Should I continue to live comfortably, or should I let myself go out and hit a wall?

I used to be a teacher, and now I do foreign trade, when I was in school, I felt that this job was good, and there was a director of the Forestry Bureau who signed up for his son on a duty, and he said that I had been the director of the bureau for more than ten years, and now I have a house, and the money is not tens of thousands, and those who have the money to buy cars are doing business. Indeed, we may still rely on the iron rice bowl, and others no longer consider the rice bowl, but the house, the car, from the bottom of our hearts we are reluctant to lose the iron rice bowl, but it is this iron rice bowl that also hinders us from making a fortune, we are still a teacher in ten years, at most the salary is raised, but the material has risen even more, calculate that we are falling wages, come out and start some business on our own, and in a few years it will be a small boss, or even faster, like my current basic salary is twice that of the school, and the future is very promising, so, If you can't get out, it means a fixed life, I also hope that you can use your young capital to come out and earn, don't go down the old road for decades, that kind of life is also very boring, I believe you are very good in school, and you are good when you come out!

I still support you to go out to start a business, or change a job, in fact, the reason is very simple, we live in the world for only a few years, if you live like this, maybe you will not forgive yourself until you die, sigh your inaction, besides, your current job, you have seen the end at a glance, promotion space, no money! It's better to put pressure on yourself, go out and break through, you are still young, even if you hit a wall, it is a life experience, a kind of experience, but you have to give yourself a direction, such as you say you want to open a computer, I don't know whether to sell a computer or computer maintenance, if it is a maintenance you have to improve your professional skills, a little direction guidance, I hope it will help you!

Rush! It's a pity if you don't have some wind and rain in life!

Moreover, "Sorrow can rejuvenate the country, and Yiyu can die!" ”

You're not an iron rice bowl either!

Let's go ahead and have a little fun in life!

The value of life lies in the process, and it is obvious that the "all-round little clerk" is very boring all his life. If you go to break through, the process must be more exciting than this, and of course it will be full of wind and rain. The choice is yours.

There is no doubt that you don't like to live like this forever, comfortable, but mediocre, boring, and uneventful.

Otherwise you wouldn't have come here to ask.

The world is big, don't work with a bunch of old men, look at them as a whole, annoyed to death.

I believe you will succeed, don't continue to live a comfortable life now, go out and bump, in exchange for a more comfortable life, you don't have this idea very much now, if you don't fight now, you will regret it in the future Don't let down the motivation in your heart....Go for it....Trust you.

Just take advantage of your youth and energy, or go out and break through, so that you can also make your life more exciting! If you've been in school, don't you feel like you're not worth your life at all! Let's go out and do it yourself!

When the time comes, you must go out and break ......

You're still young, you should go out! In such an environment is not conducive to human development! Women should find a good mother-in-law, but if they don't have enough ability, they won't be respected by others!

Life is not easy, you don't have to crave the understanding and approval of others in everything, and live your life quietly. If the heart does not move, the wind can help. If you don't hurt, the years will be fine.

Challenges are exciting, comfort will only make us slowly degrade, the ability to react decreased, to have a sense of adventure, not to ask you to risk death, that is the essential difference, the experience of life comes from taking action, enthusiasm, you will find the unique beauty of this world, bravely take the first step, come on.

The most ironic thing in life is that the rabbit loses to the tortoise - obviously he can run better than the tortoise, but he loses to the most despised opponent in full view. Many times we are not bad, but we ourselves put a stumbling block on ourselves, and this stumbling block may be arrogance, low self-esteem, timidity, laziness, one-sidedness and narrow-mindedness of character, impetuousness and vulgarity of motivation and interests, and other unfavorable psychology, which trips you up, not yourself.

To be brave enough to take the first step, life needs challenges.

There is also salvation, take you to do micro-business.

Old and comfortable, do you still want to find guilt?

Sometimes, because people always have a lazy side. When this side immerses you for a long time, it will fall.

In times of peace, thinking about danger will change, and there will be no trouble.

The ancients said: Born in sorrow and die in peace.

People are going to be comfortable, and they don't feel their own value anymore.

He lost the confidence to live.

The meaning of life has been lost.

Fall does not necessarily depend on everyone's will and concept, but regression is certain.

I wish the landlord good health and happiness.

Possibly, but I think the pressure will be more depraved.

Yes, life is too comfortable and makes people, and there is no goal to strive for.

It's going to be because I'm in this situation right now.

The main thing is to let him open his heart, get used to this thing and not change it all at once, let him slowly participate in group activities, and slowly get to know people It is impossible to be isolated all the time.

If you can't change the environment, you have to adapt to it.

1. It is advisable that you have a faith. Our lives are given by God. The parents who raised us are visible to us. It is the Father of Heaven who truly and never changes!

2Have a faith, and pray to God. God will help you because God loves the world. Ask God and He will help you.

3 When you have a problem and read the Bible, you will find peace and joy in your own heart.

The Bible is the best book in the world.

