He didn t love me, and he was finally willing to let me go,,But why am I so sad,,

Updated on psychology 2024-04-20
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's been a habit for a long time, and I'll miss it anyway.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Feelings are such a thing, sometimes lost to know,

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Suffering? Finally survived? Sentimentally attached? After all, they've been together for so long?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because you've come to fall in love with him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because you loved him before.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Like you, don't think too much, live each day well, and believe that there is something better waiting for you in the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because you love him, find someone who loves you better than anything else!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Very normal! I'm more miserable than you now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I can understand your current mood, I want to open a little, see a little, let go a little, everything will be fine, the most important thing is to be kind to yourself and not let yourself be wronged, some things are not worth it!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    His sister, how many years have I lied to you. Don't be sad, good men are a lot.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Like me, I'm worse than you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because I love him, I am not used to not being around him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because you can't let him go.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because you're in love with him, and you can't bear it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's what you used to love....

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Can the mirror be broken and still reconciled? No matter how skilled you are, you can't get back to the same thing. In fact, the current society is like this, after weighing the pros and cons, the decision is made, regardless of true feelings or false feelings.

    As you can see from the screenshot above, you are more like two partners in cooperation than a couple's daily conversation. Whether it's because you're talking to him about your colleague's boyfriend, your ex's low self-esteem, or your disgust. After all, it is still a problem, the strength of reality cannot support each other's ambitions, and this is the fuse that began to disagree.

    From an emotional point of view, that is, you made the wrong choice from the beginning, and generally girls are looking for someone they appreciate, with similar abilities or stronger than themselves. But when you surrender the rules of the game to accept the beginning of a relationship, you have to bear the consequences, that is, you will never be warm to someone whose heart is not in you, especially a cold-blooded animal like a snake. No matter how much you give, or you think that although you are divided now, but you buy him all kinds of gifts, she will accept them all, but you are not in his life plan at all.

    To put it mildly, your parents gave you so much since you were a child, how many gifts did you buy for your parents? Maybe many people don't even have to fight for a long time, or they don't usually think of them at all. And for a person who appeared halfway, he still paid so much, and in the end he was full of thorns and physically and mentally exhausted.

    Why bother? > divide it, just divide it, some people appear to teach you something, the mission is completed and you will leave, live well, cherish the moment, learn how to love yourself first, and think about loving others or asking others to love you.

    I wish you a lover who will eventually become married, thanks for listening!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your needs in life are not very high, and you can meet them now, you can get along in this capacity, women are strong and men are weak (economic conditions), so that the male protagonist and the female protagonist can be outside, not to say that there is any prejudice, but to say that if you are both in love with each other, you feel that each other's personalities are very good or something, except for this pressure, then you can be together.

    As soon as you send him a message, he will be blocked, what kind of message is sent, do you want to get closer to his life, see if he has someone else, he can only accept the courier (self-esteem is not so strong) can accept what you give him, a year of breakup is indeed a bit long, if you can't meet someone better, and don't bother to look for it, just hurry up and chase him back.

    Go to his place to have a good chat with you, although he is content with the status quo, but if the future planning between you is within his acceptable range, this can at least give him a little comfort, and then you will slowly encourage him in the coming days, maybe an opportunity, he can also turn over.

    But however, some men can give a lot for a girl, so the possibility that he doesn't love you enough cannot be ruled out.

    You still need to be tempted, the guess that can be obtained just by chatting, really unless you are particularly familiar with him and trust, otherwise it is still difficult to do, and the more simple literal can still have mixed feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Feelings are two-sided. It can only be combined if both parties are in love.

    Feelings also need to be managed. Only when two people have similar views will they go far.

    If there is a problem, sit down and communicate sincerely, otherwise the problem will only get bigger. Find the right opportunity, the right place, with a sincere attitude.

    Good luck.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Many times, the person who loves you is close at hand, but it is often another person who can make you feel tender and worried. You weep for him and mourn for him; Only talk about giving, not a little return. You think it's love, but it's just human nature:

    What you can't get, it's the best. What is easy to get often does not know how to cherish. While we are scarred, we are also hurting those who love us deeply.

    Love is a thing that turns a thousand times, and maybe there will be a moment when you will repent - it turns out that you are also here.

    Actually, happiness is really simple. Think about it, do you have such people around you?

    He clearly remembers what flavor of snacks you like to eat, and when the two of them eat together, they will take the initiative to pick the fatty meat, bones, vegetable roots, and side dishes into their bowls;

    When you're in a bad mood, he'll be there for you quietly. But he won't ask what is going on, he will wait for you to take the initiative to tell him;

    Walking on the road, he will let you walk on the inside, laughing and saying that he is physically strong, even if he hits it, it will be fine;

    When he goes shopping, he will keep asking you, "Do you want this, do you want that?" ”;

    He never thinks you're fat, he always thinks you can't eat enough, you can't eat well;

    He interrogates you about your recent physical condition, cares about your sleep, always thinks that you can't take care of yourself, and sometimes says that you are like his daughter;

    When staring at you, I will use a very distressed look;

    Every time I hit **, I will wait for you to hang up first; Every time you separate, he will watch you disappear from his back and disappear from his sight;

    Before going to bed, he would ask more than once, "Is the quilt covered?" more than once. Don't leak air". When I wake up in the middle of the night, I will subconsciously cover you with a quilt;

    You inadvertently say that he looks good in a certain dress, and then you find out that he wears it all the time;

    often say "as long as you like, you can do anything";

    He has always been waiting for you, smiling at you from afar;

    often picks you up unexpectedly;

    If you hurt him unscrupulously, even if he gets angry again, he won't say a word seriously, but he will only get along with himself, such as having no appetite and not being able to sleep;

    If there is such a person in your life, don't give up on him, don't think that he will be with you after hurting him again and again; Don't pursue ethereal love, don't try moths to put out fires, and don't squander love just because you're young. Don't hesitate when it's time to let go, and don't let unworthy people hurt you again and again. Many times you think you're in love with that person, but you're just in love with it.

