young lady in the future.

    If she doesn't know, you can try to confess to her and see how she reacts, after graduating from high school, she went to schools everywhere, can you withstand a long-distance relationship?

    If it's a fruitless relationship, it's better to focus on studying first and make yourself excellent.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    At the end of high school, there is no contact, there is no need to have illusions, you are an ordinary person, if you are rich and handsome, you can still be rescued.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It shouldn't be, unless the two of you are really in love with each other, you can consider it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should continue to love, if she also has feelings for you, it is better, two people will go through a lot of ups and downs in the end, and there are a few people who have never broken up, but if you are very sure that she does not have you in her heart, then you should try to give up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Why shouldn't it? Girls shouldn't have boyfriends, right? True love is not easy, do it and cherish it! Heart-pounding sensations are hard to come by! We recommend that you continue to enjoy it! (Except that the distance between the two parties is too far, and the long-distance relationship is too hard).

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Depending on what you say, it's probably a crush. Then confess first, and only after confessing will you know if you have a chance to continue. If you don't confess, then how can you be sure if she likes i too?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you like it, confess it, otherwise you will regret it for the rest of your life if you miss it, be brave, so that even if you don't succeed, you won't let yourself miss out on this relationship, take advantage of it, I'm optimistic about you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Go with the feeling. Sometimes fate has to be fought for by yourself. Let go and lose.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you're in the same city, go find her.

    Two people chat together and develop a relationship.

    If you feel like there is a drama, then hurry up and confess.

    If it's not in the same city right now, then it won't work.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Ask her about her current situation first, do you still know it, or do you continue to like it? If you're still single, confess it directly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Go confess! Fight for the only chance you have, and maybe there will be a turnaround!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Thanks to the teachers.

    On the road of growth, the teacher is your first teaching director, if you do not have the teacher's care, without the teacher's teaching, without the teacher's emotion, you will no longer be able to become a person with strength for the country in the city.

    The teacher is like a candle, pointing out the direction of progress for us, guiding us on the way forwardThe teacher is the best person in the world for you, he knows your parents better than your emotions, and the teacher's learning and father's learning are better.

    Teachers, like street lamps, guide us on the way forward and open up a happy future for us. What do you think? Without it, teacher, you will not have the knowledge and brains, and you will definitely do bad things in the world.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A lot of times, when we don't think that way, but we can't control ourselves and say the opposite, it's because we're too attached to our self-esteem, or because we're all used to duplicity

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should go, if you like her, you have to fight for it, hurry up and hurry up right away!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about what I once had. Don't let yourself feel sorry in the future, at least you have been confined to fight for it and paid it! Adopt it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't feel like I care about eternity, I only care about what I once had, don't let myself have regrets, maybe you can't get it in the end, but I'd rather be miserable now, don't let yourself regret it for a lifetime, be bold and rest assured to love, maybe it may be your own in the end.

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