4. When your inner world is full, your life is not boring.

5In addition, the current housing prices are so expensive, it is difficult for 90% of people to buy a house. This is a problem that the state is solving.

In the future, everyone can buy affordable housing.

You don't need to worry too much about the house.

6. Don't your parents have a house, if you want to buy a house for them, at least it means that you are very filial.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, look at the people around you, and you will be able to have an answer.

Filial piety of good children, parents are looking forward to their sons Jackie Chan, it is good to have this heart to fight for them, they do not want you to give them a comfortable life, as long as you live a peaceful life and live happily in the future, I believe this is the greatest reward for them, and it is enough to marry a daughter-in-law in the future, and it is enough to be filial to the second elder Do you say yes? Two or three thousand a month, compared to people in poor areas, you're pretty good, take your time and believe you can do it.

Everyone has this feeling, but you can't just think about it, you have to come up with a practical solution. It's a waste of time to imagine every day, but it's better to think about how you can do a better job, let alone make a lot of money if you can't do your current job well. Parents don't expect too much from their children.

If you make yourself tired or work in dangerous jobs in order to make them well, then your parents will only be more sad and unhappy. In your eyes, material comfort may be happiness, but ask your parents, what do they think is happy? Because you are going to give them happiness and not to impose on them what you think you are, you have to ask for their opinions.

In fact, earning more or less has little to do with the happiness of your parents, your parents just want you to visit them often, your parents want you to get married as soon as possible, and they hope that the family will be safe and healthy, not the material enjoyment you think. For example, if you do some dangerous work in order to make more money, I don't think they will be happy even if you give them more money. Filial piety is not measured by the amount of money, and happiness has nothing to do with money.

Don't think too much about unrealistic things and do the current work well. The Maxima of the 21st century is not waiting for Bole to pick it out, but to jump out by itself. As long as you are serious and responsible to do your job well, and do not forget to learn after work, I believe that you will slowly succeed, and then you will naturally have wealth.

If you are just immersed in your own fantasies, always thinking about getting rich overnight, and then letting your parents live a life of how they are, maybe you will slowly fall to the point where you are not as good as you are now. I hope you come on, I believe in you, at least you are very filial, it is impossible for God not to bless you. But only if you have to work on it yourself.

Friend, if you have children of your own, you will understand that parents only want their children to live well and be happy. If you have this heart, your parents will be very happy. Also, everyone's definition of happiness is different, what is happiness?

What is happiness does not mean that having money, a car and a house means happiness. A child is the most innocent, you just give him his favorite popsicle and he will feel very happy. Young people will also feel happy when they find a partner they love and love for themselves.

In the same way, parents will also feel happy when they see their children grow up to be successful. As sons, if you care, be filial, and love them, they will feel very happy! If you snubbed them, even if the house was golden, and you washed your feet in a golden bowl and a silver basin, do you think they would be happy?

Theoretically, it is not cost-effective to buy a house for your parents, and then rent it and sign a 10-year contract to let the elderly live in peace, which is also very comfortable.

Very filial! Very inspiring! There is nothing difficult in the matter, but I am afraid of people with hearts!

Let him make his own decisions about the affairs of young people, he is 20 years old, and you still have to arrange his affairs, and listen to you for everything, don't you think that managing too much will not be beneficial to his future life and growth? It doesn't hurt to be young and hit a wall! The elders always want to help the younger ones avoid unnecessary troubles that they think they have, but they don't experience and grow up!

I suggest that you can analyze the stakes for him, but let him make his own decisions and tell him that he must be responsible for the decisions he makes! Parents don't want to arrange everything for their children, do you have the ability to arrange them for a lifetime? Life is his own, and he must finish it by himself!

You should sharpen yourself more when you're young, can you be sure of your life at the age of twenty?

Moreover, with the development of the Internet, people have become more free to collaborate, so there has been a very important change in the way a person's value is measured. But within an organization, whether it is a first-class organization or a company's organization, what is the measure of personal value? It's a leader.

Whether a person does a good job or not, whether he likes the leader or not is the key. His joys and sorrows, his personal preferences, all have a fatal impact on a person's market value. And the uncertainty of the criterion of leadership preference is very large.

Maybe he just doesn't like you, then you may be ruined in a few years in your life.

Therefore, the future of the children is decided by themselves, and the thing that parents can do is not to become a burden to their children as much as possible, and not to harm their children.

This can only mean that he doesn't know the goods, tell him about the wages of other jobs around him, and it's best to let him find out for himself, maybe it will be useful.

Was it easy for him to get the job? Did you find him by your connections? If it is too easy, he will find it easy to find other high-paying jobs, and he will not cherish his work too much.

In fact, just by telling him various situations, he may not understand it very well, maybe only by changing jobs and trying, he can understand it. People are like that, it's hard to grow without some experience.

Young people will be a little arrogant, now this kind of job is very good, 20 years old is still young, you can let him stay in this company for a few years to accumulate experience before considering changing jobs or something.

Who will go to the street can get 100 yuan.