Have you ever fallen in love with a place because you re alone?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because the experience of a person falling in love with a city does not exist for me, otherwise I would be in the city of the person I like. I like a city simply because it has the scenery I like, or the food I like. Honestly, I don't like a city because of a person.

    Although he said that he wanted to go to the city of the male star he liked, he was just talking, the price of his city was very high, and if I went, I would probably starve to death for three days. At that time, I didn't see the people I was going to meet, big stars. It's impossible to meet by chance.

    Besides, he flies everywhere a lot, and I can't get anything but starvation. So no matter how much that city is because of that person, I still don't like it.

    Zhang Ailing's ** "Love in a Fallen City" said: Because a person falls in love with a city. I actually admire this kind of feeling, if it weren't for the deep love for someone, how could a city be destroyed because of that person, even if that city carries so much of the past.

    The city is the carrier of the soul, a talking old man with a story. It's okay to be thankful because it accommodates the person you like, but you don't fall in love with a city because of that.

    There is a poem in ancient times that says: The world says that I love Chang'an, but in fact, I only love Chang'an. This sounds very good, but if you can't meet and meet that person if you live in the same city, then no matter how emotional that city is, I don't think I will like it anymore, I believe that a person's ruthlessness will make me believe in the thin feelings of a city.

    I like lavender so I want to go to Provence, because I like to see the smoke and rain in Jiangnan, so I want to go to Jiangnan, but I never want to go to the city that likes him because I like that person, I also believe that I will love the house and Wu, but maybe my love for that person is not very strong.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The meaning of this sentence is that the city is no different from other cities, but because the city is inhabited by people you once loved, this city is very different and unforgettable.

    People will meet many people in their lives, some are just passers-by, some are friends, some are destined to be with each other for a lifetime, and some people are in love after all, and they can only be okay in the end.

    Every brief encounter in life gives life a different color. Because of a person you begin to understand a song, because of a person you begin to fall in love with a city.

    Some people say that falling in love with a city is because there is someone they like living in the city, but in fact, falling in love with a city may be for a vivid scenery in the city and a childhood past. Maybe it's just for this city, it's like falling in love with someone, sometimes you don't need any reason, there is no antecedent, it has nothing to do with Fengyue, just love.

    It's not just that you can be together as long as you love each other, after all, the affairs of two people can't be solved by just one person. Because no matter how much you love, if the other party doesn't accept it, it can only be a falling flower, intentionally ruthless. Of course, the most ideal love in the world is two hearts, a lifetime of each other, passing by, can only say that each other's love is deep and shallow, let go of the fulfillment may give people a poignant feeling.

    It sounds a little helpless, but no one can deny that it's not because of love.

    It's not difficult to fall in love with someone, it's easy and it's not easy, the relationship between two people is not everyone who has good luck and can meet it, loving someone is very bitter and not bitter, very sweet and not sweet, and the love that never leaves is not something that anyone can have if they want to. Parting is sometimes sad, and no matter how reluctant you are, you have to let go. Instead of being reluctant to give up, it is better to fulfill each other and wish each other well.

    People who love each other because they love each other, so they will inexplicably have a good impression of the city where their lover lives. Even if people go to the empty building, they will inexplicably want to get closer. It's just because there is a person who once loved deeply lives here.

    Because a person falls in love with a city, he should forget himself at least once in his life for someone, not seeking results, not seeking peers, just hoping to meet you in this city in the most beautiful years.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This sentence is a kind of love house and black meaning.

    When we like someone, everything about the other person will make our hearts move, she or he has stayed somewhere, and what she or he likes, will make us like it.

    When we meet someone we like in a city, then the city will be incomparably beautiful in our hearts because of her or him.

    It's a real emotion that will love the city because you fall in love with someone.

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  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's literal. Because I like a person, even the city where this person is located becomes acceptable.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love someone and slowly like all of him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The person who can say such things or feel the same way must be the one who loves the most deeply and truly in love. Because of such "love and black", such "love because of love" not only requires the courage to dare to love, but also to bear the consequences of daring to love, whether it is good or bad, because not every love song has good memories. The person who is loved is his whole world, no matter where he or she is, even if he is at the end of the world, he has no fear of wandering, because that is where the person he loves is.