    Trust me, the person you love is right there for you, it's just that you don't find it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's not thorough, and there must be a love for you that hasn't been cut, this is the torture of love. Anyway, if you don't get along, you will be divided by love! Don't drag the mud and water, it's bad for everyone. Youth is coming back.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    He is your old saying, which has been passed down to the present: husband and wife are birds in the same neighborhood, and they fly separately when disaster comes. Love is indeed not a long-term thing, what eternal love is, it is just a panic made up by everyone's yearning for love, but then again, love is not unreliable, it depends on how you manage it.

    If you want two people to be together for a lifetime, you must first have love, which is not wrong, but why are so many people separated because of love. The reason is that love will not be transformed, and if it turns well, it will always persist, and if it turns bad, it will be separated. You have to learn to turn love into affection, and then into affection, so that love is continued and reborn forever.

    In fact, how many times a life will encounter love, no one can say this, but I want to tell you, every time you meet love, try your best to enjoy the happiness it brings you, this is an experience, people can't be too selfish, enjoy love when you are happy, when you lose it, you are not happy, no matter what, every relationship will bring you a refreshing feeling, give you unprecedented happiness, finally, I want to say, love is not omnipotent, it brings me happiness This is enough, Don't be too it, otherwise you will only feel uncomfortable.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The feelings of two people are mutual, and if you don't love, you don't love, which can be seen from his words and deeds, so I personally think it's better to let go. In a relationship, what is needed is not only the same interests, but more importantly, whether the three views of the two people are the same, whether the two people's attitudes towards life are the same, etc.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This man is so unmotivated, he should be put down, he is not worth your effort, and it is generally men who buy things for women, but in this relationship, you buy him a lot of things, don't you feel very humble? As a girl, don't use this way to please a man, since he said it's over, don't think about it, there are many beautiful things in life that we should cherish, such as loving our parents, friends, adjusting our mood, loving ourselves well, don't continue to pay for an unworthy person, you are the most important person.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Reluctant love is fruitless. He loved, but now he doesn't, he let go of you. When someone is tired, the other person desperately follows it, but it is useless, so let's calm down!

    If you really can't see the future, then you will be decisive to part with him. Besides, he is not trying to improve, you are always comparing others, and anyone who listens to it will be hurt. Let's cherish it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    According to your WeChat shortcut, and you posted a piece of personality content, in fact, fundamentally speaking, this man is still limited in his ability, or he is unwilling to fight for your marriage and work hard, there are also reasons for this, and another point is that he may feel that what you said has brought him a certain amount of pressure, so in a sense, he is not willing to give up on you, but because of the feeling you want, he should not be able to give you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    should still love you, but forced by life, some people are content with the status quo, such as him, and you may want to have a better life, he feels that he can't give you the life you want in his state, instead of making noise in the future, it is better to pretend not to love and finally let go.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Now it's useless to notice whether he loves you or not, he doesn't care about you anymore, not working hard is just an excuse, how can someone who loves you make you cranky here? Everyone is an adult, and timely stop loss is responsible for yourself and others, good luck.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think he really loves you, because his behavior is not very strange, it is just a manifestation of his love for you, so he will take this relationship so seriously.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Reluctant love is fruitless. You both actually love each other, it's just not a good fit. The marriage of two people should not only love each other, but also be suitable. He clearly knows that you are not suitable.

    It may be that you are too strong, a woman is a little stronger, and it is understandable to make yourself stronger, but you forgot to consider his feelings, men need a sense of security and a sense of feeling.

    You can be strong with others, but leave the gentlest side to him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Replace people, start a new relationship, there are many good men.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Then bye-bye, = not so many reasons,

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You're a woman, he's a man, maybe it's just playing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    When you have money, you will meet the opportunity of fate, and you will get up in a year or two!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The communication that men and women need!

    Since you are still willing to communicate!

    It shows that the other party still has your existence psychologically!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Your love is so humble! You have accepted the reality, and you are still wandering, since you don't want to separate, then why should he change for you? Don't you want to change yourself? Complain less, have expectations, and don't put love with extra strings.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Summary. It's normal for two people to stop loving each other for various reasons, and you choose to break up. Although they don't love each other anymore, they will still be sad when they break up.

    After two people have been together for a long time, they will definitely leave a lot of beautiful memories worth remembering. These fragments cannot be erased in an instant with the breakup. Often after a breakup, it will always surface, which is also a human nature.

    Therefore, although many people break up and no longer love this person, they will still be sad at some point.

    Hello, dear <>

    Hello. Why do we just quarrel together, and it will be so sad when we are separated.

    Two people no longer love each other for various reasons, and it is normal for you to choose Zhaohan to break up. Although they don't love each other anymore, they will still be sad when they break up. The two of them have been talking about each other for a long time, and they will definitely leave a lot of beautiful memories worth remembering.

    These fragments cannot be erased in an instant with the breakup. Often after a breakup, it will always emerge, which is also an old mantra of human nature. Therefore, although many people break up and no longer love this person, they will still be sad at some point.

    I still miss him every night.

    This is normal, after all, we have been together before.

    Dear, how long have you broken up?

    I wanted to salvage the relationship and just broke up.

    You still love him, don't you?

    Well. Is it just that you are still not used to being with you without him?

    Since you still love him, go and redeem him, after all, it is not easy to find a favorite one in the vast sea of people.

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