    My friend Mumi is such a person. Since she and her husband got married, they have been following the changes in her husband's study and work, from domestic to abroad, from abroad to domestic, from north to south, and then from south to north. It wasn't until the child went to school that he stopped following for the sake of the child's schooling.

    During this period, she had to start over almost every time she went to a new city, re-adapt to a new environment, find a suitable job again, find new friends...It's not that there are no worries, it's not that there are no grievances, but these are not as important as the person in your heart.

    Someone once said to her: This kind of love is desperate, and it seems that there is no self in love. And she said: as long as he understands, everything is worth it. Since you have made the choice, you must stick to your choice and go all the way...

    Probably "What is the love in the world, is it worth making a promise of life and death?" "That's all. Would you fall in love with a city because you "fell in love with someone"?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    We will fall in love with someone and like a certain city, because the person we like is there, so half of our hearts are there, and since then we have left our precious footprints in this city.

    Even if it is a strange city for us and we have never thought of setting foot in it, since the woman (he) in our hearts stopped there, this strange city is no longer strange, but has become a place we yearn for.

    Again and again in that special city left sweet and unforgettable memories, but also a stupid reluctance and reluctant to leave, the city gave us the distance, but also gave us the courage and determination to witness each other's love.

    I like a city because there is a person living in that city, and since then the name of that city and your name have been tied together in my heart, so I have a certain affection for a city that is not familiar to me, and even feel that it is more important than the city I live in.

    For people in long-distance relationships, it is normal to often shuttle between cities and bridges, and no matter how developed the traffic is, it cannot eliminate a person who shortens the distance in order to find another person, because the distance between cities is destined to not be able to see the person he meets at all times.

    Therefore, I began to pay attention to the weather and news trends in your city, just as I was concerned about my hometown, this concern is not that I want it on purpose, but that I have naturally had such an instinctive special emotional reaction in my heart since I like people in a certain city.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I always see love words such as "because of a person, fall in love with a city" on Weibo and WeChat, every time I see these, I always think that the person who can say this sentence should be emotionally rich and artistic, maybe he is a writer who is in love, in order to express his deep love, he used exaggerated techniques to boldly express his heart, I like this expression, and I am more addicted to this macro book-like affection, and secretly look forward to the emergence of a person in my life who can make me fall in love with a city. What a happy and sweet thing it was.

    I am glad that I chose to come to Suzhou. Here we meet, fall in love, and leave each other. At that time, I really believed that I would fall in love with a city because of a person, not the beauty of the city that fascinated me, it was your tenderness that made me intoxicated, about us, we are all closely connected with the city.

    Since then, I have fallen in love with Suzhou, a place where love is nurtured, a place full of memories. Today, you are still in this city, but you no longer stay for me. In a trance, my love for this city was much more indifferent, and there was no more excitement and intoxication at the beginning, perhaps just because I ignored the premise of the phrase "because of a person, fall in love with a city", and the most important prelude--- we are in love.

    If you don't love each other, even if you have affection, it is also sadness; If you don't love each other, you won't find that person even if you go all over the city. Leave a trace of regret and infinite sadness.

    I've always loved rainy days, misty rain, gray skies, lonely streets, crisp and single sounds of nature, walking into the drizzle with an umbrella, or running unprepared under the heavy rain, all of which are extremely romantic. Now the autumn rain was pouring outside the window as usual, and the sound of the rain could still be heard through the window, but I was unconsciously sad, and I could no longer give birth to love. I remember the day you left, it was also so rainy and rainy.

    Yesterday, when I was looking through an old book, I pulled out two movie tickets, and I held them for a long time, and I saw tears. The handwriting on the ticket is no longer clear, but I remembered the name of the movie for a while, it was the first time we went to see a movie together, and I was excited for a long time that night, not because of the ups and downs of the plot, the happy ending, but because you were by my side at that time. I suddenly realized that I hadn't seen this type of movie for a long, long time, as if it had been since you left.

    I naively thought that no matter how much I loved someone, I couldn't lose my reason and pride, because I had to be myself first. But sensibility triumphs over reason, and before I know it, I'm already on the passive side, my eyes always following you, and after you've disappeared, I'm at a loss. At that time, it felt like I was the only one left in the whole world, lonely and helpless.

    The feeling of being hollowed out of my heart turned out to be so sad.

    Since then, it has been believed that because a man fell in love with a city. From then on I believe that because one does not love a city, because one man, I am no longer me.

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